WELCOME TO CHATEAU DU MER BEACH RESORT

If this is your first time in my site, welcome! Chateau Du Mer is a beach house and a Conference Hall. The beach house could now accommodate 10 guests, six in the main floor and four in the first floor( air conditioned room). In addition, you can now reserve your vacation dates ahead and pay the rental fees via PayPal. I hope to see you soon in Marinduque- Home of the Morions and Heart of the Philippines. The photo above was taken during our first Garden Wedding ceremony at The Chateau Du Mer Gardens. I have also posted my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes in this site. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own, but I have no intention on the infringement of your copyrights!

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Marinduque Awaits You

Tuesday, July 21, 2026

My Reflection During and After My Massage-An Update

There is a quiet intelligence in the hands of a skilled massage therapist, one that goes far beyond technique. It is not just about pressure or movement, but about attention. A kind of listening that does not rely on words.

Each week (sometimes twice per week), as I settle into the familiar rhythm of my massage session, I notice something subtle but powerful: the hands that work on my body do not rush. They stay. They respond to every small change they feel beneath the surface, tightness, warmth, resistance, release. It is as if they are in conversation with my body, adjusting moment by moment.

What stands out most is how these hands build comfort. When they find even the slightest hint of ease in one area, they do not abandon it. Instead, they gently deepen it, reinforcing that sense of relief until it becomes more than just a fleeting sensation. Then, almost seamlessly, they carry that comfort to the next area, as if transferring a calm signal from one part of the body to another.

Over time, this creates something remarkable. Relaxation stops being isolated. It is no longer just a loose shoulder or a softened calf. It becomes continuous, flowing across the body, connecting areas that once felt disconnected by pain or tension. The body begins to remember what it feels like to be at ease as a whole.

For someone managing chronic discomfort, especially in the legs as I do, this experience is more than physical relief. It is a kind of reset. A reminder that the body is capable of coherence, not just fragmentation.

There is also a deeper lesson in this process. Healing does not always come from force or intensity. Sometimes, it comes from consistency, patience, and the careful amplification of what is already working, even if it begins as something small.

In a world that often pushes for quick fixes, this weekly experience offers a different perspective: that lasting comfort can be built gradually, attentively, and with care that listens as much as it acts.

And perhaps that is the real art of massage, not just relieving tension, but teaching the body how to feel whole again. Thank You, Indy for your Healing touch. May your Tribe Increase! 


Meanwhile, From the Face Book Page of a Massage Therapist:
What My Massage Therapist Would Say!

~ My hands settle gently over your body, following the quiet rhythm of your breath and allowing every slow, continuous movement to guide you a little deeper into stillness.
Each glide naturally grows from the one before it, creating a rhythm your body can surrender to without ever losing its sense of continuity.
As my hands continue to travel, they begin to slow everything beneath them.
Your breathing softens. The weight of your body settles more fully into the table.
Muscles that have been quietly working throughout the day begin to release their effort, allowing a growing sense of ease to spread through your body.
My hands stay with every subtle change they feel.
They gently deepen every sensation of comfort they discover, carrying it from one part of your body to the next until relaxation is no longer felt in isolated places, but through your whole body.
Every movement becomes slower.
Like a gentle wave, my hands continue carrying you downward, allowing each slow glide to settle a little deeper than the last, until your body gradually lets go of the need to hold, to anticipate, or to remain alert.
The rhythm remains steady. The touch remains continuous.
My hands keep gathering that growing sense of calm and gently spreading it through your body, allowing every movement to prepare the next, every breath to soften the one that follows, every moment to invite you a little deeper into yourself.
Little by little, the outside world begins to fade into the background.
Your awareness gathers around the quiet sensations my hands continue to create, allowing stillness to become richer, heavier, and more complete with every passing movement.

My Leg Massage Weekly Therapy


Easy and Not too East Questions for THD Seniors Trivia Program

List of Questions on Science, Opera and History for my THD senior Trivia group 

Since The Heritage Downtown (THD) audience consists mostly of seniors with diverse educational backgrounds, here are a mix of easy and moderately challenging questions. 

Here are some of my suggestions.

Science Trivia

Easy

  1. What planet is known as the Red Planet?
    Answer: Mars
  2. What is the chemical symbol for gold?
    Answer: Au
  3. How many bones are there in the adult human body?
    Answer: 206
  4. What gas do plants absorb from the atmosphere?
    Answer: Carbon dioxide
  5. What is the largest organ in the human body?
    Answer: The skin
  6. Water freezes at what temperature on the Celsius scale?
    Answer: 0°C
  7. What force keeps us on the ground?
    Answer: Gravity
  8. What part of the body pumps blood?
    Answer: The heart
  9. What is H₂O commonly known as?
    Answer: Water
  10. Which vitamin is produced when our skin is exposed to sunlight?
    Answer: Vitamin D

Moderate

  1. What is the hardest natural substance on Earth?
    Answer: Diamond
  2. Which element has the atomic number 1?
    Answer: Hydrogen
  3. What is the speed of light in a vacuum?
    Answer: Approximately 186,000 miles per second (300,000 km/s)
  4. Who developed the theory of relativity?
    Answer: Albert Einstein
  5. Which planet rotates on its side?
    Answer: Uranus
  6. What is the largest moon of Jupiter?
    Answer: Ganymede
  7. What is the smallest unit of an element that retains its properties?
    Answer: An atom
  8. Which blood type is known as the universal donor?
    Answer: O negative
  9. What is the powerhouse of the cell?
    Answer: The mitochondrion
  10. What particle carries a negative electric charge?
    Answer: Electron

Opera Trivia

Easy

  1. Who composed The Barber of Seville?
    Answer: Gioachino Rossini
  2. Which opera begins with "Figaro! Figaro! Figaro!"?
    Answer: The Barber of Seville
  3. What language are most classic operas written in?
    Answer: Italian
  4. What is the highest female singing voice?
    Answer: Soprano
  5. What is the lowest male singing voice?
    Answer: Bass
  6. Which famous opera features the aria "Nessun Dorma"?
    Answer: Turandot
  7. What is a duet?
    Answer: A song performed by two singers.
  8. Which famous tenor became known as one of "The Three Tenors"?
    Answer: Luciano Pavarotti

Moderate

  1. Who composed The Ring Cycle?
    Answer: Richard Wagner
  2. In which city is the famous La Scala opera house?
    Answer: Milan
  3. Which opera features Violetta Valéry?
    Answer: La Traviata
  4. Who composed Carmen?
    Answer: Georges Bizet
  5. Which composer wrote over 25 operas including La Bohème and Madama Butterfly?
    Answer: Giacomo Puccini
  6. What does "prima donna" literally mean?
    Answer: First lady (leading female singer)
  7. Which opera ends with the heroine stabbing herself?
    Answer: Madama Butterfly
  8. Which composer was completely deaf when he wrote some of his greatest music?
    Answer: Ludwig van Beethoven

History Trivia

Easy

  1. Who was the first President of the United States?
    Answer: George Washington
  2. In which year did the United States declare independence?
    Answer: 1776
  3. Which ship brought the Pilgrims to America?
    Answer: The Mayflower
  4. Which wall fell in 1989?
    Answer: Fall of the Berlin Wall
  5. Who was known as the Maid of Orleans?
    Answer: Joan of Arc
  6. Which country gave the Statue of Liberty to the United States?
    Answer: France
  7. Which ocean did Christopher Columbus cross in 1492?
    Answer: Atlantic Ocean
  8. Which famous ship sank on its maiden voyage in 1912?
    Answer: RMS Titanic
  9. Who wrote the Declaration of Independence?
    Answer: Thomas Jefferson
  10. What war was fought between the North and South in the United States?
    Answer: American Civil War

Moderate 

  1. Which emperor was defeated at the Battle of Waterloo?
    Answer: Napoleon Bonaparte
  2. Which document limited the power of the English king in 1215?
    Answer: Magna Carta
  3. Who was Britain's Prime Minister during most of World War II?
    Answer: Winston Churchill
  4. Which civilization built Machu Picchu?
    Answer: The Inca
  5. Which Roman city was destroyed by the eruption of Mount Vesuvius in A.D. 79?
    Answer: Pompeii
  6. Who was the last emperor of Russia?
    Answer: Nicholas II
  7. Which treaty officially ended World War I?
    Answer: Treaty of Versailles
  8. Which explorer first led an expedition to circumnavigate the globe?
    Answer: Ferdinand Magellan (Although he died during the voyage, his expedition completed the circumnavigation.)
  9. In what year did the Norman Conquest occur?
    Answer: 1066
  10. Which ancient wonder was located in Alexandria, Egypt?
    Answer: The Lighthouse (Pharos) of Alexandria
World History:



David K-The Boy That Solve the Puzzle by Veronica Arriaga


https://acrobat.adobe.com/id/urn:aaid:sc:VA6C2:8cd9c535-368a-45b5-b9bd-7c348444b6f3?fbclid=IwY2xjawTMxV1leHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETFZUVNPZXA4MGNHMDBuNm42c3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHjaiMdhpJyYYDFOGUli5e1dS82uqCZr3WQNhN_Dy8MFy0LbAHBDzrkIVg5x7_aem_ssgs6ryBhVOMMXxyg2RWXQ&viewer%21megaVerb=group-discover

Thank You Veronica, for the above write up. Among some testimonials of my writings and Life here at THD, your write-up above as inspired by your grandson, I will always treasure. May I reiterate you continue encouraging your grandson to get involve writing projects similar to what you wrote about me.     

Summary of the Above Article: 

David K, a clever boy in Heritage Downtown, used his intelligence and perseverance to solve a mysterious riddle that promised a treasure. Through collaboration, creativity, and strategic thinking learned from a bridge game, he revealed that true wealth lies in sharing talents and helping others, inspiring his community and demonstrating that heroism involves uniting and uplifting others.

https://acrobat.adobe.com/id/urn:aaid:sc:VA6C2:8cd9c535-368a-45b5-b9bd-7c348444b6f3

Meanwhile, my Photos of the Day:

My Two Great Grandsons- Graham King and Beau Joseph 

Second Caricature Photos of me with Corrected Birthdays- A very proud Super LOLO 


 

𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑹𝑰𝑽𝑬𝑹 𝑻𝑯𝑨𝑻 𝑹𝑬𝑭𝑼𝑺𝑬𝑫 𝑻𝑶 𝑫𝑰𝑬- Iloilo River


𝑻𝑯𝑬 𝑹𝑰𝑽𝑬𝑹 𝑻𝑯𝑨𝑻 𝑹𝑬𝑭𝑼𝑺𝑬𝑫 𝑻𝑶 𝑫𝑰𝑬
𝘚𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘤𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘣𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘪𝘥𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘬𝘺𝘴𝘤𝘳𝘢𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴. 𝘐𝘭𝘰𝘪𝘭𝘰 𝘣𝘶𝘪𝘭𝘵 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘧𝘶𝘵𝘶𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘢 𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳.
Once dismissed as a polluted estuary suffering from decades of neglect, the Iloilo River has become one of the Philippines' most celebrated examples of urban ecological restoration. Its transformation has earned recognition not just at home, but on the world stage.
The river rehabilitation program received the 𝘎𝘰𝘭𝘥 𝘈𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥 at the 2010 𝘐𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘓𝘪𝘷𝘊𝘰𝘮 𝘈𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘴, followed by the 𝘚𝘪𝘭𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘈𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥 at the 2011 𝘓𝘪𝘷𝘊𝘰𝘮 𝘈𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘴 for advancing integrated and sustainable river management.
In 2013, the Iloilo River became the 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘈𝘴𝘪𝘢𝘯 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘵 in the prestigious 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘐𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘢𝘭 𝘙𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘱𝘳𝘪𝘻𝘦... 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥'𝘴 𝘩𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘩𝘰𝘯𝘰𝘳𝘴 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯.
The rehabilitation program also won the 2018 𝘎𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘗𝘰𝘰𝘬 𝘈𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥, recognizing it as one of the country's most outstanding local governance innovations.
More recently, the Iloilo River Esplanade received the 2024 𝘈𝘴𝘪𝘢𝘯 𝘛𝘰𝘸𝘯𝘴𝘤𝘢𝘱𝘦 𝘈𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥 for exemplary urban landscape design and sustainability.
Its influence reached beyond Iloilo. In 2015, experts, policymakers, and environmental leaders from across the Asia-Pacific gathered in the city to adopt the 𝑰𝒍𝒐𝒊𝒍𝒐 𝑫𝒆𝒄𝒍𝒂𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒐𝒏 𝑰𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝑹𝒊𝒗𝒆𝒓 𝑩𝒂𝒔𝒊𝒏 𝑴𝒂𝒏𝒂𝒈𝒆𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒕... a landmark call for science-based, community-driven, and climate-resilient river governance that continues to inspire watershed restoration efforts across the region.
This three-part series tells the story behind those awards.
Not the story of a beautiful river.
But of a city that chose to save it before it was too late.

Meanwhile, my Photo of the Day:

This breathtaking view captures the 𝗜𝗹𝗼𝗶𝗹𝗼 𝗥𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗘𝘀𝗽𝗹𝗮𝗻𝗮𝗱𝗲 𝗻𝗲𝗮𝗿 𝗠𝘂𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗲 𝗟𝗼𝗻𝗲𝘆, 𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗜𝗹𝗼𝗶𝗹𝗼 𝗥𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝗶𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗰 𝗜𝗹𝗼𝗶𝗹𝗼 𝗖𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗺𝘀 𝗛𝗼𝘂𝘀𝗲. A shining example of urban renewal, the Esplanade has transformed the riverfront into a vibrant public space where heritage, nature, and progress seamlessly come together.



Finally, My photo of the Day: Playful Photo of Great Grand Son Beau Joseph


Beau Joseph not Joesph- I will correct AI on this later -I am running low on my free Memory subscription.
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Is There a Gene for Aging? Slowing Down the Aging Process?

This blog is inspired from the numerous positive responses from my short novel, discussing a fictional story of a Filipino-American Scientist who received a Nobel Prize on his research and discovery of anti-aging compounds from wild plant extracts in the Philippines, Dr Derek Mendoza.     

🧬I wonder if there is a Gene for aging? How can we slow down the aging process?  Or have you ever wondered if there's a specific gene that makes us grow old—or maybe one that could help us stay young? 

The short answer is: There’s no single “aging gene.” But scientists have found several genes that influence how we age. Here's the break down.

🧠 The Aging Process is Like a Symphony

Just imagine your body as an orchestra. Aging isn’t caused by just one bad instrument. Instead, it’s how all the instruments (your genes) play together over time—some speeding things up, others slowing it down.


🔬 Here are the Key Players in the “Aging Symphony”:

1. 🕯️ Sirtuins

These are like your body’s “repair crew.” They help fix damaged DNA and calm down inflammation. When you eat less or exercise, these genes work harder—and that may slow aging!

2. 🧠 FOXO3

People who live past 100 often have a special version of this gene. It helps your cells deal with stress and survive longer.

3. 🚫 mTOR Pathway

This gene tells your body when to grow—and when to slow down. Turning it down slightly (like with calorie restriction or special compounds) may help you live longer.

4, 🧬 Telomerase & Telomeres

Every time your cells divide, their “end caps” (called telomeres) get shorter. When they’re too short, the cell stops working. The enzyme telomerase can help repair them—but it’s a delicate balance.


😮 So, Can We "Turn Off" Aging?

Not yet! But understanding these genes has led to exciting ideas:

  • Anti-aging research

  • Longevity pills in development ( mentioned in my short novel)

  • Healthy lifestyle tips based on genetics


✅ What You Can Do

Even if you didn’t win the genetic lottery, you can help your “aging genes” work better:

  • Eat well 🌿

  • Stay active 🚶

  • Get enough sleep 😴

  • Reduce stress 🧘

  • Stay curious and connected ❤️


🧓 Final Thought

Aging isn’t about one bad gene—it’s about how we care for the amazing body we have. Science is learning more every day. Who knows? In the near future, living to 110 might become the new normal. However, it will not be in my life time, but perhaps in the life time of my first great grand son, Graham Everett King. 

Meanwhile, here are 80 examples of Tautonyms 


Lastly, Tanzania's Mountain of God Volcano
 Imagine a volcano so unique that it defies the very laws of geology, spewing black lava that turns white as snow. Ol Doinyo Lengai, Tanzania’s "Mountain of God," isn’t just a volcano—it’s a natural wonder that challenges everything we know about Earth’s fiery forces.

Ol Doinyo Lengai, known as the "Mountain of God" in the poetic Maasai language, stands as one of Earth’s most extraordinary geological wonders. Located in Tanzania’s breathtaking landscape, this volcano is a true anomaly—it’s the only active volcano on the planet that erupts natro-carbonatite lava, a rare type of molten rock that defies the silica-based norm. Unlike the fiery red and orange flows of typical volcanoes, Ol Doinyo Lengai’s lava is strikingly black, a result of its unique chemical composition.
But the marvels don’t stop there. This enigmatic lava erupts at a surprisingly low temperature of just 510 degrees Celsius, compared to the scorching 1100 degrees Celsius of Hawaii’s basaltic lava. And when this black lava meets moisture, it undergoes a magical transformation, turning into a brilliant white. From a distance, the summit appears to be dusted with snow, but in reality, it’s a dazzling display of nature’s alchemy at work.
Ol Doinyo Lengai is more than just a volcano—it’s a living laboratory that challenges our understanding of geology and ignites our curiosity about the planet’s hidden wonders. What other secrets might this "Mountain of God" hold, and what can its unique eruptions teach us about the dynamic forces shaping our world?

How Old is Old-Connection, Purpose and Curiosity

My AI Caricature -A Short Visual Autobiography by ChatGPT 

I have been thinking about a question that seems simple on the surface but grows more complex the longer you sit with it: how old is old?

In America, “old” often comes with a number attached-65, maybe 70, sometimes 80. It is the age of retirement, Medicare, senior discounts, and, in many ways, quiet social expectations about slowing down. But numbers alone feel inadequate. They do not capture the lived texture of aging, especially when you observe it up close in a senior living community or within your own body.

I live among people who would be categorized as “old,” yet I see a wide spectrum of vitality. One neighbor in her late 80s walks every morning with a steady rhythm, greeting the day as if it still holds promises. Another, younger by a decade, struggles with mobility and fatigue. So which one is old?

It reminds me of Filipino cultural perspectives, where age has traditionally been tied not just to years, but to role and respect. Elders are not simply “old”; they are carriers of memory, anchors of family identity, and often the moral compass of the household. In that context, aging is not decline, it is accumulation. You do not become less; you become more.

Yet here in the United States, aging can sometimes feel like a gradual erasure. Society celebrates youth, speed, and novelty. The older you get, the more invisible you risk becoming. And that invisibility can shape how people see themselves. When someone begins to say, “I’m old now,” it is often less about their physical condition and more about how they believe they are perceived.

From a physical standpoint, aging is undeniable. I feel it in my own body, especially in the quiet language of chronic pain. My weekly massage sessions have become not just therapy, but a conversation with time itself. Tight muscles, lingering soreness, the slow recovery—these are reminders that the body keeps score. But even here, there is nuance. Pain does not always mean frailty. Sometimes it reflects endurance—the miles walked, the burdens carried, the years lived fully.

So again, how old is old?

I think “old” begins not at a specific age, but at a shift in mindset. It is when curiosity fades, when engagement with the world narrows, when the future feels closed rather than open. Conversely, I have seen people in their 90s who are still asking questions, still forming opinions about world events, still participating in conversations about culture, politics, and technology. They are not old in the way the word is often used.

Consider this: a 75-year-old who is learning to use AI tools to tell stories or connect with others is, in many ways, younger in spirit than a 45-year-old who has stopped adapting altogether. Age, then, is not just biological-it is relational, intellectual, and emotional.

In my own observations, especially within the senior community, the people who age best are those who maintain three things: connection, purpose, and curiosity. Connection keeps them grounded in relationships. Purpose gives them a reason to wake up each day. Curiosity keeps their inner world alive, even as the outer world changes.

If I were to offer an illustration, I would describe aging like a painting. In youth, the colors are bright and sharply defined. As time passes, layers are added, some dark, some light, some unexpected. From a distance, the painting may look more muted, but up close, it holds far greater depth and meaning. To call that painting “old” as a dismissal would be to miss its richness entirely.

So perhaps the better question is not “how old is old,” but “what does aging mean to us?”

If aging is loss, then “old” will always feel like an endpoint. But if aging is accumulation of stories, relationships, resilience, and insight, then “old” becomes something else entirely. It becomes a stage of life that still has value, still has voice, and still has relevance.

In the end, I am not convinced that “old” is a fixed destination. It is a label we assign, often too quickly, without considering the full humanity of the person wearing it.

And maybe, just maybe, the moment we stop asking how old someone is and start asking how they are living, that is when we begin to understand what aging really means.

Finally, My Photo Of the Day: My 3-Year Indoor Avocado Tree 

Finally, top Five News of the Day:
President Donald Trump announced a 50% tariff on most Canadian goods to retaliate for trade disputes. Meanwhile, U.S. and Iranian forces have exchanged strikes for the tenth consecutive night, and Houthi rebels declared a naval blockade on Saudi Arabia, escalating Middle East tensions.
The top five headlines for today include:
  1. Trade Escalation with Canada: President Trump imposed 50% tariffs on a broad range of Canadian imports (spanning autos, dairy, and alcohol), escalating trade disputes between the North American neighbors.
  2. Continued U.S.-Iran Conflict: The Pentagon reported nearly 100 U.S. troops have been injured over the last two weeks, as the U.S. military launched fresh strikes on Iran for the tenth consecutive night.
  3. Red Sea Blockade Threats: Yemen's Iran-backed Houthi militia declared a naval embargo on Saudi Arabian shipping ports, widening the conflict and causing spikes in global energy prices.
  4. Tropical Storm Bertha: Tropical Storm Bertha formed off the Florida Panhandle and is currently churning its way toward the northern Gulf Coast, prompting storm and flood alerts.
  5. Major Lettuce Recall: The FDA has expanded its warning regarding a Cyclospora outbreak. Shredded iceberg lettuce distributed by Taylor Farms remains the focus of an extensive traceback investigation linked to intestinal illnesses.


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