WELCOME TO CHATEAU DU MER BEACH RESORT

If this is your first time in my site, welcome! Chateau Du Mer is a beach house and a Conference Hall. The beach house could now accommodate 10 guests, six in the main floor and four in the first floor( air conditioned room). In addition, you can now reserve your vacation dates ahead and pay the rental fees via PayPal. I hope to see you soon in Marinduque- Home of the Morions and Heart of the Philippines. The photo above was taken during our first Garden Wedding ceremony at The Chateau Du Mer Gardens. I have also posted my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes in this site. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own, but I have no intention on the infringement of your copyrights!

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Marinduque Awaits You

Thursday, November 20, 2025

THD Activities That I am Aware Of Currently

This week, I was introduced to two new employees ( Vanessa and Elaine) in our Activities Section here at THD. When I was asked what activities, I can recommend,  I suggested more lunch excursions to ethnic restaurants in the Walnut Creek and Surrounding Areas- Filipino, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indian, Peruvian, Brazilian, Spanish, Thai, Vietnamese, Greek, Nigerian and other ethnic cuisines etc.....

I did asked my Writing Assistant on available data of what activities THD had sponsored since June 1, 2023, my first day here at THD. Here's what I learned.     

What The Heritage Downtown provide :💚

From your website and other sources, here are the key activity categories and programs at The Heritage Downtown (THD) in Walnut Creek, CA:

  1. Lectures / Educational Programs

  2. Live Entertainment / Concerts

    • Robust health & wellness program: fitness center, yoga studio, pool, etc. theheritagedowntown.com

    • Weekly fitness classes run in partnership with Live 2 B Healthy, including yoga, strength and balance exercises, Tai Chi, chair Volleyball and water aerobics. theheritagedowntown.com

    • Guided walks into downtown Walnut Creek (to get coffee, froyo, or just stroll) are explicitly part of the wellness offering. theheritagedowntown.com

  3. Dining

    • On-site fine dining via Newton’s Fine Dining, serving breakfast, lunch, dinner, and Sunday brunch. The Kitchen has no Fryers, so French Fries have never been served with our hamburgers or cheese burgers. I was told a Fryer has been ordered.     theheritagedowntown.com+1

    • Emphasis on fresh, organic, and locally sourced ingredients (e.g., from farmers’ markets). theheritagedowntown.com

    • Social “lunch walks” to downtown restaurants are part of the activity calendar. theheritagedowntown.com

  4. Social Activities

    • Examples mentioned: Thursday Night Cap and Bingo and  Friday Afternoons Cocktail Hour  theheritagedowntown.com

    • Arts & crafts, holiday celebrations, movie nights, and book clubs are implied in their social programming. walnutcreekmagazine.com+1

  5. Off-Site Cultural Excursions

    • Organized group trips to downtown Walnut Creek, including to the Lesher Center for the Arts. theheritagedowntown.com+1

    • Because of the location, residents are very well positioned to walk to downtown restaurants, the farmers’ market, shops, and cultural venues. theheritagedowntown.com

    • The “Fall Events” page explicitly references resident outings, shuttle service, and priority / group ticketing for Lesher Center events. theheritagedowntown.com


      7. Wine / Culinary Events

      According to a profile in Walnut Creek Magazine, there are occasional wine tastings and seminars with veteran sommeliers. walnutcreekmagazine.com

    • Their “Downtown Why” includes fine dining, and shopping & walking tours as lifestyle pillars. theheritagedowntown.com

  6. Shows / Cinema

    • According to Walnut Creek Magazine, there is an onsite cinema in the community for daily screenings (independent films, foreign, musicals, comedies). walnutcreekmagazine.com

  7. Wellness Partnerships

  8. Community & Culture

Here are some of the Resident-Led Activities Currently 

Mahjong ( American, Hongkong and Philippines variation),  Bridge,   (Party), Canasta, Mexican Train, Rummycube, Scrabble,  Chair volleyball, Corn Hole, Ladder ball, Meditation and Bingo.  

Finally, A Suggestion from Many of My Fellow Residents:

At present THD has an in-house hair saloon, by appointment. The Beautician/Barber is only available 2-3 days per week. I relayed to THD management the suggestion from numerous residents, that an in-house (also by appointment) for Manicure/Pedicure Services be provided. This will indeed improve/enhance our quality of life here at THD.   

Finally, My Food For Thought For Today:

https://www.facebook.com/reel/694216813273868

Wednesday, November 19, 2025

When TV Mirrors Real Life: Reflections on Matt Lauer, The Morning Show, and the Power of Accountability

When TV Mirrors Real Life: Reflections on Matt Lauer, The Morning Show, and the Power of Accountability

Every so often, a television series pulls you in not just because of its entertainment value, but because it brushes up against real history, real scandals, and real lessons. The Morning Show on Apple TV+ did exactly that for me. Like millions of viewers, I was drawn to its glossy newsroom drama, but as I watched deeper into the series, I found myself thinking not only of the story on screen, but of the real-life case that inspired it, the fall of Matt Lauer at NBC.

And as I often do with these cultural touchstones, I began reflecting on how these themes intersect with my own professional life, the years I spent at the FDA, and the personal conversations I’ve shared on my blog since 2009.


The Real Story Behind the Fiction

Matt Lauer was one of the most familiar faces in morning television—a trusted presence across millions of American homes. His sudden dismissal in 2017 for “inappropriate sexual behavior” was not just a tabloid moment; it was a turning point in how we talk about power, consent, and the hidden dynamics inside corporate America.

The initial complaint opened a floodgate. Other women came forward with stories: coercive relationships, unwanted advances, and, later, a more serious allegation of rape during the Sochi Olympics. Lauer denied the most serious accusations, but the broader narrative, the unequal power, the fear of coming forward, and the quiet protection afforded to star talent was consistent.

NBC conducted its internal investigation, declared no systemic problems existed, and insisted that leadership had not known. Yet outside reporting, especially Ronan Farrow’s Catch and Kill, suggested deeper institutional failures and patterns of silence. The truth, as often happens, lived somewhere inside the tension between official statements and deeply personal testimonies.


Turning Scandal Into Story: What The Morning Show Captures

Although Apple TV+ never officially claimed The Morning Show was about Matt Lauer, the parallels are undeniable:

  • A charming but powerful male anchor accused of misconduct

  • A workplace filled with whispers long before any investigation

  • Executives claiming ignorance

  • Women grappling with whether consent can exist in a power imbalance

  • The messy humanity of everyone involved

But what makes the show compelling is that it doesn’t stop at imitation. It dramatizes, heightens, and challenges the viewer. It asks uncomfortable questions: How many people knew? Who looked away? What happens to the truth when careers, ratings, and egos are on the line?

In that way, the series becomes not just entertainment, but a mirror, a sometimes distorted, sometimes painfully accurate reflection of how institutions operate when reputations are at stake.


Reflections from My FDA Years: Power, Responsibility, and Integrity

Watching these stories, both real and dramatized, reminded me of my own decades working inside a large federal institution. Although the FDA’s mission is worlds apart from network television, the human dynamics are universal.

At the FDA, power wasn’t measured by Nielsen ratings, but by regulatory authority, scientific expertise, and institutional history. I saw firsthand how integrity, transparency, and rigorous accountability were not merely bureaucratic buzzwords. They were essential to public trust. They were necessary for the thousands of decisions that affected millions of patients, physicians, and pharmaceutical companies.

And yet, even in institutions driven by science and policy, the pressures were there:
— personalities who dominated meetings,
— leaders whose reputations shaped the culture,
— and quieter voices who sometimes hesitated to speak up.

The Lauer scandal and its fictional echoes in The Morning Show, serve as reminders that any workplace, no matter how powerful or prestigious, must maintain systems that allow truth to surface without fear.


My Blogger’s Lens: Why These Stories Matter

Since 2009, this blog has been my space to reflect, question, and understand the world around me. Over the years, I’ve written about everything, from science and medicine to culture, memory, and aging. And as someone who has spent a career inside federal service and a lifetime observing human nature, I know that stories like Matt Lauer’s resonate far beyond the headlines.

They force us to confront uncomfortable questions:

  • How do we hold powerful people accountable?

  • How do we protect those with less authority?

  • How do institutions safeguard integrity when so much is at stake?

  • And how do we, as individuals and societies, recognize when silence becomes complicity?

As I get older, I find myself returning again and again to the value of candor of speaking truth, of listening deeply, of understanding where systems fail and how we can do better.

That’s why The Morning Show struck such a chord with me. Not just because it was based on a real scandal, but because it asked the deeper, more human questions that I’ve always tried to explore here on this blog.


Closing Thoughts

The Matt Lauer case is more than a media scandal. It is a cautionary tale about power, trust, and the consequences of institutional silence. The Morning Show translates that into a dramatic, sometimes exaggerated, but emotionally resonant story.

And for me, as a former FDA scientist, as a long-time blogger, and as someone who has lived through shifting eras of accountability, the lessons remain universal:

Power must always be checked. Voices must always be heard. And truth, even when inconvenient, is the only path toward a more just and humane world.

Kiko Pangilinan is My Wife's( Macrine Nieva Jambalos) Third Cousin



Francis "Kiko" Pangilinan (b. 1963) is a prominent Filipino politician and lawyer known for his advocacy in agriculture and social justice. Born in Manila, he pursued a law degree at the University of the Philippines and later completed a Master of Public Administration at Harvard University. Pangilinan's political career began in the 1990s, serving as a city councilor in Quezon City. He gained national prominence as a senator, first elected in 2001, where he focused on judicial reforms and youth empowerment. During his tenure, Pangilinan championed the Juvenile Justice and Welfare Act, reflecting his commitment to protecting vulnerable sectors. He also served as the Presidential Assistant for Food Security and Agricultural Modernization under President Benigno Aquino III, emphasizing sustainable agriculture and food security. Pangilinan's work is set against the backdrop of the Philippines' evolving political landscape, marked by challenges in governance and social equity. His contributions continue to influence Philippine policy, particularly in agriculture and youth welfare.

Sleeping is Metabolism Secret Key

Science has confirmed what many have long suspected sleep is not just rest, it’s metabolism’s secret key. When you don’t get enough sleep, your body changes the way it processes food, storing it as fat even if your diet is flawless. This discovery reveals how powerful sleep truly is in controlling energy, hormones, and weight.

During deep sleep, your body regulates insulin, cortisol, and leptin three hormones that balance hunger and energy. Without enough rest, cortisol levels rise, triggering your body’s “stress mode.” In this state, instead of burning calories efficiently, it holds onto them, converting carbohydrates and proteins into stored fat. Even if you eat clean and train hard, poor sleep can undo your progress from the inside out.

Researchers have found that just one week of sleep deprivation can reduce your body’s ability to handle glucose by up to 30%. It’s the same metabolic disruption seen in early stages of diabetes. That means fewer hours of sleep can push your body toward fat storage and away from energy production.

But the good news is that sleep is the simplest fix. Rest is not a luxury, it’s fuel for your cells, your mind, and your metabolism. A consistent sleep schedule can restore your body’s balance, improve muscle repair, and enhance how your body uses nutrients.

So before chasing the next diet trend, start with your pillow. The path to fitness and health begins not in the gym, but in your dreams.

Meanwhile, 

Sleeping on your left side provides remarkable benefits for the body, primarily by enhancing lymphatic drainage. The lymphatic system drains predominantly to the left side, where lymph flows through the thoracic duct into the heart. By sleeping on this side, gravity helps move lymph more efficiently, supporting lymph node function and promoting immune defense against infections and disease.
This position also benefits the brain by stimulating the glymphatic system, which clears toxins and waste, potentially lowering the risk of neurodegenerative disorders. Blood circulation improves as well, with reduced pressure on the vena cava, allowing better blood flow to the heart, liver, kidneys, and other vital organs.
Additionally, left-side sleeping can reduce heartburn, minimize snoring, support liver detoxification, and aid pregnant individuals, making it a simple habit for whole-body wellness.

My Food For Thought For Today

Exercise and and a Healthy Diet

Yes, exercise literally eases depression symptoms. Exercise may do more than strengthen muscles—it might help protect the mind from the mental health consequences of a Western-style diet and the depression it causes, according to new research in Brain Medicine.

In a rat study, scientists found that physical activity reduced depressive and anxiety-like behaviors brought on by a high-fat, high-sugar diet. The cafeteria-style diet led to weight gain, metabolic changes, and disrupted gut microbiome function—all factors known to contribute to mental health issues.

Exercise improved metabolic hormone balance (like insulin and leptin) and helped restore levels of key gut metabolites linked to mood regulation. However, it didn’t fully reverse all the harmful effects of the diet, particularly those related to brain cell regeneration in the hippocampus.

The study highlights how exercise can counteract some, but not all, of the biological toll exacted by unhealthy eating. While exercise reduced mood-related symptoms and supported metabolic balance, it couldn't restore brain neurogenesis in rats on the unhealthy diet, nor normalize all hormonal markers like FGF-21. These findings emphasize that while physical activity is a powerful tool for mental health, it works best in tandem with a balanced, nutrient-rich diet. 

As research in humans continues, this study adds to the growing body of evidence that mental wellness may be closely tied to what’s on your plate—and how often you move.


Meanwhile, 

The Philippines: Kingdom of the Ocean Giants 🐚
Hidden beneath the blue skin of our seas lives one of the most extraordinary treasures of Philippine waters — the Giant Clam, or Tridacna gigas, a creature so majestic it feels almost mythical.
These ocean titans can grow up to 4 feet long and weigh as much as a motorcycle — over 500 pounds. But their size is only part of the story.
Giant clams are living architects of the reef. They filter the water, clear out impurities, and offer a safe haven for fish, algae, and countless tiny organisms that keep coral ecosystems breathing and alive. Like ancient guardians, they sit in silence, supporting entire marine communities just by existing.
And here’s something we should be proud of:
🇵🇭 The Philippines is one of the world’s largest strongholds of these incredible creatures. Our reefs shelter thriving populations of giant clams — a sign of rich biodiversity and nature’s resilience.
But they survive only if we protect them. Poaching, pollution, and reef destruction continue to threaten their ancient lineage.
✨ These clams are more than sea creatures — they are symbols of life, balance, and the quiet power of nature.

My Food For Thought For Today:

Sleep Deprivation is Not Good For Your Brain

Your brain is eating itself right now. Scientists have discovered something deeply unsettling about what happens when you don't get enough sleep, and it's far worse than just feeling groggy. While you're awake scrolling through posts at 2am, your brain cells are literally consuming themselves in a desperate bid for survival. This isn't science fiction, it's happening inside your head.

The Healing Power of the Ear: A Tiny Map of the Human Body

The Healing Power of the Ear: A Tiny Map of the Human Body

Over the past twenty-two months, I’ve made weekly full-body massages part of my wellness routine. These sessions have not only eased physical tension but also deepened my appreciation for how touch, when applied mindfully, can calm both the body and the mind. Lately, I’ve been drawn to explore how smaller, more focused forms of touch like ear massage can offer similar therapeutic benefits.

In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), the human ear is more than just an organ for hearing; it is seen as a miniature map of the entire body. Each ridge, curve, and lobe corresponds to specific internal organs and energy pathways. Centuries of observation and practice have led TCM practitioners to use the ear not only for diagnosis but also for healing through acupuncture, acupressure, and massage.

Recently, I came across an article that reminded me of this ancient wisdom. It described how gentle ear massages can relieve stress, improve sleep, and even uplift mood. As someone who believes deeply in the mind–body connection, I found this both fascinating and personally comforting. We often think of massages as something reserved for the back or shoulders, but the ear so small, so often overlooked holds immense potential for relaxation and restoration.

When you rub or gently pull your earlobes, you stimulate the vagus nerve, which connects to the brain and helps regulate the parasympathetic nervous system—the body’s “rest and digest” response. This simple act can lower heart rate, ease tension, and prepare the body for sleep. It’s no surprise that in modern wellness circles, ear massage has found a quiet resurgence as a natural remedy for insomnia and anxiety.

But there is another, more intimate layer to this practice. The ear, rich in nerve endings and blood vessels, is also one of the body’s erogenous zones. A gentle touch can awaken subtle sensations, blending calmness with a sense of sensual awareness. In TCM philosophy, this is not seen as something separate or shameful, it is part of the same vital energy, or Qi, that animates all aspects of life. To touch the ear mindfully is to honor both the body’s physical and emotional landscape.

I often think that modern life has dulled our sensitivity to such simple forms of self-care. We seek pills to sleep, apps to meditate, or screens to soothe us. Yet, sometimes, the answer lies right within our fingertips, a gentle massage of the ear, a small gesture that reconnects us to the wisdom of our own body.

Tonight, before you close your eyes, try this: hold your earlobes between your fingers, breathe slowly, and massage in small circles. Feel the warmth spread, the heartbeat slow, and the mind begin to soften. You might discover, as I did, that this humble act can bring not only calm and comfort but also a deeper sense of being alive.


A Scientific Note

Modern research offers intriguing support for what TCM has long believed. Studies have shown that stimulating points on the outer ear, particularly areas linked to the vagus nerve can activate the brain regions responsible for relaxation and emotional regulation. This technique, known as auricular vagus nerve stimulation, is even being explored as a non-invasive therapy for depression, insomnia, and anxiety disorders.

In essence, science is beginning to rediscover what ancient healers already knew: that the ear is a gateway to balance, calm, and well-being both physical and emotional.

My Food For Thought For Today: 

I have been doing all of the Five things in this video except #2 all my life:

https://fb.watch/Dkr6xHU6lD/


Your Brain’s Power Supply- Key to Mental Illness.

Your brain’s power supply might be the hidden key to mental illness.
Every thought, emotion, and memory in your mind depends on energy. Your brain is like a tiny city, powered by billions of microscopic batteries called mitochondria. These tiny engines keep your neurons firing, your mood stable, and your focus sharp. But when that power supply starts to falter, the entire system begins to break down.
New research suggests that disorders like depression, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia may not start with “chemical imbalances” alone, but with energy imbalances. When mitochondria don’t produce enough power, brain cells struggle to communicate. The result can feel like a mental brownout, foggy thinking, emotional instability, and low motivation.
Scientists are now exploring ways to recharge the brain’s energy grid. From targeted nutrients and light-based therapies to mitochondria-boosting compounds, the goal is simple: restore the brain’s power and heal the mind from the inside out.
It’s a shift in how we see mental health, not as weakness, but as an energy problem science can fix.
Dr. Cohen's laboratory has led the way in developing techniques that grow living brain cells from patient samples using induced pluripotent stem cell technology. He describes these advances as "giving us leads we did not have forty years ago." Through this approach, his team has identified key disruptions in how brain cells generate energy and connect with one another -- processes that appear central to many psychiatric illnesses affecting millions globally. With more than 400 scientific papers and five patents, his research points to new treatment strategies that could prove far more precise and effective than traditional therapies.

Meanwhile, 
Your brain isn’t afraid of hard work. It’s afraid of not knowing.
It’s not difficulty that causes stress, it’s uncertainty. Your brain can handle effort, challenge, even pain. What it struggles with is unpredictability. When you don’t know what’s coming next, your brain’s alarm system kicks in, flooding your body with cortisol and adrenaline.
This reaction goes back to evolution. Our ancestors needed to stay alert in the face of danger, not confusion. But today, the same system overreacts to unanswered texts, job changes, or unclear futures. Your brain craves clarity because it equates predictability with safety.
Once you give it that clarity, through plans, structure, or simply understanding what’s happening—your stress response calms down. You feel grounded, capable, and focused again.
The next time you feel overwhelmed, remember this: you’re not weak for feeling stressed. Your brain is just searching for certainty in a world full of unknowns. Give it direction, and you’ll find peace.

My Food For Thought For Today:

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