WELCOME TO CHATEAU DU MER BEACH RESORT

If this is your first time in my site, welcome! Chateau Du Mer is a beach house and a Conference Hall. The beach house could now accommodate 10 guests, six in the main floor and four in the first floor( air conditioned room). In addition, you can now reserve your vacation dates ahead and pay the rental fees via PayPal. I hope to see you soon in Marinduque- Home of the Morions and Heart of the Philippines. The photo above was taken during our first Garden Wedding ceremony at The Chateau Du Mer Gardens. I have also posted my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes in this site. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own, but I have no intention on the infringement of your copyrights!

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Marinduque Awaits You

Monday, January 26, 2026

A Senior's Reflection on Moral Leadership in America

When Faith and Citizenship Converge: A Catholic Senior’s Reflection on Moral Leadership and America

 As a lifelong Roman Catholic and a senior citizen of this great nation, I have walked through many seasons of American life, wars and peace, prosperity and hardship, unity and division. But rarely have I witnessed such an extraordinary moment as the recent public appeal by three U.S. Catholic cardinals urging our government to renew its moral compass in foreign policy.

Cardinals Blase Cupich, Robert McElroy, and Joseph Tobin shepherds of some of our largest archdioceses spoke not as partisans, but as moral voices rooted in the teachings of Christ and the social doctrine of our Church. Their message wasn’t about politics; it was about principle about human dignity, peace, and the common good. 

The cardinals cited instances of U.S. policy that risk inflicting suffering rather than fostering peace from military actions abroad to slashed foreign aid. They reminded us that national interest and moral duty are not enemies, but partners in the pursuit of a just world. 

Why This Matters to Me

As someone who has lived through global upheavals, I’ve seen the cost when a nation abandons its moral bearings. I have walked through parishes where immigrant families seek refuge and dignity. I have prayed for leaders to have wisdom and compassion. These cardinals’ words echo that longing.

Their statement arrives at a time when many Americans indeed, many Catholics are wrestling with how to balance patriotism with fidelity to Gospel values. I’m struck by how rarely our religious leaders step into the public square with such clarity. They aren’t telling us whom to vote for, they are reminding us how to think about the world through the lens of our faith.

On Politics and Approval

In the current political climate, President Trump’s approval numbers reflect deep divisions in how Americans see our country’s direction. On issues like foreign policy and immigration-  the very topics raised by the cardinals, American voters show significant unease with the status quo. 

Some may wonder if this moral admonition will swing public opinion. Perhaps on its own it won’t move the needle dramatically. But moral leadership doesn’t show up in poll spikes, it shows up in conversation, conscience, and community. The Church’s voice reminds us that the measure of a society isn’t just economic growth or military strength, but how we love our neighbor.

Looking Ahead

As Catholics, we are called to be both faithful and engaged, to bring the light of Christ into every corner of public life. Whether you find yourself in agreement with the cardinals or wrestling with their points, I invite you to reflect prayerfully, discuss respectfully, and act consistently with your faith.

The future of our country and the moral health of our society depends not just on one election, one administration, or one set of policies. It depends on the moral choices of each of us, every day.

On January 19, 2026, three prominent U.S. Catholic cardinals, Blase Cupich (Chicago), Robert McElroy (Washington), and Joseph Tobin (Newark) issued a rare and unusually explicit statement urging the Trump administration to reorient U.S. foreign policy around moral principles rather than partisan or economic goals. They cited issues such as:

  • U.S. military engagement in places like Venezuela

  • Threats related to Greenland

  • Cuts to foreign aid and humanitarian programs

  • The need to protect human dignity, life, and religious liberty globally
    They said the nation risks polarization and moral drift if these aren’t addressed. 

Although the statement didn’t name President Trump directly, it was clearly aimed at his administration’s foreign policy direction and reflected Catholic moral teachings on peace, human dignity, and the common good. 

This follows earlier actions by the broader U.S. Catholic hierarchy, including US bishops’ recent rebukes of immigration enforcement policies perceived as dehumanizing. 

Approval Ratings Context

Current U.S. polling data (January 2026) shows President Trump’s overall approval rating around 40–43%, with disapproval above 55% still underwater on key issues like foreign policy and immigration

Here’s how the Catholic clergy’s rebukes might factor in:

  • Limited direct impact on overall approval - Most polling shows Trump’s base remains loyal even as broader disapproval persists, particularly among independents and moderates. 

  • Religious leadership criticism could resonate more among Catholic and moderate voters who don’t view Trump through a strictly partisan lens. Popes and bishops often have moral authority that transcends political identity. 

  • On some cultural issues (e.g., immigration), there already appears to be discontent among large majorities of voters, meaning the cardinals’ moral framing could influence views if it catches public attention

In short: the cardinals’ statement reinforces concerns many voters already have, but it is not by itself likely to drastically shift national polling numbers, unless it helps catalyze broader public debate or align Catholic voters behind alternatives. It could influence especially Catholic and ethical-issue voters ahead of elections. 

Finally, Here are the Key Points from Pope Leo XIV’s Jan. 9, 2026 Address related to the Concerns of the Three Cardinals Mention above.  

Pope Leo XIV delivered a forceful foreign-policy speech to ambassadors accredited to the Holy See. His address served as a moral “state of the world” outline that undergirds the U.S. cardinals’ statement. Here are the central themes: 

1️⃣ War and Diplomacy

  • The Pope warned that “war is back in vogue” and that the global community is increasingly reverting to military solutions rather than diplomatic dialogue. 

  • He lamented that post-World War II prohibitions on territorial aggression are being ignored and that peace is too often sought “through weapons” rather than negotiation. 

2️⃣ Human Rights & Human Dignity

  • Leo spoke of a “growing disregard for human life,” highlighting threats to basic human rights, including restrictions on religious freedom and freedom of speech in many parts of the world. 

  • He reiterated that respect for human life, from conception onward, is the foundation of all human rights, framing this as a moral imperative for nations and for international law. 

3️⃣ Weakening Multilateralism

  • The Pope criticized the erosion of international cooperation multilateral institutions and diplomacy in favor of power politics and unilateral action. 

4️⃣ Humanitarian Concern

  • He appealed for richer nations to uphold humanitarian aid and support for vulnerable populations, warning that cuts to such programs betray human dignity and Catholic teaching. 

 How These Points Connect to the Cardinals’ Concerns

The three U.S. cardinals Cupich, McElroy, and Tobin directly cited the Pope’s January address as the moral foundation for their criticism of current U.S. foreign policy. Here’s the link, point-by-point: 

✦ 1. War as a Last Resort

  • Pope Leo’s warning about “war… back in vogue” helped shape the cardinals’ call to renounce war as a normal instrument of national policy. They argue echoing the Pope that military action should only be a last resort, not a primary strategy

✦ 2. Respect for Human Life

  • The cardinals drew on the Pope’s emphasis that protection of life is the foundation of human rights, urging a U.S. foreign policy that upholds life and dignity globally not just in rhetoric but in practice. 

✦ 3. Diplomacy Over Force

  • The Pope’s critique of weakened multilateral diplomacy underlies the cardinals’ concern that the U.S. is too quick to resort to forceful or unilateral measures (e.g., in Venezuela or other foreign engagements). 

✦ 4. Humanitarian Aid

  • Citing the Pope’s appeal for humanitarian responsibility, the cardinals condemned reductions in foreign aid and urged support for the world’s vulnerable, a response directly rooted in Leo’s moral framework. 

🧭 In Summary

Pope Leo XIV’s address offered a moral template for international relations built on peace, respect for human dignity, multilateral dialogue, and humanitarian commitment. The three American cardinals explicitly used that template to evaluate U.S. foreign policy, saying it falls short of these principles and urging a reorientation grounded in Catholic teaching. 

My Reel of the Day- Trump Give-Up Greenland

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1428563248796091

Sunday, January 25, 2026

Facts About the Philippines- Part 2


The_Philippines 🇵🇭 is a vibrant archipelago of 7,641 islands in Southeast Asia, known for its tropical beauty, diverse culture, and dynamic history. It's the Country of My Birth. However, I left the Philippines when I was 26 years old to pursue my graduate studies in the US in 1960. The rest of my story is history and featured in the 17 chapters of My Autobiography, http://davidbkatague.blogspot.com
🌍 Location & Geography :
- Official name: Republic of the Philippines.
- Area: 300,000 km².
- Located in the western Pacific Ocean, about 800 km off the coast of Vietnam.
- Divided into three main island groups: Luzon, Visayas, and Mindanao.
- Famous natural wonders: Chocolate Hills (Bohol), Banaue Rice Terraces, Mayon Volcano.
🏙️ Population & Language :
- Population: about 118 million (2025).
- Capital: Manila; largest city: Quezon City.
- Official languages: Filipino (Tagalog) and English.
- Religion: majority Roman Catholic (79.5%), with Muslim and Protestant minorities.
💰 Economy & Resources :
- Currency: Philippine peso (PHP).
- Economy: driven by services, agriculture, manufacturing, and overseas remittances.
- Major exports: electronics, garments, coconut products, and seafood.
- Tourism is a growing sector, with millions of visitors annually.
🎭 Culture & Society :
- Known as the third largest English-speaking country in the world.
- Rich mix of Spanish, American, and indigenous influences.
- Festivals: Sinulog (Cebu), Ati-Atihan (Kalibo), Pahiyas (Lucban).
- Cuisine: adobo, sinigang, lechon, halo-halo.
- Nicknamed the “Selfie Capital of the World”.
🏞️ Tourism Highlights :
- Boracay: world-famous white sand beaches.
- Palawan: El Nido and Puerto Princesa Underground River (UNESCO site).
- Cebu: diving, whale shark watching, and historical landmarks.
- Banaue Rice Terraces: ancient engineering marvel.
- Siargao: surfing capital of the Philippines.---
⚠️ Challenges :
- Vulnerable to typhoons, earthquakes, and volcanic eruptions.
- Issues of poverty, inequality, and infrastructure gaps.
- Territorial disputes in the South China Sea.
⁉️ Question :
"Can the Philippines harness its natural beauty and cultural diversity to become Southeast Asia’s leading tourism hub?"

Meanwhile,
Did you know that Tagalog/Filipino has become one of the fastest-growing languages in Canada, even surpassing major European immigrant languages like Italian, German, and even some Slavic languages in everyday use?
Thanks to decades of migration from caregivers to nurses, engineers, students, and entire families Filipino is now spoken in homes, schools, malls, community centers, and even in local government services across major Canadian cities like Toronto, Winnipeg, Calgary, and Vancouver.
Filipinos didn’t just migrate, they reshaped Canada’s linguistic map in a way no one predicted.

Finally, Flag 0f 252 Nations

How many Flags, Do you Know? 

Brotherhood Without Borders

From My Readings Recently
Men need more platonic intimacy together. Brotherhood without Borders
"This is my sweet brother @intimatelyhuman. He has helped me move through so many of my negative associations with men".
One thing I hear over and over again from men is that they stopped receiving affection from their parents and their peers once puberty began.
There are many reasons for this. One is that testosterone decreases the ease of emotional expression so boys appear a bit more stern and shut down.
This isn't the case for all boys, but the ones who do have this effect are quite affected by it.
Another reason is the unspoken, yet deeply felt, fear of male sexual energy.
When a boy begins maturing into a man his own father's internal homophobia can cause the father to pull back kisses, hugs, and hand holding.
His mother may give him more space than she would have when he was younger because it's intimidating or harder to relate to them. One of the most important things for boys in puberty is touch.
Just consider this: boys start going into puberty and are treated differently by the people in their life. Then, in their isolation, they turn to porn.
So they're touch-starved, isolating, and spending hours (for most men and boys I've worked with) watching porn.
They begin developing in a dissociative state where the only touch is sexual self-touch in isolation.
This is no bueno and, I believe, contributes to developmental sexual trauma.
Whether it's competitive sports, dance groups, cuddling, or just simply walking with their arms around each other I hope more boys are encouraged and supported in normalizing male platonic affection throughout development.
For me, it has been life changing to have friends (especially straight ones) who are so comfortable with touch, hugging, eye contact, and affection.
It has helped transform the fear in my body around men into something more softer and trusting, and it has also helped me not see all male touch as sexual.

Meanwhile here's  a thoughtful and engaging blog post on platonic relationships between two men from ChatGPT:

Title: Brotherhood Without Borders: The Power of Platonic Relationships Between Men

In a world where expressions of male affection are too often misinterpreted or boxed into narrow definitions, the beauty of a platonic relationship between two men is both powerful and undercelebrated. These relationships, rooted in mutual respect, deep emotional connection, and unwavering loyalty, are essential for mental and emotional well-being, but they are rarely given the spotlight they deserve.

What Is a Platonic Male Friendship?

At its core, a platonic relationship between men is a close, non-romantic bond that’s built on trust, shared experiences, and emotional support. Unlike surface-level camaraderie often stereotyped in popular media (think sports talk, competition, or sarcasm), these connections dive deeper. They allow space for vulnerability, reflection, laughter, and even tears, without the pressure of performance or the need to “man up.”

Breaking the Stigma

Cultural expectations and societal norms have long discouraged men from openly expressing affection toward one another. For generations, being “too close” or “too emotional” with another man was often mocked or misunderstood. As a result, many men grew up learning to suppress their feelings and limit their expressions of care to physical tasks or humor.

But the tides are turning.

Modern men are beginning to challenge the outdated narratives of masculinity. They are choosing to hug longer, listen more intently, and say “I love you” without feeling awkward or emasculated. In doing so, they are rediscovering the joy and grounding presence of brotherhood, one that isn’t tied to blood, but built through loyalty and love.

The Benefits of Deep Male Friendships

  1. Emotional Support Without Judgment
    Having a male friend who truly sees and hears you provides a safe space to talk about mental health, relationships, fears, and aspirations.

  2. Improved Mental Health
    Studies show that close friendships significantly reduce the risk of depression, anxiety, and loneliness, issues that disproportionately affect men who feel isolated.

  3. Authentic Connection
    Unlike professional or romantic relationships, platonic friendships don’t come with performance expectations. They allow for genuine interactions and shared growth.

  4. Lifelong Loyalty
    A true platonic bond between men can withstand distance, time, and change. These friendships often outlast jobs, relocations, and even marriages.

Famous Examples of Male Platonic Bonds

  • Martin Luther King Jr. and Ralph Abernathy - Civil rights giants who not only worked together but shared a deep brotherhood.

  • Matt Damon and Ben Affleck - Lifelong friends whose creative partnership and mutual support have spanned decades.

  • Samwise Gamgee and Frodo Baggins (The Lord of the Rings) - A fictional example, but one that resonates deeply with real-world loyalty and sacrifice.

Redefining Brotherhood in the 21st Century

We are entering an age where male intimacy-emotional, intellectual, and spiritual is becoming normalized. The next step is embracing it openly, modeling it for younger generations, and affirming that platonic love between men is not only valid but vital.

To every man reading this: Reach out to your friend. Tell him you appreciate him. Don’t shy away from connection. You don’t need a crisis to open up-just a willingness to be real.

Because in a world that often asks men to be strong, silent, and stoic, choosing to love platonically is a quiet, radical act of freedom.

Meanwhile, here's the top five news of the Day 

1. Federal immigrant agent shooting sparks national anger
A U.S. immigration agent shot and killed a U.S. citizen in Minneapolis on Jan. 24, triggering widespread protests and political fallout. The incident — the second fatal shooting by federal agents in recent weeks — has intensified scrutiny of Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE) and drew condemnation from local and national leaders. 

2. Historic winter storm paralyzes large parts of the U.S.
A powerful winter storm sweeping across the U.S. has forced thousands of flight cancellations (including over 10,000 currently reported), widespread power outages affecting hundreds of thousands of customers, and major travel disruptions from Texas to New England. 

3. Major U.S. flight disruptions due to weather
Closely tied to the storm, airlines have cancelled nearly 4,000 flights nationwide as conditions deteriorate, marking one of the worst single-day disruption events in recent history. 

4. Alex Honnold scales Taipei 101
Iconic climber Alex Honnold has completed a high-profile free solo ascent of Taipei 101, one of the tallest skyscrapers in the world, in a major achievement celebrated by the climbing community. 

5. Australian Open — Sabalenka advances
World No. 1 Aryna Sabalenka defeated Victoria Mboko to reach the quarterfinals of the 2026 Australian Open, a key early result in one of tennis’s biggest tournaments. 

Lastly, Did you Know that.....
In Ancient Rome, the middle finger had a name - "digitus impudicus" (the shameless finger). When Emperor Caligula wanted to humiliate his subjects, he would force them to kiss his middle finger. The gesture was so offensive that Emperor Augustus once banished an actor from Rome for flipping it to an audience member.

The Romans weren't the first to use this gesture though. Greek philosophers had been throwing up the middle finger since at least 419 BCE. In the comedy play "The Clouds," a character mocks Socrates by giving him the finger.

Ancient writers tell us the gesture was meant to represent male genitalia - with the middle finger being the phallus and the curled fingers on either side representing, well, you can guess. The Romans documented its use extensively, with poets like Martial writing about people using the "shameless finger" to insult doctors and enemies.

Even German tribes would taunt Roman soldiers by giving them the middle finger during battles, according to the historian Tacitus. Two thousand years later, this ancient gesture of disrespect lives on around the world.

Enjoyed Thai Food at Andaman Last Night, Walnut Creek

Ditas and I had a sumptuous dinner at Andaman Thai Restaurant located at Newell and South Carolina Blvd, Walnut Creek last night. The food was delicious and service was prompt. Ditas and I took some photos as follows:

Our Soft Shell Crab- Appetizer 


Our Seafood Feast-Calamari, shrimps. mussels, clams, white fish etc... 
Thai Pad-similar to our Filipino Pancit Dish 


    For Details visit their website: 

https://andamankitchen.com/menu/andamanthai-walnutcreek

Here's the AI Overview: 
 is a family-owned restaurant in Walnut Creek specializing in authentic Southern Thai flavors, located directly across from the Kaiser Permanente hospital. It is highly regarded for its beautiful presentation, friendly service, and a menu that accommodates various dietary needs, including vegan and gluten-free options. 
Essential Information
  • Address1560 Newell Ave, Walnut Creek, CA 94596
  • Phone+1 925-322-8667
  • Hours:
    • Mon – Thu: 11:00 AM – 3:00 PM, 4:30 PM – 9:00 PM
    • Fri: 11:00 AM – 3:00 PM, 4:30 PM – 9:30 PM
    • Sat: 11:00 AM – 9:30 PM
    • Sun: 12:00 PM – 9:00 PM
  • Websiteandamankitchen.com 
Popular Menu Items
  • Signature DishesPumpkin Curry ($21.95), Pineapple Fried Rice (served in a hollowed pineapple, $18.95), and Pad Thai ($17.95).
  • Recommended AppetizersFresh Spring RollsChicken Satay, and Corn Fritters.
  • Drinks & DessertsThai Iced Tea (often served with coconut milk) and Mango with Sweet Sticky Rice. 
Dining & Logistics
  • Reservations: Accepted and recommended for weekend dinner or large groups. Smaller parties can often use an online waitlist.
  • Parking: The on-site lot uses metered parking (approx. $2.00–$3.00/hour). Alternatively, the Broadway Plaza Parking Garage is nearby and offers the first three hours for free.
  • Ambiance: Contemporary and cozy with both indoor and outdoor seating available.
  • Service: Known for fast service, often seating guests within 10 minutes and serving entrees within 15 minutes of ordering. 

Meanwhile, Saturday Afternoon was fun with THD Card Making Activity hosted by capable Elane Johnson. I created three Happy Birthday Cards in less than 30 minutes. Here's the photo I took of my creation.  

Kudos to Elane for a well-coordinated activity on a beautiful Saturday Afternoon.

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