WELCOME TO CHATEAU DU MER BEACH RESORT

If this is your first time in my site, welcome! Chateau Du Mer is a beach house and a Conference Hall. The beach house could now accommodate 10 guests, six in the main floor and four in the first floor( air conditioned room). In addition, you can now reserve your vacation dates ahead and pay the rental fees via PayPal. I hope to see you soon in Marinduque- Home of the Morions and Heart of the Philippines. The photo above was taken during our first Garden Wedding ceremony at The Chateau Du Mer Gardens. I have also posted my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes in this site. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own, but I have no intention on the infringement of your copyrights!

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Marinduque Awaits You

Wednesday, February 11, 2026

The Symbolic Flight: Releasing Love Doves at Filipino Weddings

This posting is inspired from a recent inquiry from a neighbor here at THD. She asked me if I have written a blog on this topic. I said no, but I will do a search on it. I told her, yes we have 2 love doves and butterflies released and rice showered on my wedding day, May 8, 1957 in Boac, Marinduque, Philippines. Here's an article on this topic. Enjoy! 

The Symbolic Flight: Releasing Love Doves at Filipino Weddings
Weddings are filled with symbolism,  rituals and traditions that embody hope, love, and the promise of a shared life. One such tradition, particularly cherished in the Philippines, is the release of two white doves,  a moment many couples, families, and guests remember long after the day is over.

A Tradition Rooted in Meaning

At many traditional Filipino weddings, a pair of white doves, typically one male and one female are released by the bride and groom during the reception or at the end of the ceremony. As the couple opens the cage or basket and the doves take flight, they symbolize peace, harmony, love, and the beginning of a new life together. The two birds represent the couple’s journey as partners flying side by side into the unknown future with hope and unity. 

This beautiful moment isn’t just an aesthetic flourish; it reflects deeply held cultural values. In many cultures around the world (including the Philippines), doves have long been symbols of peace and fidelity. Their graceful flight becomes a metaphor for the couple’s aspirations: to live together in harmony and mutual support. 

Some celebrants also see the act of releasing doves as a way of letting go of the past and embarking on a new chapter, an uplifting visual that resonates with guests and creates lasting memories.

Where It Comes From

The tradition likely grew out of a blend of influences:

  • Spanish and Catholic heritage: Catholic symbolism in the Philippines often uses the dove to represent peace and the Holy Spirit. While there isn’t a precise historical record pinpointing the exact origin of the wedding dove release, its incorporation into the wedding reception parallels the Philippines’ long Catholic tradition. 

  • Universal symbolism: Around the world, doves have been used in ceremonies of union and peace from ancient rituals to modern celebrations. In the Philippines, the image of two birds flying together resonated with the collective cultural yearning for harmony in marriage. 

Then and Now - Is It Still Done Today?

During my wedding day in 1957, the dove release was definitely part of the wedding culture at the time and it continued to be a recognizable tradition for many decades. In weddings throughout the ’80s, ’90s, and early 2000s, releasing doves was fairly common at traditional Filipino receptions. 

However, like many long-standing customs, its popularity has evolved. In more recent weddings:

  • Some couples still choose to include a dove release as a meaningful part of their celebration.

  • Others opt out either replacing it with symbolic alternatives (like releasing butterflies, lanterns, or balloons, rice showers), or simply skipping it altogether because it’s not practical or meaningful to them.

  • In some areas, modern wedding planners may offer dove release services, but they’re sometimes seen as optional rather than expected reflecting shifting tastes and priorities among younger couples. 

Indeed, conversations among people who recently planned weddings in the Philippines suggest that while the tradition still exists, many couples today consider it a more old-fashioned or optional touch, rather than a must-have ritual. 

A Tradition With Lasting Beauty

Whether embraced, adapted, or set aside, the tradition of releasing doves at Filipino weddings continues to capture the imagination of couples and their guests. Its essence, honoring love, peace, and hope for the future, remains timeless.

Just as weddings evolve with each generation, customs like this one remind us of the shared human desire to celebrate love in meaningful ways whether through birds taking flight or through new rituals created by each couple themselves.


Releasing white doves at Filipino weddings is a cherished, symbolic tradition where 
the newlyweds release a pair of doves to signify a long, peaceful, and harmonious life together. Representing purity, fidelity, and the Holy Spirit, the birds symbolize the couple's new journey, commitment, and, because doves mate for life, enduring love.

Key aspects of this tradition include:
  • Symbolism: The pair represents the bride and groom joining together, with their flight symbolizing the couple soaring to new heights, harmony, and prosperity.
  • Ritual Action: Often held after the ceremony, the bride and groom hold and release the doves, signifying the release of their individual lives to start a new, shared life, trusting that they will always return home to each other.
  • Spiritual Significance: In many Filipino ceremonies, the doves represent the presence of the Holy Spirit, blessing the marriage with peace and loyalty.
  • Cultural Context: It serves as a popular,, elegant alternative to, or accompaniment to, the traditional rice shower, representing a,, "white dove release".

Tuesday, February 10, 2026

Can AI Generate New Ideas? A Late-Life Reflection

This posting is inspired from my readings on AI Apps: Can AI Generate New Ideas? 

Lately, I’ve been asked a question that would have sounded like science fiction not too long ago: Can artificial intelligence generate new ideas? It’s a fair question and one that carries a deeper unease beneath it. For those of us who have spent decades thinking, writing, building careers, raising families, and reflecting on our place in the world, the question isn’t merely technical. It’s personal.

The short answer is yes, AI can generate ideas. But the longer, more honest answer is this: AI can generate ideas without ever understanding why they matter.

At this stage of life, many of us know that ideas are not born in a vacuum. They come from experience, often hard experience. From failure that humbled us. From love that reshaped us. From loss that slowed us down and forced us to pay attention. AI has none of this. It has no memory of risk taken or regret carried. No sense of time running shorter. No awareness of legacy.

What AI does remarkably well is combine. It takes what already exists, millions of voices, arguments, metaphors, and facts and rearranges them with astonishing speed. Sometimes the results feel fresh, even insightful. But this is not the same as wisdom. It is pattern recognition, not reflection.

Those of us in our later chapters know the difference.

True ideas, the ones that stay with us are not merely clever. They are costly. They ask something of us. They are shaped by the long arc of a life lived with intention, contradiction, and uncertainty. AI does not sit quietly with unanswered questions. It does not wrestle with purpose after retirement, or with relevance in a world that seems to be moving on without us.

And yet, I don’t see AI as a threat to this kind of thinking. I see it as a mirror and sometimes a catalyst.

Used wisely, AI can help us clarify what we already know but haven’t yet articulated. It can help organize our thoughts, challenge our assumptions, and even provoke new questions. But the meaning, the moral weight, the emotional truth still belongs to us.

There is something important here for older readers to remember: our value was never rooted in speed or novelty. It was rooted in judgment, perspective, and the ability to see beyond the moment. No machine, no matter how advanced, can replace a lifetime of lived context and experience.

If anything, this moment in history is an invitation. An invitation to lean into what only humans, especially seasoned humans can offer: discernment, memory, and depth. AI may help us write faster. But it cannot tell us what is worth writing about.

And that question, what truly matters now is one we are uniquely qualified to answer.

In the end, AI may generate ideas. But meaning is still handcrafted, one reflective life at a time.

A Closing Benediction

May you trust that the years behind you have not diminished your voice, but deepened it.
May you remember that wisdom does not compete with technology, it outlasts it.
May your questions remain alive, even when answers grow quieter.
And may you continue to shape meaning not by how quickly you adapt to the future,
but by how faithfully you carry forward what only a lived life can teach.

May your remaining chapters be written with clarity, humility, and grace,
and may you never doubt that your reflections still matter,
perhaps now more than ever.

AI can generate novel combinations of existing ideas by remixing vast datasets, acting as a powerful creative partner that speeds up ideation, identifies patterns, and handles routine tasks, freeing humans for deeper strategic work
. However, current AI lacks consciousness, lived experience, and true originality; it synthesizes, not originates, leading to concerns about homogenizing thought. A "late-life reflection" might see AI as a tool to amplify human intuition, sparking unexpected directions, but emphasizing that wisdom, context, and ethical application remain distinctly human responsibilities for true innovation. 
How AI Generates "New" Ideas
  • Pattern Recognition & Synthesis: AI excels at identifying and recombining patterns from massive datasets (books, articles, code) in ways humans might miss, creating unique outputs.
  • Divergent Thinking: It can quickly generate many possibilities and variations, acting as a brainstorming partner.
  • Data-Driven Insights: AI can find non-obvious connections in complex data, aiding discovery in fields like medicine or science. 
Limitations & The Human Role
  • No True Originality: AI doesn't have consciousness, emotions, or personal experiences, so its "creativity" is based on statistical inference, not genuine understanding or intent.
  • Homogenization Risk: Over-reliance on the same large datasets can lead to similar, less original outputs, potentially dulling human creativity.
  • The Need for Human Oversight: Human intuition, cultural context, ethical judgment, and the ability to refine ideas into something meaningful and resonant are crucial. 
The "Late-Life" Perspective (Using AI with Wisdom)
  • AI as a Catalyst: View AI as a tool to accelerate the initial, often messy, stages of idea generation, freeing up cognitive space for deeper thinking.
  • Focus on Depth: Use AI to handle speed and breadth, allowing humans to focus on wisdom, depth, and ensuring ideas align with human values and goals.
  • Intentional Partnership: The real innovation comes from the human-AI loop—AI proposes, humans refine, adding context, experience, and the "why" behind the idea. 
  • Demystifying AI: Turning Fear Into Understanding

    Demystifying AI means stripping away the fear, hype, and technical fog that surround artificial intelligence and replacing them with clear, human understanding. AI is often portrayed as either a magical solution to every problem or a looming threat to humanity. In reality, it is neither. At its core, AI is a set of tools created by humans, trained on human data, and guided—wisely or poorly—by human values. Demystifying AI means explaining what it can do, what it cannotdo, and, most importantly, how it fits into everyday life: from medicine and transportation to writing, art, and decision-making. When people understand AI as an assistant rather than an oracle, they regain a sense of agency. Knowledge replaces anxiety, curiosity replaces fear, and society can have a more honest conversation about how to use AI responsibly, ethically, and for the common good.

  • My Photo of the Day:
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    The Petrified Forest National Park, Arizona 
  • Here's the top Five News of the Day

    1) Ghislaine Maxwell invokes the Fifth Amendment in House Oversight deposition
    Ghislaine Maxwell repeatedly invoked her constitutional rights during a closed-door deposition before the House Oversight Committee, refusing to answer questions in the ongoing investigation. 

    2) U.S. judge blocks Trump administration’s deportation effort
    A federal judge blocked the Trump administration’s attempt to deport Rumeysa Ozturk, finding insufficient evidence to support the removal order. 

    3) Russia won’t attack NATO this year, intelligence chief says
    A senior European intelligence official stated that Russia is unlikely to launch an attack on NATO this year or next, though Moscow plans to bolster its military forces. 

    4) Serena Williams cleared to return to professional tennis
    Legendary tennis star Serena Williams has been cleared by the International Tennis Integrity Agency to return to professional competition starting February 22, 2026, fueling comeback speculation. 

    5) Five major national & global stories highlighted today
    Additional top stories from national and international news include geopolitical developments, policy decisions, and worldwide events shaping current affairs (summary from leading news roundup).



Monday, February 9, 2026

Bridge Most Popular Card Game According to ChatGPT


My Query: Is bridge one of the most popular card game
ChatGPT said:  Bridge is one of the most popular and respected card games in the world, though its popularity varies by region and age group. It has a strong following due to its complexity, strategic depth, and social aspects. Here's a quick breakdown:

Reasons for Its Popularity:

  • Strategic depth: Often compared to chess for the mind games and tactics involved.

  • Competitive scene: Includes international tournaments and professional players.

  • Social tradition: Long history in clubs, especially among older adults and retirees.

Comparisons to Other Card Games:

  • Globally, games like Poker and UNO may have broader mainstream appeal because they’re simpler to learn.

  • Bridge, however, is often considered the pinnacle of trick-taking games in terms of complexity and skill.

While bridge may not be the most casually played card game today, especially among younger generations, it remains a prestigious and widely played game among enthusiasts.

Would you like a list of the most popular card games worldwide for comparison?


🔝 Top Mainstream Card Games (Global Popularity)

  1. Poker (especially Texas Hold’em)

    • Popular in casinos, online platforms, and home games

    • Played competitively and casually

  2. UNO

    • Easy to learn, family-friendly

    • Technically a proprietary card game, not played with a standard deck

  3. Solitaire (Klondike, Spider, etc.)

    • Single-player, popular on computers and mobile apps

  4. Blackjack

    • Extremely popular in casinos worldwide

    • Fast-paced and easy to learn

🧠 Strategy & Skill-Based Card Games

  1. Bridge

    • Complex partnership game

    • Played in clubs, tournaments, and online (e.g., BBO – Bridge Base Online)

  2. Hearts

    • Trick-taking game played casually or online

    • Included with many computer operating systems

  3. Spades

    • Team-based trick-taking game

    • Especially popular in the United States

  4. Euchre

    • Trick-taking game with a strong regional following, especially in the Midwest U.S. and Canada

🌏 Regionally Popular Card Games

  1. Rummy / Gin Rummy (Global)

    • Combines matching and sequence strategies

    • Many variants exist

  2. Durak (Russia and Eastern Europe)

  • National card game of Russia

  1. Scopa / Briscola (Italy)

  • Played with traditional Italian decks

  1. Go-Stop / Hwatu (Korea)

  • Played with colorful Korean hanafuda cards

  1. Pusoy / Tong-its (Philippines)

  • Popular gambling and social card games

Would you like a list focusing just on trick-taking games like bridge?

ChatGPT said: Here’s a list of the most popular trick-taking card games, including both global and regional favorites. Trick-taking games involve players competing to win “tricks” (rounds), often based on suit and rank.

🧠 Strategic & International Trick-Taking Games

  1. Bridge

    • The gold standard of trick-taking games

    • Played by partnerships, with bidding and complex scoring

    • International tournaments and strong online presence

  2. Spades

    • Team game like bridge, but with simpler bidding and scoring

    • Popular in the U.S., especially among younger players online

  3. Hearts

    • No partnerships; players avoid taking certain tricks

    • Well-known due to inclusion in early Windows computers

  4. Euchre

    • Shorter, fast-paced team game

    • Popular in the U.S. Midwest and Canada

  5. Pinochle

    • Played in teams or solo

    • Combines trick-taking with melds (specific card combinations)

    • Popular among older generations in the U.S. and parts of Europe

🌍 Regionally Popular Trick-Taking Games

  1. Durak (Russia)

    • Russia’s most popular card game

    • Asymmetrical play: attacker vs. defender

  2. Tute (Spain/Italy/Latin America)

    • Traditional game often played with Spanish-suited cards

  3. Belote (France)

    • National card game of France

    • Played with a 32-card deck; includes bidding and trumps

  4. Skat (Germany)

    • Considered the national game of Germany

    • Very deep strategy, played by 3 players

  5. Oh Hell / Contract Whist (UK & global)

  • Players must predict exactly how many tricks they will take

  • Popular party game with flexible player counts

🃏 Honorable Mentions

  • Sheepshead (Germany/U.S. Midwest)

  • Call Bridge (India, Nepal)

  • Pedra (Portugal)

  • Twenty-eight / 29 (India, Bangladesh)

Would you like a visual chart comparing these games based on complexity or popularity?

ChatGPT said:  Here's a chart comparing trick-taking card games by complexity and popularity. Bridge ranks highest in complexity and remains quite popular, while games like Durak and Spades balance both simplicity and widespread appeal. For Details visit: 
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