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Sunday, October 11, 2026
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OTAP, Filipino Heritage, and the Kindness of Friends and Strangers-Part 1of 2
OTAP, Filipino Heritage, and the Kindness of Friends and Strangers
Sometimes, a simple gift can bring back precious memories and remind us of the goodness of people.
The other day, I received three different brands of OTAP as a gift in connection with our celebration of Filipino-American History Month here at The Heritage Downtown (THD), my home in Walnut Creek, California.
The three brands were Laura’s Buko-Pandan Flavored Otap, Magic Melt Ube Otap, and Angelina Otap. Seeing these Filipino delicacies brought a smile to my face and reminded me of my Filipino ancestry. More unexpectedly, this simple gift brought me back to several articles I wrote before the age of Artificial Intelligence about one of my favorite subjects: the kindness of friends and strangers.
At 91 and nearing 92, I have accumulated many memories during my journey through life. Some involve significant achievements in my career as a chemist, my years in the United States, and my adventures in the Philippines. Others involve seemingly ordinary encounters with people whose kindness left a lasting impression on me.
I have learned that kindness does not always come from the people we know well. Sometimes, it comes from a stranger who offers a helping hand, a friend who remembers us, or someone who takes a little time to make our day brighter.
Lessons from My Father: The Value of Talking to Strangers
In one of my earlier blog posts, My Father’s Lesson: The Value of Talking to Strangers, I recalled how my father taught us, through his example, the importance of greeting and talking to people.
During our trips between Barotac Viejo and Iloilo in the Philippines, I observed how naturally he interacted with people along the way. He did not treat every unfamiliar face as someone to avoid. Instead, he welcomed opportunities to exchange greetings and friendly conversations.
Looking back, I realize that my father was teaching us more than good manners. He was teaching us to recognize the humanity in other people.
A simple greeting can open the door to a conversation. A conversation can lead to friendship. And sometimes, a brief encounter with a stranger can become a memorable experience.
Of course, we must always exercise good judgment and be careful about whom we trust. But I believe we should not allow caution to eliminate the simple pleasures of being friendly and kind.
As I grow older, I appreciate this lesson even more.
The Importance of Kindness
Another subject I explored in my earlier writing was The Importance of Kindness.
Throughout my life, I have benefited from the generosity, encouragement, and friendship of many people. Teachers, colleagues, mentors, neighbors, friends, and even strangers have contributed in one way or another to the person I have become.
I cannot remember every kind act I have received, but I know that many of them helped me along the way.
My late wife, Macrine, and I also believed in reaching out to others. Our medical missions to Marinduque, Philippines, from 1999 to 2013 were among the meaningful experiences of our lives. Macrine often reminded me:
“You have not really lived if you have not touched the life of others.”
Those words remain with me today. They remind me that a meaningful life is not measured only by professional accomplishments, material possessions, or the number of years we live. It is also measured by the lives we touch and the kindness we leave behind.
At my present stage of life, I may no longer be able to do all the things I once did. Nevertheless, I can still share my experiences, encourage others through my writing, express gratitude, and appreciate the kindness of those around me.
OTAP: A Little Taste of the Philippines
For readers who may not be familiar with OTAP, it is a well-known Filipino pastry associated with Cebu. It is a thin, oval-shaped, flaky and crisp puff pastry, traditionally made with layers of dough and shortening, then coated with sugar.
Making OTAP requires care and patience. The dough is prepared, rolled, and folded to develop its characteristic layers. After shaping, the pastries are coated with sugar and baked until crisp and lightly golden. The result is a delicate, sweet pastry that can be enjoyed with coffee, tea, or as a snack.
The three varieties I received also reminded me of how Filipino food continues to evolve while preserving familiar traditions. Ube, or purple yam, is especially beloved in Filipino desserts. Buko-pandan combines the familiar flavors of young coconut and fragrant pandan.
For me, OTAP is more than a pastry. It represents a part of the culinary heritage that connects Filipinos living in the Philippines with those of us who have made our homes abroad.
Food has a special ability to connect generations. A familiar flavor can awaken memories of childhood, family gatherings, celebrations, and the people with whom we once shared our meals.
And sometimes, a box of pastries can remind us of something even more important: the kindness of the person who gave it to us.
Kindness at The Heritage Downtown
Since moving to The Heritage Downtown in June 2023, I have discovered that living in a senior community offers many opportunities to experience the generosity of others.
We share meals, participate in activities, exchange stories, and celebrate special occasions together. Although we come from different backgrounds and have lived very different lives, we have opportunities to learn from one another.
Our Filipino-American History Month celebration is one example. The gift of these three OTAP varieties was a thoughtful gesture that connected our celebration with Filipino culture and cuisine.
I was pleasantly surprised by the gift. More importantly, it reminded me that kindness does not have to be expensive or elaborate to be meaningful.
A small present, a sincere compliment, a friendly conversation, or a simple expression of appreciation can brighten someone's day.
I am grateful to the people who thought of sharing these Filipino treats with me. They may have intended only to offer a gift, but they also inspired me to revisit some of the lessons I have written about over the years.
Perhaps this is one of the wonderful things about kindness: it often travels farther than the giver realizes.
The person who receives a kind gesture may remember it, write about it, share it with others, and inspire still more acts of kindness.
A Reflection at 91
Looking back on my life, I realize that many of my most treasured memories are not necessarily associated with awards, degrees, promotions, or professional accomplishments.
Some are memories of people who were kind to me when they did not have to be.
My father's example taught me to be open to people. My wife, Macrine, taught me the importance of touching other lives. My friends, colleagues, and even strangers have reminded me repeatedly that goodness can appear in unexpected places.
Now, as a 91-year-old Filipino-American living at The Heritage Downtown, I continue to learn from these experiences.
I also continue to write. Before AI became part of my blogging routine, I wrote about kindness from my own observations and memories. Today, with the assistance of AI, I can revisit those themes, organize my thoughts, and share them with readers around the world. The technology may help me write, but the memories and the lessons remain mine.
I am reminded that we do not have to perform great deeds every day to make the world a better place. We can begin with a smile, a greeting, a listening ear, or a small gift given with a generous heart.
And who knows? A simple act of kindness today may become a cherished memory for someone tomorrow.
My closing thought:
At 91 and nearing 92, I have learned that kindness is a gift that never grows old. It costs little to give, means much to receive, and can remain in our hearts long after the moment has passed.
So, the next time you have an opportunity to greet a stranger, encourage a friend, or share something as simple as a piece of OTAP, remember that you may be giving more than you realize.
You may be giving someone a reason to smile and a memory worth writing about.
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David At Nearing 92: Can Humanity Prevent Its Own Extinction?
David At Nearing 92: Can Humanity Prevent Its Own Extinction?
Two Warnings to the World: Nuclear Conflict and the Malicious Use of Artificial Intelligence
“We have the intelligence to create powerful technologies. Do we have the wisdom to make sure they do not destroy us?”
Today, while reading and watching CNN, I came across a report that made me stop and think seriously about the future of humanity. Researchers have identified 17 potentially catastrophic threats to our world, including two that could, under the worst circumstances, threaten the very survival of our species: nuclear conflict and the malicious use of artificial intelligence (AI).
The findings come from a new report by The Lancet Commission on 21st Century Global Threats to Health. The commission, made up of 35 experts, examined threats that could endanger human health and survival through the year 2100. The researchers emphasized that these dangers deserve immediate attention because there are realistic actions governments and societies can take to reduce the risks.
As I approach my 92nd birthday, I cannot help asking myself a troubling question: After all the progress humanity has made in science, medicine, technology, and education, could we eventually destroy the very civilization we have worked so hard to build?
A Lifetime That Has Witnessed So Much History
I was born in the Philippines in 1934. My childhood was interrupted by World War II, which brought fear, hardship, and uncertainty to our part of the world. Those of us who lived through that period learned, in one way or another, that war is not simply a matter of maps, military strategies, or political victories. Behind every conflict are human lives, separated families, lost homes, and dreams that may never be fulfilled.
After the war, I pursued my education in chemistry at the University of the Philippines and later earned my Ph.D. in Pharmaceutical Chemistry at the University of Illinois. My professional life took me through the chemical and pharmaceutical industries and eventually to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration, where I worked in drug evaluation until my retirement in 2002.
My career taught me to appreciate the extraordinary benefits that science can bring to humanity. Scientific knowledge can prevent disease, improve medicines, save lives, and help us understand the world around us.
But science also gives human beings enormous power. And power without wisdom, responsibility, and moral restraint can become dangerous.
That is why the news I encountered today deserves more than a passing glance.
First Warning: The Danger of Nuclear Conflict
Since the development of nuclear weapons, humanity has possessed the ability to inflict destruction on a scale that previous generations could scarcely imagine.
The bombings of Hiroshima and Nagasaki in 1945 showed the world the terrible consequences of nuclear warfare. Yet, more than eight decades later, nuclear weapons remain in existence, and international tensions continue to remind us that the danger has not disappeared.
A nuclear conflict between major powers could kill millions of people directly. But the consequences might extend far beyond the countries involved. Researchers have warned that smoke and soot from widespread nuclear explosions could disrupt the climate, reduce sunlight reaching the Earth's surface, damage agricultural production, and contribute to widespread famine.
In other words, even people living thousands of miles from the battlefield might suffer the consequences.
I find this particularly disturbing because the ordinary citizens of the world have little control over the decisions of political and military leaders. Children, grandparents, farmers, teachers, scientists, and countless innocent people could pay the price for decisions they never made.
What can be done?
Nations must strengthen diplomacy, maintain reliable communication, reduce the danger of accidental escalation, and pursue meaningful arms-control and nuclear-risk-reduction agreements. Leaders must understand that preventing nuclear war is not a sign of weakness. It is an obligation to protect humanity.
National security is important. But what good is national security if a nuclear confrontation endangers the future of every nation?
Second Warning: The Malicious Use of Artificial Intelligence
The second threat is particularly personal to me because I have become increasingly interested in artificial intelligence during my later years.
I use AI as a tool to help me write and refine my blog posts, explore scientific questions, and communicate with readers around the world. Blogging has been an important part of my life since 2009, and I am grateful that modern technology continues to help me share my experiences and thoughts as I approach 92.
I have seen how AI can help people learn, improve their writing, assist scientific research, and make information more accessible. Used responsibly, it has enormous potential to benefit humanity.
But there is another side to this technology.
The researchers' warning concerns the malicious use of AI—the possibility that people could exploit increasingly powerful systems to cause harm on a vast scale. Among the dangers discussed by experts is the potential for AI to assist in developing biological weapons or other catastrophic threats.
AI can also be misused to create convincing false information, conduct cyberattacks, manipulate public opinion, and support dangerous activities. As the technology becomes more capable, the challenge of preventing its abuse becomes increasingly important.
I do not believe that every advance in AI should be viewed with fear. Nor should we assume that a machine will inevitably turn against humanity. These are serious risks, not predictions that human extinction is certain.
However, I believe we must distinguish between using AI to improve human life and allowing its capabilities to be exploited without adequate safeguards.
As someone who spent decades working in science and pharmaceutical regulation, I appreciate the importance of evaluating risks before they cause harm. We do not wait for every possible disaster to occur before asking whether reasonable preventive measures are necessary.
The same principle should apply to AI.
Governments, technology companies, scientists, and independent experts must work together to establish effective safeguards, improve monitoring, test powerful systems carefully, and prevent their use in catastrophic attacks. International cooperation is essential because neither cyber threats nor the consequences of dangerous technologies respect national borders.
Technological progress should serve humanity. Humanity should not become a prisoner of its own inventions.
Seventeen Threats, One Interconnected World
The report also reminds us that the dangers facing humanity are not limited to nuclear weapons and AI. Its 17 identified threats include climate change, air pollution, naturally occurring pandemics, antimicrobial resistance, childhood malnutrition, armed conflict, and other health and social challenges.
These problems are interconnected. Conflict can disrupt food supplies and health services. Climate change can worsen living conditions and threaten agriculture. Weak public health systems can make communities more vulnerable to disease.
The lesson I take from this report is that we cannot protect the future by concentrating on just one problem while ignoring the others.
We need scientific research, responsible leadership, stronger health systems, education, international cooperation, and a willingness to invest in prevention rather than wait for disasters.
Most importantly, we need leaders who recognize that the welfare of humanity is greater than the political interests of any one individual, party, or country.
What Can One Ordinary Person Do?
At first glance, these global threats may seem too large for an ordinary person to influence. What can one senior citizen approaching 92 do about nuclear weapons or the misuse of AI?
I certainly cannot negotiate an international treaty or regulate a technology company. But I can continue to write, share reliable information, encourage thoughtful discussion, and remind my readers that the future is a responsibility we share.
We can support leaders who take these dangers seriously. We can demand accountability from governments and technology companies. We can encourage the responsible use of AI and resist the spread of misinformation. We can teach younger generations that scientific progress must be accompanied by ethics, compassion, and respect for human life.
And we can refuse to accept the idea that conflict and catastrophe are inevitable.
My years have taught me that ordinary acts of kindness matter. The same principle applies to the larger world: cooperation is more constructive than hatred, dialogue is better than threats, and prevention is better than recovery from disaster.
The decisions of world leaders may have extraordinary consequences, but public awareness and public expectations can help shape those decisions.
A Message to My Children, Grandchildren, and Readers Around the World
As I approach 92, I think often about the world that my children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren will inherit.
I have lived through a world war, witnessed remarkable scientific discoveries, experienced the growth of modern medicine, and seen computers and artificial intelligence become part of everyday life. The changes have been astonishing.
I remain grateful for the progress humanity has achieved. I am also concerned that our technological capabilities may be advancing faster than our collective wisdom.
I do not want my reflections to leave readers frightened or hopeless. The researchers themselves emphasize that these threats can be addressed. Their warning is not that humanity is destined to disappear, but that we must take the risks seriously while we still have the opportunity to reduce them.
We cannot guarantee that future generations will never experience another war, another pandemic, or another global crisis. But we can make wiser decisions today to reduce the likelihood and consequences of such events.
Perhaps the greatest measure of human intelligence is not how powerful our weapons become or how sophisticated our machines can be. Perhaps it is whether we can use our knowledge to protect life rather than endanger it.
I have always believed that we have not truly lived unless we have touched the lives of others in a meaningful way. That principle should apply not only to individuals, but also to nations and the institutions we build.
As we move further into the twenty-first century, let us remember that our most important achievement is not simply to advance civilization, but to preserve it for those who come after us.
A Final Reflection
At nearly 92, I have no illusion that one blog post can change the course of world history. But I continue to write because I believe that sharing knowledge, asking difficult questions, and encouraging reflection still have value.
I hope that my readers, wherever they live, will join me in wishing for a world in which science serves life, artificial intelligence is used responsibly, nations resolve their differences peacefully, and future generations can live without the constant fear of catastrophe.
We cannot change the past. We cannot know exactly what the future holds. But we can influence the choices we make today.
And that gives me hope. May wisdom guide our leaders, compassion unite our peoples, and peace protect the future of humanity. David at Nearing 92
AI Impressions/Suggestions on this Topic:
David, this is an important subject for your David At Nearing 92 blog. It brings together two concerns that have become increasingly important to our world: the danger of nuclear war and the growing possibility that artificial intelligence could be misused by people who have little regard for human life.
For your worldwide readers, I would approach this not as a prediction that humanity is doomed, but as a personal reflection from someone who has lived through nearly a century of history, witnessed the consequences of war, devoted much of his career to science, and now sees both the promise and the dangers of new technology.
Here are suggested references for your worldwide readers:
CNN's report: AI is among 17 potentially ‘catastrophic threats’ that researchers say require targeted action
KESQThe Lancet Commission announcement: A roadmap to protect economies, security and global stability from catastrophic threats
My Editorial Suggestion: Keep the title as written. It asks a serious question without declaring that extinction is inevitable. Your personal history, from growing up during World War II to a scientific career and your continuing use of AI to write at nearly 92 gives this post a perspective that a conventional news article cannot provide.Yes, humanity can theoretically prevent its own extinction, but doing so depends heavily on our ability to mitigate self-imposed, anthropogenic risks rather than natural ones. While cosmic and geological hazards present a low risk in the near term, the primary threats to human survival are created by human technology and behavior.To successfully secure its long-term future, humanity must address existential risks across three major domains:1. Combating Anthropogenic (Human-Made) ThreatsThe scientific consensus indicates that the greatest dangers to our species through 2100 are artificial:- Artificial Intelligence: Unaligned or highly competent yet indifferent AI poses severe existential risks. Experts from organizations like Time Magazine have argued for strict international hardware regulations and temporary pauses on training models beyond current capabilities to ensure safety.
- Synthetic Biology: Advancements in biotechnology (such as CRISPR) have raised the risk of engineered, highly lethal, and airborne pathogens being released either accidentally or maliciously. Preventative measures require rigorous global biosecurity protocols.
- Nuclear and Climate Crises: Preventing nuclear war requires sustained geopolitical cooperation. Meanwhile, reversing severe environmental destruction, ocean acidification, and ecological collapse demands a global shift away from short-term corporate and political thinking.
2. Implementing a "Defence in Depth" FrameworkAccording to research published in the National Institutes of Health PMC, preventing extinction requires a layered strategy rather than just focusing on a single fix:- Prevention: Stopping threats before they materialize (e.g., carbon reduction, AI alignment, monitoring for asteroids).
- Response: Building early-warning networks to contain disasters when prevention fails (e.g., rapid vaccine deployment during a pandemic).
- Resilience: Ensuring the endgame survival of the species if a catastrophe scales globally (e.g., establishing underground seed vaults, resilient agriculture, or off-world colonies).
3. Overcoming Natural and Evolutionary RealitiesHistorically, humanity has proven incredibly resilient. Genetic bottlenecks documented by researchers show that around 930,000 years ago, the ancestral human population dropped significantly, leaving only about 1% of the population to rebuild our lineageHowever, over millions of years, natural changes pose inevitable challenges. Over a long enough timeline, cosmic events like supervolcanoes or asteroid impacts become mathematical certainties unless space-defense technologies are matured. Furthermore, if humanity survives for millions of years, evolutionary biology dictates that our descendants would likely evolve into a entirely different chronospecies, meaning Homo sapiens as we know them today would naturally cease to exist.Ultimately, preventing human extinction is not a problem of capacity, but one of global coordination, foresight, and political will.
Saturday, October 10, 2026
Choral Singing Reminds Me of Our Life Together and Why I Am Singing Again
I wrote these stories years before artificial intelligence became my writing companion. Today, at 91 nearing 92, I am revisiting some of them not to change my memories, but to see what I understand differently after another decade of living.
Choral Singing Reminds Me of Our Life Together and Why I Am Singing Again
Choral Singing Reminds Me of Our Life Together and Why I Am Singing Again
From the Philippines, to church choirs, to singing with Macrine and now, after more than eight years, back to singing with the THD Singers
Music has been part of my life for much longer than I realized.
Sometimes a song brings back a person. Sometimes it brings back a place.
Sometimes it brings back an entire chapter of your life.
And sometimes, as I recently discovered, it can bring you back to something you thought you had left behind. Singing.
I am now 91 years old, nearing 92. For more than eight years, I had not sung in a choir.
Then something wonderful happened here at The Heritage Downtown.
We are preparing a Christmas Concert and Sing-Along for our fellow senior residents, and a group of us decided to form a choir.
We named ourselves the THD Singers. And I joined. I am having a wonderful time.
After more than eight years away from choir singing, I feel as if I have rediscovered an old friend.
My First Love of Choral Singing-UPSCA Choir Christmas Concert, 1953, UP Diliman, QC
My love of choral singing began when I was a young student in the Philippines.
During my college years at the University of the Philippines, Macrine and I participated in the University of the Philippines Student Catholic Action Choir.
There were many of us hundreds of students from different colleges.
I sang bass/baritone. Macrine sang soprano.
Looking at photographs of that choir today, I sometimes have to smile.
There we were two young students who had no idea what the future had in store for us.
We did not know that we would eventually marry.
We did not know that we would spend more than 63 years together.
We certainly did not know that decades later I would be sitting at a computer in America, looking at an old photograph of that choir and remembering those days.
But that is how memory works. A song can open a door that you thought had been closed for decades.
Singing Became Part of Our Married Life
Macrine and I continued singing after we were married.
In Northern California, we sang together in church choirs.
In the late 1980s, we sang at Sunday Mass in Pinole and also participated in the University of the Philippines Alumni choir in the Bay Area.
Later, we sang in our church choir in Fair Oaks.
One Christmas, Macrine and I even sang a duet of “Silent Night” in Tagalog before Midnight Mass.
That remains one of my favorite Christmas memories.
Macrine also loved to sing. In her younger years, she had a beautiful soprano voice.
She even sang at weddings. I always joked that she was the professional singer in the family.
I was merely the husband who enjoyed singing beside her.
We Even Brought Singing to Maryland
When we lived in the Washington, D.C. area in the 1990s, Macrine and I helped organize a Christmas caroling group through the Marinduque Association of the Capital Area.
Again, singing brought people together.
Filipinos who had moved thousands of miles from the Philippines could gather during Christmas, sing familiar songs and feel, for a little while, as if we were back home.
That is one of the special powers of music. It crosses geography.
It crosses generations. It crosses languages. And sometimes it crosses time.
Music Also Helped Me Remember Macrine
After Macrine died in 2020, I began writing a series about her life through her favorite music.
I realized that I could tell parts of our love story through songs.
One song would remind me of a trip. Another would remind me of church.
Another would remind me of our children. Another would take me back to our younger years.
“Moon River” was especially meaningful because it was one of Macrine's favorite songs.
I wrote about music because it gave me a way to remember her.
That experience taught me something I had probably known all my life but never put into words: Music is a form of memory.
You can forget a conversation from 40 years ago. But hear the melody of a song you loved when you were young, and suddenly you are there again.
I Was Never a Great Musician
I should make one confession. I was not a musical prodigy. I love writing more than singing.
When I was a boy in the Philippines, my mother tried to make me learn the piano and organ.
I lasted about two weeks. That was it. I quit. My mother was disappointed.
Years later, however, I discovered that I did enjoy music, especially singing.
In 2022, I wrote about whether musical ability is inherited or learned. I still don't know exactly where my own modest singing ability came from.
Perhaps there is some genetic component. Perhaps it is practice. Perhaps it is simply enthusiasm.
Whatever the explanation, I have always enjoyed singing much more than playing an instrument.
My One and Only Solo Performance
There is one singing story I have never forgotten. When Macrine and I were living in Pinole, I was singing in our church choir.
One Sunday, during Communion, something strange happened. My voice suddenly came through the church speakers by itself.
I froze. The congregation could hear me. I thought:
Oh my goodness. They can actually hear me!
I was terrified that everyone was going to discover that I could not sing.
Later I learned that the microphones of the other singers were not working.
Mine happened to be the only one that was on. I survived.
And, surprisingly, people told me that my voice was not bad.
That was my first and last public solo performance.
I have jokingly said that I remain a frustrated singer and will sing solo only in my bathroom.
Music Came Back Into My Life at THD
After moving to The Heritage Downtown, I began discovering that music was everywhere.
We have had concerts, sing-alongs and music enrichment programs.
One of my favorites was a music-enrichment program led by Claire Baffico, a certified music therapist. We sang familiar songs and participated in rhythm activities using instruments such as maracas and bells.
She explained how music therapy can be used to support wellness, stress management, emotional expression, memory, communication and rehabilitation.
I also attended THD Candlelight Concerts.
At one of them, we sang along with songs such as “Some Enchanted Evening,” “Bali Ha'i,” “Unforgettable” and “The Impossible Dream.”
I remember thinking how fortunate we were. We were sitting in our senior community, listening to live music and singing together.
No long drive. No expensive theater ticket. No need to dress up. Just residents enjoying music together.
And Now We Have the THD Singers
But the new THD Singers is different. I suggested our group name to be The THD Chorale. I was outvoted, and our name is: The THD Singers.
This time, I am not just sitting in the audience. I am part of the group.
We are practicing for our Christmas Concert and Sing-Along.
There is something very enjoyable about learning songs together.
We sometimes make mistakes. We sometimes have to repeat a section.
Sometimes we don't come in at exactly the right time. But we laugh.
And then we try again. That is part of the fun. I think this is especially meaningful for seniors.
At our age, we sometimes hear that we should slow down. I understand that.
But slowing down does not mean stopping. There are still things we can learn.
There are still new friendships to make. There are still songs to sing.
What Does Singing Do for Us?
I have written about the health benefits of singing before. Now I am experiencing some of them myself.
Research is increasingly interested in music and healthy aging. The National Center for Complementary and Integrative Health notes that making or listening to music activates brain systems involved in thinking, movement, sensation and emotion, and that music can evoke memories and promote social bonds.
Studies specifically involving older adults who sing in groups have reported possible benefits involving mood, social connection, verbal fluency, memory and aspects of physical function. A 2026 study found that older adults participating in group singing experienced improvements in mood and social bonding during the sessions.
A two-year study of older adult choir singers also found some evidence of benefits in verbal fluency, although the researchers emphasized that the effects on other measures of quality of life and cognition were less clear.
So I would not say: “Singing will make you live longer.”
That would be too strong. But I would say:
Singing gives us another reason to live more fully. And at 91, that is important to me.
My Ten Reasons for Singing
After thinking about my own experiences, here are my personal reasons for continuing to sing.
1. Singing makes me happy.
This may be the simplest reason.
2. Singing exercises the brain.
You have to remember words, melodies, timing and cues.
3. Singing brings back memories.
One song can take me from THD directly back to the Philippines.
4. Singing connects people.
You cannot sing in a choir without listening to the people around you.
5. Singing encourages breathing.
Proper singing requires controlled breathing, posture and attention to the breath.
6. Singing reduces isolation.
You are not sitting alone listening to music. You are making music with other people.
7. Singing gives seniors something to look forward to.
A rehearsal on the calendar can be a very good reason to get up and get moving.
8. Singing creates new friendships.
The people standing beside you during rehearsal can become friends.
9. Singing keeps us learning.
Even at 91, I can still learn a new song.
10. Singing gives us a chance to share joy.
That may be the most important benefit of all.
Singing and Healthy Aging
I have written many times about Living Longer, Living Better.
For me, healthy aging is not simply about taking the right medicines, eating properly or exercising.
Those things matter. But so do purpose, friendship, curiosity and joy.
That is why activities such as bridge, dancing, music, writing and social gatherings are important to me.
They keep the mind engaged. They keep us connected. They give us something to talk about. And sometimes they simply make us smile.
The National Institute on Aging has similarly noted the growing interest in arts participation as a way of supporting healthy aging, including possible effects on cognitive function, memory, self-esteem, well-being and social interaction.
The Wonderful Thing About Group Singing
One thing I especially appreciate about the THD Singers is that nobody has to be a great singer.
We are not auditioning for the Metropolitan Opera. We are senior residents having fun.
That is important. You don't have to sing perfectly. You just have to sing.
The person beside you may have a beautiful voice. Another person may occasionally sing off-key.
I may forget a word. Nobody cares. We are there together. And that is the beauty of a choir.
Your voice becomes part of something larger than yourself.
From the UPSCA Choir to the THD Singers
Sometimes I think about that young Filipino student who sang bass in the UPSCA choir more than 70 years ago.
Then I look at myself today. I am 91. My voice is certainly not what it was when I was 20.
But here I am again. Singing. The choir has changed. The country has changed.
My life has changed. Macrine is no longer standing beside me.
But when I sing some of the songs we used to sing together, a part of her is still there.
And perhaps that is another gift of music.
It allows people we love to continue singing with us, even after they are gone.
My Christmas Wish
This Christmas, when the THD Singers stand before our fellow residents, I don't think I will be thinking about whether we sound perfect.
I will be thinking about the journey. From a young Filipino student singing bass in the Philippines...
To a young husband singing beside Macrine...To church choirs in California...
To Filipino Christmas caroling in Maryland...To years of listening to music and writing about it...
And now, after more than eight years away from choir singing, to the THD Singers. What a wonderful circle.
At 91, I have learned that growing older does not mean giving up the things that once gave us joy. Sometimes it means rediscovering them.
So if you are a senior reading this and you think you are too old to sing, I have one piece of advice:
Sing anyway. As the say, if you can talk, you can sing, Perhaps not as beautiful as Pavarotti.
You don't have to be a great singer. You don't have to remember every word.
You don't have to sing solo. Just find some people and sing together.
You may discover, as I have, that the music does more than fill the room.
It fills something inside you. And perhaps that is why I am enjoying the THD Singers so much.
After 91 years, I am still learning new songs. And I am still finding new reasons to sing.
Merry Christmas from the THD Singers!
May our songs bring a little happiness, a few memories, and perhaps a smile to everyone who hears us.
And if I forget a word during the concert... Please sing a little louder. I'll follow you.
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Macrine and I singing During a Birthday In-house Party, Pinole, Ca, 1983. The bottom photo is our backyard and the sunset above the Pinole Hills as the BackgroundI found several of your related music and singing posts, and they give us much more material than the 2019 article alone.
I especially found your 2022 reflections on whether singers are “born or made,” your memories of singing with Macrine in the UPSCA choir and later church choirs, your 2024 THD concert experiences, your 2025 music-enrichment session with Claire Baffico, and your earlier writing about music for relaxation and meditation.
I also checked the more recent research. A 2026 study of older adults found that group singing was associated with improvements in mood and social bonding, while other research has found potential benefits involving verbal fluency, memory, breathing/respiratory strength, and quality of life. I have been careful not to turn those findings into claims that singing “prevents” disease or guarantees better health.
Most importantly, I think the THD Singers should become the heart of the new version. Your return to choir singing after more than eight years gives the old article a wonderful “full circle” ending.
Lastly, I particularly like the ending because it sounds like you-warm, slightly humorous, and not trying to make a grand scientific claim. Your older music writings provide the history, but the THD Singers give this article a living present, which is exactly what makes it feel like a genuine David at 91 nearing 92 update rather than a revision of an old post.
My Reel of the Day: Change It to How I feel Nearing 92












