WELCOME TO CHATEAU DU MER BEACH RESORT

If this is your first time in my site, welcome! Chateau Du Mer is a beach house and a Conference Hall. The beach house could now accommodate 10 guests, six in the main floor and four in the first floor( air conditioned room). In addition, you can now reserve your vacation dates ahead and pay the rental fees via PayPal. I hope to see you soon in Marinduque- Home of the Morions and Heart of the Philippines. The photo above was taken during our first Garden Wedding ceremony at The Chateau Du Mer Gardens. I have also posted my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes in this site. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own, but I have no intention on the infringement of your copyrights!

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Marinduque Awaits You

Friday, May 22, 2026

The Development of the Coconut- The Tree of Life

I came across an image recently, one that, at first glance, made me pause.

I asked myself and my AI Assistants if the above Photo is real or Digitally Created. Both PerflexityAI and ChatGPT indicated the photo above appeared to be very real and not AI generated.  

The following are the stages of Coconut fruit development from flowering to Harvest for those of you not familiar with coconut plantations. 

๐ŸŒด The Shape of Becoming


The shapes were unusual. Almost awkward. Not what we expect when we think of something as familiar as a coconut. And yet, there it was: a quiet moment in the life of a tree, caught in a stage we rarely notice. It reminded me of something deeper.

Because what I was really looking at was not strangeness, but becoming.

๐ŸŒฑ The Early Form We Don’t Recognize


Before the coconut becomes the fruit we know, before it quenches thirst on a humid afternoon or enriches a meal shared with family, it begins in a form most of us would overlook.

A cluster. A swelling. An uncertain shape. In that early stage, it does not yet resemble its purpose.

And isn’t that true of so many things in life? Careers. Relationships. Even our own identities.

We often expect clarity too soon. We want things to make sense at the beginning, to look polished, to feel complete. But nature does not work that way and neither do we.

๐ŸŸข The Season of Growth


With time, the coconut begins to change. It fills with water-clear, life-giving. Its shape softens, rounds, becomes recognizable. What once seemed odd now begins to make sense.

But even here, not every fruit continues. Some fall away. That, too, is part of the process.

There is a quiet wisdom in that.

Not everything we start is meant to reach maturity. Not every path we walk is meant to last. And yet, none of it is wasted. Each stage prepares us for what comes next.

๐Ÿฅฅ The Fullness of Time


Eventually, the coconut becomes what it was always meant to be.

Nourishing. Useful. Complete. Its outer shell toughens, its inner flesh thickens, and what once looked unfamiliar becomes something essential, woven into daily life, into culture, into sustenance.

And yet, even at this stage, it does not boast of its journey. It simply is.

๐ŸŒ A Quiet Lesson

As I reflect on that image above, I find myself thinking about the many stages of my own life, the ones that made sense only in hindsight.

The uncertain beginnings. The seasons of growth and loss. The gradual shaping into something I could not have fully imagined at the start.

We are, all of us, in some stage of becoming. And perhaps the lesson is this:

Not to judge the shape too early. What appears awkward today may one day nourish others.

What feels incomplete now may simply be in its necessary season.

In the end, the coconut does not rush its transformation. Neither should we.

For my readers around the world, wherever you may be in your own journey, may you find patience in the process, and grace in the becoming.

My Quadjong Game- Modified Mahjong Game

The David B Katague Clan Playing Mahjong (Asian) during Alix Katague Wedding Reception 

Playing Mahjong since I was 5 years old in the Philippine Jungles hiding from the Japanese Invaders, I found the 13 tiles, Hongkong Style Game boring. Even with the Philippines style modification using 16 tiles with 2 Jokers, the Game is still not conflicted enough for me. 

So, I have been thinking of modifying the 13 tiles Hongkong ( Asian) Style of Mahjong Game, to make it more conflicated by using JOKERS.  My Version Of the Game I called Quadjong. 

The Quadjong Mahjong set will have 152 tiles similar to the American Mahjong, 144 plus 8 Jokers.  Here are my modifications.  

1. Each Player receives 20 tiles( instead of  13 or 16).  To Win you need to complete 5 sets of 4's Runs( Consecutives) or a Quad( 4 of a Kind)  plus 1. A pair is not needed.    Example, 1,2,3,4 ,  6,7,8,9,  3333, RRRR,  9999, NNNN, or NEWS. Winner will have 21 tiles.   

2. Both  Runs or Quads Can be obtained from any player. ( In the Standard Game the 3 tiles run can only be obtained from the player on your Left) 

3. The winds can be mended either as a Quad (NNNN) or one of each such as NEWS 

For Special Hands: Instead of 7 pairs, the Quadjong will have the 10 Pairs Game. All other special hands will be the same as the standard Style Game, All Runs, All Quads, all Same Suit, All one Suit plus winds or Dragons. 

The Big Difference is the Presence of Eight Jokers in the Set. Jokers can be any tiles you want it to Be. 

For Those Not FAMILIAR WITH THE MAHJONG SET :      

A. There are 3 suits: Bamboos, Characters and Circles,  from 1 to 9, four of each   

B There are 4 winds: North (N), East (E), West (W) and S ( south), four of each

C. There are 3 Dragons: White (W), Green (G) and Red (R), four of each 

D. There are 8 Flowers: Divided into 2- SPRING and  AUTUMN, NUNBERs, 1-4   

The Regular Mahjong sets has no Jokers. However the American Style Mahjong set has at least 8 Jokers or more.       

Try it and Have Some FUN. Let me know if you find Quadjong more challenging. 

Meanwhile, here are ten of the biggest news items today, May 22, 2026, drawn from major outlets and current headlines.

Top 10 news of the day

  1. Trump postponed an AI executive order signing ceremony, citing the need to compete with China.

  2. U.S. officials reportedly tried to ban half of the country’s voting machines over national-security concerns.

  3. The Trump administration is temporarily moving immigration lawyers to the Justice Department to accelerate citizenship-related enforcement.

  4. White House officials have delayed Trump’s planned AI and cybersecurity signing ceremony.

  5. The U.S. State Department says Americans returning from the Democratic Republic of the Congo must enter through Washington Dulles for Ebola screening.

  6. Reuters reports the acting head of the NIH infectious disease institute has stepped down as the U.S. responds to Ebola and hantavirus outbreaks.

  7. The U.S. House canceled a vote to end the Iran war without congressional authorization.

  8. Trump will swear in Kevin Warsh on Friday to lead the Federal Reserve.

  9. Daylight saving time year-round is being proposed again in Congress.

  10. North Carolina has sued VinFast over alleged delays in its EV project.

Notable global stories

  • BBC highlights a record 274 climbers reaching Everest via Nepal in one day.

  • BBC also reports that the U.S. paused a $14 billion weapons sale to Taiwan because of the Iran war.

  • Reuters and AP both note continued fallout from the Iran conflict and related U.S. policy moves.

One-line view

Today’s news is dominated by the Iran war, Trump administration policy moves, immigration enforcement, public health alerts, and major legal and political developments.



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