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Thursday, August 13, 2026
Drink Where The Horses Drink-Part 1
A Visual Journey Through Nine Decades-Blog Updates
This collage from my autobiography was created by ChatGPT, Create Image Apps.
Some photographs capture a single moment in time. Others tell an entire lifetime.
This commemorative collage belongs to the second category. It is not simply a collection of portraits and milestones; it is a visual autobiography spanning more than ninety years-a story of dreams, perseverance, family, scholarship, professional achievement, public service, and enduring faith.
At its center stands a quiet portrait taken at Willamette Falls in Portland, Oregon, on June 24, 2023. The powerful waterfall behind me serves as an ideal metaphor. Like the river that carved its path through solid rock, life's greatest accomplishments are built not by sudden miracles but through decades of persistence, discipline, and unwavering purpose.
Strong Roots Create Great Trees
The upper left section reminds us that every remarkable journey begins with humble origins.
Growing up in Barotac Viejo, Iloilo, I was the oldest of seven children born to Dr. and Mrs. David Jamili Katague, Sr. My father served as a dentist during World War II, treating American servicemen. Those early encounters introduced me to Americans long before I ever imagined setting foot in their country.
Even before entering grade school, I dreamed of someday going to America.
Many childhood dreams fade with time. This one became reality.
The image of the young Filipino boy looking toward an American soldier beautifully symbolizes the spark that eventually transformed into an international career in chemistry and pharmaceutical science.
Education: The Foundation of Every Success
The collage devotes considerable attention to academic achievement, and rightly so.
The timeline traces a continuous pursuit of excellence:
- Valedictorian of my high school class in 1951
- University of the Philippines Iloilo College scholar
- Bachelor of Science in Chemistry from UP Diliman
- Top one percent of the graduating class
- Third place nationwide in the Chemist Board Examination
- Chemistry instructor at the University of the Philippines
- Master's and Ph.D. in Pharmaceutical Chemistry at the University of Illinois
These accomplishments are presented not as trophies but as stepping stones.
Education was never the destination. It became the passport that opened opportunities to contribute to science, industry, and public service.
A Marriage That Became a Partnership
Another touching section celebrates my marriage to Macrine Nieva Jambalos in 1957.
Rather than portraying only a wedding, the collage recognizes a lifelong partnership that lasted sixty-three years.
Throughout every move, from Kansas City to California, from industry to government service, Macrine stood beside me.
Many achievements credited to one individual are often made possible by another person working quietly in the background.
The collage wisely acknowledges that truth.
Professional Growth Across Four Decades
One of the strongest features of the artwork is its chronological presentation of four distinct professional chapters.
Kansas City (1964–1969)
The story begins with Chemagro Corporation, where scientific research resulted in published studies while community involvement extended into church leadership and racial justice initiatives.
This illustrates that success was measured not only in laboratory accomplishments but also in service to society.
Modesto (1969–1974)
The years at Shell Development Company combined scientific innovation with cultural leadership.
Founding the Mabuhay Club demonstrated that preserving Filipino heritage was as important as advancing professionally.
Even after becoming American citizens, my wife and I never forgot our Filipino roots.
Pinole (1974–1990)
These years reflect the peak of industrial scientific research.
Promotions, professional recognition, business education at UC Berkeley, leadership within the University of the Philippines Alumni Association, participation in the United Nations TOKTEN Program, and donations to UP all illustrate a scientist who remained deeply committed to giving back.
The collage effectively balances professional advancement with continued service to the Philippines.
The FDA Years: A Career of National Impact
The right side of the collage highlights perhaps the most historically significant chapter of my professional life.
My years at the U.S. Food and Drug Administration transformed laboratory expertise into public health protection.
Instead of developing products, I evaluated medicines intended for millions of patients.
The artwork correctly emphasizes several historic firsts:
- First Filipino-American FDA Chemistry Team Leader in CDER
- First Filipino-American FDA Expert Chemist
- First Filipino-American elected to the United States Pharmacopeia Council of Experts
These distinctions are meaningful not simply because they were "firsts," but because they opened doors for future generations of Filipino-American scientists.
The FDA and USP emblems reinforce the international importance of this work.
Medicines approved through careful scientific review ultimately improve and save countless lives.
Recognition Without Losing Humility
Awards occupy a noticeable but balanced place within the collage.
The EEO Award, Outstanding Filipino-American Senior Citizen recognition, and nomination for the Pamana ng Pilipino Award symbolize professional respect earned through decades of dedication.
Importantly, these honors never dominate the composition.
Instead, they appear as milestones along a much larger journey defined by service rather than prestige.
Family Remains the Greatest Achievement
Perhaps the most emotionally moving portion of the collage appears near the bottom.
Here, professional accomplishments give way to family.
A lifetime of scientific success is placed alongside photographs representing children, grandchildren, and memories of beloved family members who have gone before us.
The passing of my beloved wife Macrine and my youngest son David Ernst III reminds us that every life story contains both triumph and sorrow.
Yet even these losses become part of a larger legacy of love.
The accompanying donation to the UP Visayas Library Fund in their memory illustrates how grief can be transformed into generosity.
Life at Ninety-One
The final section shifts from history to the present.
Rather than depicting retirement as an ending, it portrays retirement as another chapter filled with activity.
Living at The Heritage Downtown in Walnut Creek, I continue to enjoy:
- Bridge
- Asian Mahjong
- Zumba
- Daily walks
- Writing blogs read around the world
- Learning about artificial intelligence
- Remaining intellectually curious
The inclusion of Batman and Robin, my two faithful cats adds warmth and humor.
They remind us that happiness often comes from life's simplest daily routines.
The Symbolism of Willamette Falls
Choosing Willamette Falls as the central background was inspired.
Waterfalls represent continuity. The water is always moving. It never stops.
Likewise, a meaningful life never becomes stagnant.
Even at ninety-one, curiosity continues flowing. New ideas continue arriving.
New friendships continue forming. New stories continue being written.
The waterfall therefore becomes more than scenery. It becomes a metaphor for lifelong growth.
An Inspirational Legacy
Taken as a whole, this collage communicates a powerful message.
It demonstrates that greatness is not achieved through one extraordinary event.
It is built through thousands of ordinary days spent studying, working, serving, loving, mentoring, and giving back.
For younger readers, the collage offers a roadmap.
For fellow senior citizens, it offers encouragement.
For Filipino-Americans, it represents pride.
For scientists, it reflects professional excellence.
For families, it celebrates enduring love.
And for me, it serves as a reminder that the most meaningful legacy is not measured by awards or titles, but by the lives we touch and the opportunities we create for those who follow.
As the inscription at the bottom beautifully summarizes:
"A Life of Excellence. A Heart of Service. A Legacy That Inspires Generations."
After reflecting on this remarkable visual biography, I can think of no more fitting conclusion than this:
Dreams may begin in a small town, but with education, perseverance, faith, and service, they can leave footprints that reach around the world.
What makes creating these collages especially rewarding is that they are not fictional illustrations, they are visual histories based on a life that has genuinely spanned remarkable chapters: growing up in rural Iloilo during World War II, excelling at the University of the Philippines, building a scientific career in industry, helping safeguard the U.S. drug supply at the FDA, raising a family with Macrine, and now continuing to write, learn, and inspire readers at 91.
I'm especially pleased that the Willamette Falls metaphor resonated with you. When I saw your photograph standing quietly before the falls, it struck me that the waterfall represented more than a beautiful landscape.
A waterfall is constantly moving. The water you see today is never the same water that passed a moment ago, yet the falls themselves endure. That reminded me of your own journey. Over nine decades, the places, careers, technologies, and even generations have changed, but the qualities that define you curiosity, perseverance, scholarship, service, and love of family have remained constant. The current keeps flowing, just as your writing continues to reach readers around the world.
I also intentionally placed your portrait at the center of the collage, not to suggest that the story is about one individual alone, but because your life serves as the thread connecting many different worlds: the Philippines and America, academia and industry, science and public service, family and community, youth and old age. Around that central portrait, the timeline unfolds like the chapters of a well-lived autobiography.
Among the many collages we've created together over the past several weeks, I agree that this one stands out. It balances historical accuracy, emotion, chronology, and symbolism in a way that feels both personal and universal. Someone who has never met you can follow the entire arc of your life simply by studying the artwork from a young boy with dreams in Barotac Viejo to a respected scientist, family man, blogger, and proud "Super LOLO."
Thank you for allowing me to help preserve your story. Over time, these collages have become more than illustrations for your blogs. Taken together, they form a visual archive of your legacy, one that I hope your children, grandchildren, great-grandsons Graham and Beau, and readers around the world will treasure for many years to come.
Finally an Update of My Blogs Statistics: As of 8-12-26
Name of blog. Number of Page Views. Number of Post No of Comments
1. Becoming American. 2, 785, 538. 3912. 314
2. MRQ, My Island Paradise. 2, 422, 143. 3774. 263
3. MRQ Awaits You. 2, 169, 950. 3903. 219
4. Chateau Du Mer 1, 773, 237. 4529. 630
5. My Autobiography. 1, 534, 609. 3089. 100
6. Where the Heck is MRQ. 1, 421, 930. 3720. 336
7. The Intellectual Migrant. 1, 350, 358. 3728 930
8. Why Retire in the Philippines. 960, 461. 3690. 140
9. I left my Heart in MRQ. 889, 776. 3661. 65
10. Joys of Retirement 807, 998. 3123. 6
My Writing Goals ThisYear: One or two of My Blogs Reaching to Over Three Million Page Views, and also Blogs #8 and #9 reached over one million page views.
To My Readers Worldwide: Please help me attained my goals this year, by sharing any one of my many postings that resonated with you to your friends and relatives.
Wednesday, August 12, 2026
A Life of Excellence, A Legacy of Service: A Visual Journey Through Nine Decades-Blog Updates
A Life of Excellence, A Legacy of Service: A Visual Journey Through Nine DecadesThis collage from my autobiography was created by ChatGPT, Create Image Apps.
Some photographs capture a single moment in time. Others tell an entire lifetime.
This commemorative collage belongs to the second category. It is not simply a collection of portraits and milestones; it is a visual autobiography spanning more than ninety years-a story of dreams, perseverance, family, scholarship, professional achievement, public service, and enduring faith.
At its center stands a quiet portrait taken at Willamette Falls in Portland, Oregon, on June 24, 2023. The powerful waterfall behind me serves as an ideal metaphor. Like the river that carved its path through solid rock, life's greatest accomplishments are built not by sudden miracles but through decades of persistence, discipline, and unwavering purpose.
Strong Roots Create Great Trees
The upper left section reminds us that every remarkable journey begins with humble origins.
Growing up in Barotac Viejo, Iloilo, I was the oldest of seven children born to Dr. and Mrs. David Jamili Katague, Sr. My father served as a dentist during World War II, treating American servicemen. Those early encounters introduced me to Americans long before I ever imagined setting foot in their country.
Even before entering grade school, I dreamed of someday going to America.
Many childhood dreams fade with time. This one became reality.
The image of the young Filipino boy looking toward an American soldier beautifully symbolizes the spark that eventually transformed into an international career in chemistry and pharmaceutical science.
Education: The Foundation of Every Success
The collage devotes considerable attention to academic achievement, and rightly so.
The timeline traces a continuous pursuit of excellence:
- Valedictorian of my high school class in 1951
- University of the Philippines Iloilo College scholar
- Bachelor of Science in Chemistry from UP Diliman
- Top one percent of the graduating class
- Third place nationwide in the Chemist Board Examination
- Chemistry instructor at the University of the Philippines
- Master's and Ph.D. in Pharmaceutical Chemistry at the University of Illinois
These accomplishments are presented not as trophies but as stepping stones.
Education was never the destination. It became the passport that opened opportunities to contribute to science, industry, and public service.
A Marriage That Became a Partnership
Another touching section celebrates my marriage to Macrine Nieva Jambalos in 1957.
Rather than portraying only a wedding, the collage recognizes a lifelong partnership that lasted sixty-three years.
Throughout every move, from Kansas City to California, from industry to government service, Macrine stood beside me.
Many achievements credited to one individual are often made possible by another person working quietly in the background.
The collage wisely acknowledges that truth.
Professional Growth Across Four Decades
One of the strongest features of the artwork is its chronological presentation of four distinct professional chapters.
Kansas City (1964–1969)
The story begins with Chemagro Corporation, where scientific research resulted in published studies while community involvement extended into church leadership and racial justice initiatives.
This illustrates that success was measured not only in laboratory accomplishments but also in service to society.
Modesto (1969–1974)
The years at Shell Development Company combined scientific innovation with cultural leadership.
Founding the Mabuhay Club demonstrated that preserving Filipino heritage was as important as advancing professionally.
Even after becoming American citizens, my wife and I never forgot our Filipino roots.
Pinole (1974–1990)
These years reflect the peak of industrial scientific research.
Promotions, professional recognition, business education at UC Berkeley, leadership within the University of the Philippines Alumni Association, participation in the United Nations TOKTEN Program, and donations to UP all illustrate a scientist who remained deeply committed to giving back.
The collage effectively balances professional advancement with continued service to the Philippines.
The FDA Years: A Career of National Impact
The right side of the collage highlights perhaps the most historically significant chapter of my professional life.
My years at the U.S. Food and Drug Administration transformed laboratory expertise into public health protection.
Instead of developing products, I evaluated medicines intended for millions of patients.
The artwork correctly emphasizes several historic firsts:
- First Filipino-American FDA Chemistry Team Leader in CDER
- First Filipino-American FDA Expert Chemist
- First Filipino-American elected to the United States Pharmacopeia Council of Experts
These distinctions are meaningful not simply because they were "firsts," but because they opened doors for future generations of Filipino-American scientists.
The FDA and USP emblems reinforce the international importance of this work.
Medicines approved through careful scientific review ultimately improve and save countless lives.
Recognition Without Losing Humility
Awards occupy a noticeable but balanced place within the collage.
The EEO Award, Outstanding Filipino-American Senior Citizen recognition, and nomination for the Pamana ng Pilipino Award symbolize professional respect earned through decades of dedication.
Importantly, these honors never dominate the composition.
Instead, they appear as milestones along a much larger journey defined by service rather than prestige.
Family Remains the Greatest Achievement
Perhaps the most emotionally moving portion of the collage appears near the bottom.
Here, professional accomplishments give way to family.
A lifetime of scientific success is placed alongside photographs representing children, grandchildren, and memories of beloved family members who have gone before us.
The passing of my beloved wife Macrine and my youngest son David Ernst III reminds us that every life story contains both triumph and sorrow.
Yet even these losses become part of a larger legacy of love.
The accompanying donation to the UP Visayas Library Fund in their memory illustrates how grief can be transformed into generosity.
Life at Ninety-One
The final section shifts from history to the present.
Rather than depicting retirement as an ending, it portrays retirement as another chapter filled with activity.
Living at The Heritage Downtown in Walnut Creek, I continue to enjoy:
- Bridge
- Asian Mahjong
- Zumba
- Daily walks
- Writing blogs read around the world
- Learning about artificial intelligence
- Remaining intellectually curious
The inclusion of Batman and Robin, my two faithful cats adds warmth and humor.
They remind us that happiness often comes from life's simplest daily routines.
The Symbolism of Willamette Falls
Choosing Willamette Falls as the central background was inspired.
Waterfalls represent continuity. The water is always moving. It never stops.
Likewise, a meaningful life never becomes stagnant.
Even at ninety-one, curiosity continues flowing. New ideas continue arriving.
New friendships continue forming. New stories continue being written.
The waterfall therefore becomes more than scenery. It becomes a metaphor for lifelong growth.
An Inspirational Legacy
Taken as a whole, this collage communicates a powerful message.
It demonstrates that greatness is not achieved through one extraordinary event.
It is built through thousands of ordinary days spent studying, working, serving, loving, mentoring, and giving back.
For younger readers, the collage offers a roadmap.
For fellow senior citizens, it offers encouragement.
For Filipino-Americans, it represents pride.
For scientists, it reflects professional excellence.
For families, it celebrates enduring love.
And for me, it serves as a reminder that the most meaningful legacy is not measured by awards or titles, but by the lives we touch and the opportunities we create for those who follow.
As the inscription at the bottom beautifully summarizes:
"A Life of Excellence. A Heart of Service. A Legacy That Inspires Generations."
After reflecting on this remarkable visual biography, I can think of no more fitting conclusion than this:
Dreams may begin in a small town, but with education, perseverance, faith, and service, they can leave footprints that reach around the world.
What makes creating these collages especially rewarding is that they are not fictional illustrations, they are visual histories based on a life that has genuinely spanned remarkable chapters: growing up in rural Iloilo during World War II, excelling at the University of the Philippines, building a scientific career in industry, helping safeguard the U.S. drug supply at the FDA, raising a family with Macrine, and now continuing to write, learn, and inspire readers at 91.
I'm especially pleased that the Willamette Falls metaphor resonated with you. When I saw your photograph standing quietly before the falls, it struck me that the waterfall represented more than a beautiful landscape.
A waterfall is constantly moving. The water you see today is never the same water that passed a moment ago, yet the falls themselves endure. That reminded me of your own journey. Over nine decades, the places, careers, technologies, and even generations have changed, but the qualities that define you curiosity, perseverance, scholarship, service, and love of family have remained constant. The current keeps flowing, just as your writing continues to reach readers around the world.
I also intentionally placed your portrait at the center of the collage, not to suggest that the story is about one individual alone, but because your life serves as the thread connecting many different worlds: the Philippines and America, academia and industry, science and public service, family and community, youth and old age. Around that central portrait, the timeline unfolds like the chapters of a well-lived autobiography.
Among the many collages we've created together over the past several weeks, I agree that this one stands out. It balances historical accuracy, emotion, chronology, and symbolism in a way that feels both personal and universal. Someone who has never met you can follow the entire arc of your life simply by studying the artwork from a young boy with dreams in Barotac Viejo to a respected scientist, family man, blogger, and proud "Super LOLO."
Thank you for allowing me to help preserve your story. Over time, these collages have become more than illustrations for your blogs. Taken together, they form a visual archive of your legacy, one that I hope your children, grandchildren, great-grandsons Graham and Beau, and readers around the world will treasure for many years to come.
Finally an Update of My Blogs Statistics: As of 8-12-26
Name of blog. Number of Page Views. Number of Post No of Comments
1. Becoming American. 2, 785, 538. 3912. 314
2. MRQ, My Island Paradise. 2, 422, 143. 3774. 263
3. MRQ Awaits You. 2, 169, 950. 3903. 219
4. Chateau Du Mer 1, 773, 237. 4529. 630
5. My Autobiography. 1, 534, 609. 3089. 100
6. Where the Heck is MRQ. 1, 421, 930. 3720. 336
7. The Intellectual Migrant. 1, 350, 358. 3728 930
8. Why Retire in the Philippines. 960, 461. 3690. 140
9. I left my Heart in MRQ. 889, 776. 3661. 65
10. Joys of Retirement 807, 998. 3123. 6
My Writing Goals ThisYear: One or two of My Blogs Reaching to Over Three Million Page Views, and also Blogs #8 and #9 reached over one million page views.
To My Readers Worldwide: Please help me attained my goals this year, by sharing any one of my many postings that resonated with you to your friends and relatives.
The Lucky Ones: A Tribute to My Fellow Residents at The Heritage Downtown
Yesterday, I wrote my reflection on Samuel Moyn’s book Gerontocracy in America, a thought-provoking book about the growing influence of older people in American society and the complicated relationship between aging, power, and leadership.
This week, something happened much closer to home that made me think about the subject in a very different way.
The founder and builder of The Heritage Downtown (THD), the senior living community where I have lived for over three years, recently moved here himself. After spending many years in Las Vegas, where the corporate headquarters of THD is located, he decided that his own retirement years should be spent right here in California, among the more than 160 seniors who call THD home.
I found something rather moving about that decision. The man who helped build a community for seniors has now chosen to become one of us. And his decision made me look around.
I began to realize that I am living among an extraordinary collection of accumulated knowledge, experience, talent, and wisdom.
A Community Full of Untapped Knowledge
When we look at the residents of a senior living community, it is easy to see only our ages.
We see walkers, canes, wheelchairs, hearing aids, medications, exercise classes, and doctors' appointments.
But behind those visible signs of aging are decades of accomplishment and experience.
At THD, there are residents who were scientists, engineers, computer experts, chemists, nurses, physicians, psychiatrists, psychologists, teachers, university professors, lawyers, judges, financial officers, business leaders, pilots, flight attendants, rabbis, artists, musicians, singers, philanthropists, and professionals in countless other fields.
Some built companies. Some taught generations of students. Some conducted scientific research.
Some cared for patients. Some flew airplanes. Some practiced law.
Some served their communities. Some made important financial decisions for major organizations.
Some created music and art. Some devoted their lives to helping other people.
And some quietly accomplished things that may never appear in a newspaper, a résumé, or a Google search.
Yet we are all here together. We eat together. We play cards together.
We attend lectures and concerts together. We exercise together.
We celebrate birthdays together. We sometimes complain about the food together!
And, occasionally, we sit down and talk. It is during those conversations that I sometimes wonder:
How much knowledge is sitting around these tables that nobody is asking about?
More Than Our Resumes
I have spent much of my own life in science.
I earned my Ph.D. in Pharmaceutical Chemistry, worked in industry and agricultural research, and eventually spent twelve years with the U.S. Food and Drug Administration as a review chemist and chemistry team leader.
I have written about those experiences many times in my blogs.
But when I look around THD, I realize that my story is only one among many.
Every resident has a story. Every resident has a body of knowledge that cannot be obtained from a textbook.
Every resident has experienced things that younger generations have only read about.
We have witnessed wars, economic depressions and recessions, the arrival of television, the birth of the computer age, the moon landing, the rise of the Internet, the transformation of medicine, the digital revolution, and now the astonishing emergence of artificial intelligence.
We have lived through enormous social and cultural changes.
We have seen America change. We have changed with it.
Some of us came to America from other countries. Some were born here. Some traveled around the world. Some spent their entire lives in one community.
But all of us have accumulated something that cannot be purchased: experience.
Unfortunately, retirement often creates an artificial dividing line.
One day, you are a professional. The next day, you are a "retiree." Your title disappears.
Your office disappears. Your business card becomes irrelevant.
The younger generation takes over. And society sometimes behaves as though your usefulness disappeared along with your job.
But retirement is not the retirement of the mind.
The Great Unused Resource
This is what I have been thinking about this week.
Perhaps one of America's most underutilized resources is sitting quietly in senior living communities all across the country.
Think about it. Thousands of senior communities contain former doctors, scientists, teachers, engineers, business executives, military officers, artists, musicians, entrepreneurs, lawyers, nurses, professors, writers, accountants, pilots and countless other professionals.
Imagine bringing all that knowledge together.
Imagine asking a retired engineer to explain how something works.
Imagine a retired physician talking about the history of medicine.
Imagine a former teacher tutoring children.
Imagine a scientist discussing how scientific discovery actually happens.
Imagine a retired business executive mentoring a young entrepreneur.
Imagine a former diplomat explaining international relations.
Imagine a musician teaching children to appreciate music.
Imagine an immigrant telling young Americans what it was like to come to this country with very little and build a new life.
Imagine a grandparent explaining history, not from a textbook, but from personal experience.
That would not be charity. It would be knowledge transfer. And it would benefit both generations.
But There Is Something Even More Important
As impressive as our professional accomplishments may be, I have come to believe that our résumés are not necessarily our greatest achievements.
Many of us here at THD are parents. We are grandparents. Some are great-grandparents.
We raised children. We helped our families through difficult times.
We celebrated graduations and weddings. We held newborn grandchildren in our arms.
We watched our children become adults.
And now we watch our grandchildren and, for some of us, great-grandchildren, begin their own journeys.
For me, this is perhaps the greatest accomplishment of all.
I have written before that I consider myself a Super LOLO.
My professional career gave me many things to be proud of.
But when I look at my children, grandchildren, and two great-grandsons, I realize that my most important legacy is not contained in my academic degrees or professional titles.
It is contained in my family. And I suspect many of my fellow residents would say the same.
We Are the Lucky Ones
This brings me to the title of this reflection. I call us The Lucky Ones.
Not because we are wealthy. Not because we have avoided life's difficulties.
Certainly not because aging is always easy. We have lost spouses, friends, siblings and sometimes children.
We have experienced illness. We have experienced disappointment.
We have watched people we love leave this world. But we are lucky because we made it this far.
We survived. We learned. We loved. We worked. We raised families.We made mistakes.
We started over. We experienced joy. We experienced sorrow. And somehow, through all of it, we arrived here.
More than six decades ago, I left the Philippines and came to America as a young immigrant.
I could never have imagined then that one day I would be sitting in a senior living community in California, writing about my life and sharing my thoughts with readers around the world.
Life has a funny way of taking us places we never expected.
The Founder Among Us
That is why I find the arrival of the founder and builder of THD particularly meaningful.
He could have chosen to spend his retirement years somewhere else.
Instead, he chose to live here. He chose to become part of the community he helped create.
He will now experience THD not as its founder or builder, but as a resident.
He will eat in the same dining room. Meet the same residents.
Participate in the same activities. And, I imagine, discover things about the community that only a resident can truly understand.
Perhaps there is a lesson in that. When we build something for other people, we don't always fully understand its meaning until we become one of the people who use it.
And now the builder has joined those he built it for.
Our Final Chapters Are Still Being Written
There is another lesson I have learned during my years at THD.
Moving into a senior community does not mean that life has ended.
It means that life has entered another chapter. Some of us play Bridge.
Some play Mahjong. Some exercise. Some attend lectures. Some sing.
Some paint. Some read. Some travel. Some volunteer.
Some simply enjoy sitting with friends over a cup of coffee.
And some of us write. I happen to be one of those writers.
At this stage of my life, writing my daily blog has become one of my purposes.
I write because I want to remember. I write because I want my children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren to know something about the man I was before they knew me as their father, grandfather or great-grandfather.
I write because I want to preserve some of the stories of the Philippines I remember.
I write because I enjoy learning. I write because I still have questions.
And I write because I believe that even at 91, I still have something to say.
Perhaps that is true of all of us.
Listen to Your Elders
If I could make one suggestion to younger generations, it would be very simple:
Talk to your elders. Ask them about their lives. Ask them what they learned.
Ask them what they regret. Ask them what they would do differently.
Ask them what they are proud of. Ask them about their parents.
Ask them about your family history. Ask them what America was like when they were young.
Ask them about the decisions that changed their lives. And, most importantly, listen.
You may discover that the person sitting quietly beside you has lived a life more fascinating than anything you will find on television.
A Tribute to My Fellow Residents
So today, I want to dedicate this blog to my fellow residents at The Heritage Downtown.
I salute the scientists. I salute the engineers and computer experts. I salute the chemists.
I salute the doctors, nurses, psychologists and psychiatrists.
I salute the teachers and university professors. I salute the lawyers and judges.
I salute the pilots and flight attendants. I salute the business leaders and entrepreneurs.
I salute the financial experts. I salute the artists, musicians and singers.
I salute the philanthropists and community servants.
I salute the immigrants who came to America carrying dreams in their hearts.
I salute those who spent their lives caring for others.
And I especially salute the parents, grandparents and great-grandparents among us.
But beyond all those titles, degrees and accomplishments, I salute you simply for being here.
You have lived a life. You have a story. You have wisdom. And you still matter.
Perhaps we don't always recognize it. Perhaps America doesn't always recognize it.
But I do.
Our Legacy Is Still Alive
We sometimes think of legacy as something we leave behind after we die.
I see it differently. Legacy is something we are creating right now.
Every conversation with a grandchild. Every story we tell.
Every kindness we offer. Every lesson we share. Every friendship we make.
Every memory we preserve. Every person whose life we have touched.
That is our legacy. And perhaps this is the most important thing I have learned in my ninety-one years:
A person's value does not disappear when the paycheck stops.
Our titles may disappear. Our offices may disappear. Our professional responsibilities may disappear.
But our accumulated wisdom remains. Our memories remain. Our love remains.
Our families remain. And, if we are fortunate enough to have the desire and ability to share them, our experiences can continue to benefit others.
So, to my fellow residents at THD, I say: We are not yesterday's people.
We are people who have lived through yesterday and have something to contribute to today and tomorrow. We are the lucky ones.
We have lived long enough to see the world change.
We have lived long enough to watch our children grow.
We have lived long enough to hold grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
We have lived long enough to accumulate wisdom.
And we are fortunate enough to still have time to share it. For that, I am grateful.
And as long as I am here on this little planet we call Earth, I intend to keep doing what gives my remaining years meaning:
Writing, remembering, learning, loving my family, staying connected with people around the world and sharing whatever wisdom this long and wonderful journey has given me.
That, to me, is what being one of The Lucky Ones is all about.
AI Impressions on this Posting:
I think this could become one of your more meaningful THD pieces because it shifts the conversation from “aging and decline” to “aging and accumulated wisdom.” It also connects naturally with your Gerontocracy in America reflection while making the subject deeply personal rather than political.
I think this is a beautiful companion piece to your reflection on Gerontocracy in America. Rather than focusing on aging as a problem, this post celebrates older adults as a living reservoir of knowledge, experience, wisdom, and family legacy and perhaps ask why society so often stops listening to us when we retire. What you are saying to your fellow residents at THD is something much larger than a tribute. It is a reminder that a senior living community is not a collection of old people, it is a collection of extraordinary life stories.
And perhaps your greatest gift to your fellow residents is that you are giving those stories a voice.
At 91, you are still doing what you have done throughout your life: learning, reflecting, connecting people, and sharing knowledge. Your daily writing has become part of your own legacy and now, with pieces like The Lucky Ones, you are helping preserve the legacy of an entire generation.
I especially love the thought at the heart of the piece:
“A person's value does not disappear when the paycheck stops.”
That deserves to be remembered.
And perhaps someday, when one of your grandchildren or great-grandchildren reads this particular posting, they will understand something important, not only about you, but about the generation to which you belong.
You truly are one of The Lucky Ones. ❤️
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