Marinduque-My Island Paradise- An Update
Marinduque, My Island Paradise: More Than a Place, It Became Part of My Life
What a little island in the Philippines has meant to me after more than two decades of memories
Is Marinduque really an island paradise? I asked that question in one of my earlier articles.
Today, at 91nearing 92, I would answer it differently. Yes, it is my island paradise.
But not because Marinduque is perfect. It isn't.
The roads can be rough. Transportation has never been as convenient as in the big cities. There are typhoons, brownouts, mosquitoes and the occasional inconvenience that comes with island life.
But paradise, I have learned, is not necessarily a perfect place.
Sometimes paradise is simply a place where you have been happy. For me, that place is Marinduque.
WHERE IS MARINDUQUE?
If you ask an American where Marinduque is, don't be surprised if you get a blank look.
Even some Filipinos have never visited the island.
I have occasionally had to explain that it is a small island province in the Philippines, south of Manila, between Luzon and the Visayas.
It is known as the “Heart of the Philippines” because of its location near the geographical center of the Philippine archipelago.
It is also famous for the Moriones Festival, especially during Holy Week.
But those descriptions don't really explain why I love it. To understand that, you have to know my story.
HOW MARINDUQUE BECAME MY SECOND HOME
Macrine was born in Boac, Marinduque.
After many years in America, we began spending part of our retirement years there.
From 2002 through 2013, we followed what I called our “snowbird lifestyle,” spending roughly November through March in Marinduque and the rest of the year in the United States.
Eventually, we built Chateau Du Mer in Barangay Amoingon, Boac.
It began as our retirement home. Then it became much more.
It became a beach house. A gathering place. A conference and event venue.
A place for weddings and family celebrations. A place where balikbayans could come home.
And, most importantly, a place where Macrine and I created some of our happiest memories together.
CHATEAU DU MER-OUR LITTLE CORNER OF PARADISE
When people ask me what I remember most about Marinduque, I often think first of Chateau Du Mer.
Our house sits near the sea. From the balcony, we could watch the sun disappear over the water.
I have taken hundreds of photographs of those sunsets. Perhaps too many.
But I never got tired of them. My favorite time of the day was actually not sunset itself.
It was sunset and twilight. There was something magical about watching the sky change while the lights around the garden gradually came on.
I installed more than 50 solar lights around the property, along with lights highlighting the bridge, sculptures and garden. The bridge became one of the focal points of the landscaping.
I sometimes joked that I was a retired chemist who had become a part-time landscape architect.
THE LITTLE CREEK UNDER THE BRIDGE
One of my favorite features of Chateau Du Mer was the little creek that ran underneath the bridge.
Depending on the season, we could see fish, crabs and snails. At one time, I stocked the creek with tilapia.
By May, some of them had grown to three to five pounds.
I told our caretaker to harvest them before the rainy season because otherwise the monsoon rains would eventually carry them into the sea.
These are little things. They would probably not interest a professional travel writer.
But they are exactly the things I remember. That is why my memories of Marinduque are different from a tourist's memories.
A tourist sees a beautiful beach. I see the beach, the bridge, the creek, the fish, the garden, the sunset and the person who stood beside me watching them.
THE MAGIC OF THE NIGHT
Some of my favorite memories of Marinduque happened after the sun went down.
Macrine and I enjoyed sitting on the balcony watching the moon.
Sometimes we walked along the beach at night. Sometimes we built a campfire.
Sometimes we watched fishermen working offshore.
And sometimes we simply sat outside and did nothing.
There were evenings when fireflies appeared around the property.
I would watch those tiny lights flashing among the trees and think that no expensive resort could improve the view.
That was luxury to me. Not marble floors. Not room service.
Just sitting beside the woman I loved, looking at the sea and watching fireflies.
MARINDUQUE IS MORE THAN ITS BEACHES
Marinduque has beautiful beaches, but that is only part of the story.
There are mountains, caves, waterfalls, hot and sulfur springs, reefs, small islands and snorkeling and diving areas.
There is Mount Malindig. There are old churches. There are fishing villages.
There are coconut trees everywhere. And there is the famous Moriones Festival.
I have always felt that Marinduque has enormous potential for ecotourism because its natural attractions are still relatively less developed than the famous tourist destinations of the Philippines. My older writings often compared it with more heavily visited places such as Boracay.
But I also learned that development has to be balanced with preservation.
If we destroy the very things that make an island beautiful, we have defeated the purpose of tourism.
THE MORIONES FESTIVAL
If you have never experienced Moriones during Holy Week, it is difficult to describe.
The island comes alive. There are colorful masks, costumes, processions and performances based on the story of Longinus, the Roman soldier traditionally associated with the Passion story.
For several days, Marinduque becomes much busier than usual.
I sometimes joked that the island has 52 weeks in a year, and only one of them is really crowded.
The other 51 weeks are when I enjoyed the quiet Marinduque.
WE EVEN DANCED IN MARINDUQUE
One of my favorite memories is something that probably would not appear in a normal travel guide. Dancing.
Macrine and I loved to dance. In 2001, during the May Flower Festival in Boac, we participated in the Rigodon de Honor Grand Ball.
Sixteen couples practiced for almost a month. I was no Fred Astaire.
Macrine was the better dancer. But we had fun.
We also danced the Tango at island celebrations.
When I look back now, I realize that these were not simply dances.
They were memories of being young together.
Today, when I think of Marinduque, I sometimes hear the music before I see the island.
MARINDUQUE TAUGHT US TO GIVE BACK
Our relationship with Marinduque was not simply about retirement and relaxation.
Macrine and I became involved in medical missions serving communities throughout the province.
We helped organize and participate in missions that brought doctors, nurses, dentists, pharmacists, medicines and other services to people who had limited access to healthcare.
I helped with pharmacy work, translation, coordination and fundraising.
Macrine was deeply involved in organizing the missions.
Thousands of people came. Some waited for hours.
Some traveled considerable distances just to see a doctor.
Those experiences changed the way I looked at our good fortune in America.
We had been blessed. We had education. We had careers. We had a comfortable retirement.
The medical missions gave us an opportunity to give something back to the people of Macrine's home province.
That became one of the most meaningful parts of our Marinduque story.
MARINDUQUE WAS ALSO A PLACE FOR FAMILY
Chateau Du Mer was never intended to be just a house. We wanted it to be a gathering place.
Family members came. Friends came. Balikbayans came.
We held gatherings and celebrations. We even hosted a garden wedding.
I enjoyed showing visitors the sunsets, the beach, the gardens and the island.
But what I really enjoyed was watching people relax.
In America, we often schedule everything.
In Marinduque, sometimes you just sit down and talk.
Someone brings food. Someone tells a story. Someone's cousin arrives unexpectedly.
Before you know it, dinner has become a party. That is part of Filipino life that I have always loved.
FOOD IS PART OF PARADISE
Of course, I cannot write about Marinduque without mentioning food.
Fresh seafood. Fish caught locally. Coconut. Mangoes. Bananas. Papaya.
Local vegetables. Coconut Crabs. And Filipino dishes that somehow taste better when eaten beside the sea.
Perhaps the food really isn't different. Maybe it is the surroundings. Or maybe it is the company.
I have learned that food is often less about what is on the plate and more about who is sitting around the table.
MY “GARDEN OF EDEN”
In some of my earlier writings, I called Chateau Du Mer my “Garden of Eden.”
I still like that description. Not because it was perfect. It certainly wasn't.
But because I could walk outside and see things that connected me with nature.
Birds. Butterflies. Fish. Fireflies. Coconut trees. Flowers. The sea. And sunsets.
I even had an alley cat that adopted the property.
There were bayawak, birds of prey and other creatures that occasionally appeared.
Living there reminded me that nature does not need much improvement from human beings.
Sometimes the best thing we can do is leave it alone.
MY ISLAND PARADISE WAS NEVER REALLY ABOUT TOURISM
When I first began writing about Marinduque, I wanted to tell the world about this beautiful island that many people had never heard of.
I still do. But after all these years, I realize that my articles were never really tourism articles.
They were memory articles. I was trying to preserve something. The sound of the waves.
The sunset. The smell of the garden. The sound of birds. The laughter of guests.
The music at a dance. The long lines at a medical mission.
The taste of fresh fish. The sight of fireflies. And the sound of Macrine's voice.
THEN LIFE CHANGED
Marinduque was part of our retirement dream. But life does not always follow our plans.
Macrine died in 2020 after more than 63 years of marriage.
I eventually stopped spending the long periods in Marinduque that we once enjoyed.
Chateau Du Mer changed too.
What had once been a public-facing beach house and gathering place is now primarily a private family and friends property.
But the place remains. And so do the memories.
In a way, Chateau Du Mer has become something different from what Macrine and I originally imagined. It has become a legacy.
WHAT I SEE WHEN I LOOK AT MARINDUQUE NOW
When I was younger, I saw the island's beauty. At 91, I see something else.
I see time. I see the young couple who dreamed about retirement.
I see Macrine and me sitting on the balcony watching sunsets.
I see our family and friends. I see the volunteers arriving for medical missions.
I see dancers preparing for the Rigodon. I see children running around the property.
I see the creek underneath the bridge.I see the fireflies.
And I see two older people who were lucky enough to have a place where they could slow down and enjoy life.
That is what Marinduque means to me now.
IS IT REALLY PARADISE?
So let me return to the question I asked in my original article:
Is Marinduque an island paradise? If by paradise you mean a place with perfect roads, perfect weather, perfect infrastructure and no problems, then no.
Marinduque is not paradise. But if paradise means a place where you can watch a beautiful sunset...
where people still greet you warmly...where family can gather around a table...
where you can hear the waves at night...where fireflies appear in the garden...
where you can help someone who needs it...where you can dance with the person you love...
and where, years later, you can close your eyes and still remember how happy you were...
Then my answer is very simple: Yes. Marinduque is my island paradise.
AT 91 Nearing 92, I UNDERSTAND WHY
I have lived in many places during my 91 years.
I was born in Iloilo. I studied in Manila. I came to America in 1960.
I lived in the Midwest, California and the East Coast.
I worked in pharmaceutical science and spent 12 years at the FDA.
I traveled. I raised a family. I retired. And eventually, Macrine and I created our own little corner of the Philippines.
Marinduque gave us something that money could not buy.
It gave us time. Time to sit. Time to talk. Time to watch sunsets. Time to dance.
Time to serve. Time to entertain friends. Time to remember where we came from.
And time to simply be together. That is why, even though I no longer live there the way I once did, Marinduque remains part of me.
MY ISLAND PARADISE LIVES IN MY MEMORY
Today, I live at The Heritage Downtown in Walnut Creek.
I play bridge. I sing with the THD Singers. I write. I enjoy my fellow residents.
I keep up with my children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.
I am still curious about the world. And I am grateful.
But sometimes, especially when I see a beautiful sunset, my mind travels back to Marinduque.
I see the balcony. I see the sea. I see the bridge. I see the garden. And I see Macrine beside me.
Perhaps that is the greatest gift of an island paradise. You don't have to be there physically to return to it.
At 91 nearing 92, I can still close my eyes and go home. Home to Marinduque. Home to Chateau Du Mer.
Home to the sunsets.Home to the memories. Home to the love of my life.
So, is Marinduque an island paradise? For me, it always will be. Mabuhay Marinduque!
And thank you for giving Macrine and me so many beautiful memories.
AI Impressions on This Topic:
I think this version has a different feeling from the original. The younger David was trying to convince readers that Marinduque was worth visiting. The 91-year-old David is explaining why the island became part of his life. That shift from tourism to memory, love, service and legacy is what makes this feel much more like your present voice.
Moreover, I went back through the original “Marinduque, Philippines: Is It an Island Paradise?” and several of your Chateau Du Mer writings rather than treating the old article as a stand-alone travel piece. Your Marinduque writing has a recurring story that is much more personal: Marinduque was never simply a beautiful vacation destination. It became your second home, a retirement dream, a place of service, a place where you and Macrine entertained family and friends, and eventually a place filled with memories of her.
I also found wonderful details in your older posts that I think should come back into this article: the sunsets and twilight, the creek under your bridge, fireflies, moon watching, night walks, Moriones, the garden, fishing, the medical missions, the dancing, and your dream of making Chateau Du Mer a gathering place for balikbayans and friends.
Most importantly, I changed the perspective. Your younger article asked, “Is Marinduque really an island paradise?”At 91, I think your answer is more interesting:
Paradise is not a place that is perfect. It is a place where you have been happy, useful, loved, and able to make memories that remain after the years have passed.

















