WELCOME TO CHATEAU DU MER BEACH RESORT

If this is your first time in my site, welcome! Chateau Du Mer is a beach house and a Conference Hall. The beach house could now accommodate 10 guests, six in the main floor and four in the first floor( air conditioned room). In addition, you can now reserve your vacation dates ahead and pay the rental fees via PayPal. I hope to see you soon in Marinduque- Home of the Morions and Heart of the Philippines. The photo above was taken during our first Garden Wedding ceremony at The Chateau Du Mer Gardens. I have also posted my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes in this site. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own, but I have no intention on the infringement of your copyrights!

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Marinduque Awaits You

Thursday, July 23, 2026

The Story Behind the Giant Wooden Spoon and Fork in Filipino Homes

I remember very well that our first home in the Philippines has a similar Wood Decor in our Dining Table. When Macrine and I got married both of our parents gifted us a small house in one of the Housing District in the suburbs of Manila. It was a small house but we treasured it being a wedding gift from both of our parents. Both Macrine and I were the oldest child in the family. This posting discuss the symbolism of this spoon and fork wood carving decor that was popular during our younger days in Filipino homes.
Step into many traditional Filipino homes and you’ll likely spot a giant wooden spoon and fork hanging on the dining room wall. It’s not just quirky décor — it’s a symbol of cultural heritage, practicality, and family values passed down through generations.
The giant wooden spoon (kutsara) and fork (tinidor) are usually made from narra or mahogany and often found in pairs, sometimes crossed like an "X" or displayed side by side. For many Filipinos, these oversized utensils represent more than just eating — they symbolize unity, hospitality, and the importance of sharing meals as a family.
Historically, the wooden spoon and fork became popular household decorations in the 1970s to 1980s, during a time when handcrafted wood items were seen as symbols of Filipino pride and craftsmanship. Over time, they became nostalgic pieces — reminders of home, tradition, and the Filipino love for food and family gatherings.
Beyond their decorative purpose, they also reflect the strong belief that the kitchen and dining area are sacred spaces where bonds are nurtured. Some elders even believe that having these in the home brings blessings and good fortune to the family.
So, the next time you see one, remember — it’s not just “old-school décor.” It’s a piece of Filipino identity, hanging quietly on the wall, telling stories of togetherness and shared meals that go far beyond the table.

Meanwhile, Did you know that....
The Philippines has one of the most female-driven workforces in Asia.
👩‍⚕️ In sectors like education, healthcare, and BPO, women make up over 70% of the labor force.
📈 We’re also #1 in Asia for women in senior business roles — outpacing even wealthier nations. It’s not just equality — it’s leadership in action.
Lastly, 
In 2017, 534 new islands were officially added to the Philippine archipelago — raising the total from 7,107 to 7,641 islands.
🌊 How? Thanks to modern satellite mapping and hydrographic surveys, many previously unrecorded land masses (often tiny and tide-dependent) were verified and recognized by NAMRIA (National Mapping and Resource Information Authority).
📍 Most of these “new” islands are located in remote areas and were simply overlooked in older maps — not newly formed, just newly documented.

Filipina Nurse Tragic Affair with A Dubai Surgeon


Filipina Nurse’s Affair With Dubai Surgeon Ends in Tragedy When She’s Found in Morgue Freezer
Today we're examining a case that transformed Dubai Crescent Hospital from a beacon of medical excellence into the scene of an unimaginable crime. Behind the pristine walls and cuttingedge technology of the United Arab Emirates premier medical institution. A dark obsession was forming, one that would ultimately lead to mvrd3! in the most chilling sense.
The woman who dedicated her life to saving others would be found where no living person belongs. Her body discovered by Morg staff during what should have been a routine morning check. What began as a workplace romance between a celebrated surgeon and a compassionate nurse spiraled into possession control and ultimately a desperate act that shocked the medical community worldwide.
Because when they opened that freezer door, what they found challenged everything they thought they knew about the man who held lives in his hands daily. Dr. Zay Alarscy was 46 years old when he committed the act that would define his legacy, not as a healer, but as a killer before that fateful night in September 2023. He was the undisputed star of Dubai's medical community.
Born to a prominent Emirati family with ties to the ruling class, Zayn had been destined for greatness from an early age. He attended King's College London for his medical degree, followed by specialized cardiac training at Harvard Medical School and the Cleveland Clinic, where he developed innovative techniques for minimally invasive valve replacements.
His research was published in the New England Journal of Medicine and the Lancet, establishing him as a rising star long before he returned to Dubai. By 2018, Dr. Al Farars's patient survival rate for high-risisk cardiac procedures stood at 98.7%. Nearly 12 percentage points above the international average.
His hands moved with mechanical precision. His mind processed complex medical variables instantaneously, and his decisions in the operating theater were described by colleagues as nearly divine in their accuracy. According to hospital financial records, his department generated over 178 million durams, approximately $ 48.
5 million annually for Dubai Crescent Hospital, attracting wealthy patients from across the Middle East, Russia, and Central Asia, who sought his expertise specifically. Zayn wasn't just a surgeon, recalled Dr. James Morrison, an American anesthesiologist who worked with him for 6 years. He was a brand. The hospital marketed him like a luxury product and patients paid accordingly.
Outside the operating theater, Dr. Alarscy cultivated the image of a medical humanitarian. He served on the board of three prominent healthcare charities, donated significantly to medical missions in conflict zones, and appeared regularly on local television discussing advances in cardiac care. His annual medical symposium drew cardiac specialists from 47 countries.
He was photographed with royalty, featured in Emirates Airlines inflight magazine, and received the Golden Excellence Award from the UAE Ministry of Health in both 2019 and 2021. His marriage to Nadia al- Farci Nay Alves Rui at age 32 had further cemented his social standing. Nadia, now 43, was the daughter of Fahad Alves Rui, whose construction empire had built much of modern Dubai.
Their wedding at the Burjal Arab had been featured in Vogue Arabia with 600 guests including minor royalty and international celebrities. The couple maintained a spectacular 5,200 ft penthouse in Dubai Marina with views of the Palm Jira, a summer home in Switzerland and an extensive art collection focused on contemporary Middle Eastern artists.
They appeared together at charity gallas, art exhibitions, and the Dubai World Cup. always impeccably dressed and camera ready. But according to later testimony from household staff, they maintained separate bedrooms and rarely dined together. The marriage appeared to be one of mutual benefit rather than affection.



AI Overview:Filipina Nurse Tragic Affair with A Dubai Surgeon
The case of the Filipina nurse's tragic affair with a Dubai surgeon is a widely circulated true crime story involving Dr. Zain Al-Farsi (also referred to as Dr. Zay Alarscy) and a nurse named Amihan. According to viral reports and social media accounts, the affair began as a professional mentorship at Dubai Crescent Hospital before spiraling into a controlling and obsessive relationship. 
Key Details of the Story
  • The VictimAmihan, a compassionate Filipina nurse who was reportedly sending money back to her family in the Philippines.
  • The PerpetratorDr. Zain Al-Farsi, a 46-year-old "star" heart surgeon in Dubai.
  • The Crime: In September 2023, after Amihan attempted to end the relationship to return home and care for her sick mother, the surgeon reportedly lured her to the hospital morgue under the pretense of a "special case".
  • Discovery: Her body was found by morgue staff during a routine morning check, locked inside a morgue freezer. 
  • Real-Life Context and Investigations
While the specific story of "Amihan" and "Dr. Zain" is often featured on "True Crime" social media pages, there are several real-life cases involving Filipina nurses in the UAE that have drawn official government attention:
  • Reyna Jane Ancheta: In October 2024, the Philippine News Agency reported on the death of Filipino nurse Reyna Jane Ancheta, who was found dead on a highway in Abu Dhabi after being missing for three days.
  • Ongoing Inquiries: Outlets like Inquirer.net have covered the investigation into the death of Filipina nurse where the family suspected a cover-up after being told she died in a car accident. 
  • Similar Incidents: In 2018, Asia Times reported on a Saudi man charged for an affair with a Filipina nurse who ultimately committed suicide after he allegedly exploited her financially. 
  • Public Reaction: Many of these stories, including the Filipina nurse's affair with a Dubai surgeon, continue to gain traction on social media platforms like Facebook, where they are often used to highlight the vulnerabilities of Overseas Filipino Workers (OFWs).

The Other Legendary Cathedrals and Basilicas in Europe and the Philippines


This Posting is inspired from the Recent Papal Blessings of the Sagrada Familia Basilica in Barcelona, Spain 

Besides the surreal, finished spires of the Sagrada Família, the world is home to several other legendary cathedrals and basilicas, each defined by unique architectural marvels, immense historical gravity, and cultural significance.
The most prominent include: Photos Inside the Cathedral's:   
1. St. Peter's Basilica (Vatican City)
Located in the heart of Rome, this is the epicenter of Catholicism and one of the largest churches in the world. Designed by Renaissance masters like Michelangelo (who engineered its iconic dome) and Bernini, it holds breathtaking artwork and stands above the traditional burial site of Saint Peter.
2. Notre-Dame de Paris (Paris, France)
Known globally as a masterpiece of French Gothic architecture, this iconic cathedral features stunning flying buttresses, striking rose windows, and historic gargoyles. After undergoing extensive restorations, it remains a symbol of French history and resilience.
3. Duomo di Milano (Milan, Italy)
Taking nearly six00 years to complete, this massive Gothic cathedral boasts an intricate white marble facade and is adorned with over 3,400 statues and 135 spires. Its roof is famously walkable, giving visitors a chance to see the architecture up close.
4. Hagia Sophia (Istanbul, Turkey)
Originally built as a Byzantine cathedral in 537 AD, this monumental structure is renowned for its massive central dome. Over its 1,500-year history, it has served as an Orthodox basilica, an imperial mosque, and a museum, reflecting the complex, layered history of Istanbul. 
5. Cologne Cathedral (Cologne, Germany)
A UNESCO World Heritage Site, this magnificent structure is one of the largest Gothic churches in Northern Europe. Its twin spires dominate the city skyline and it contains a wealth of medieval treasures, including the Shrine of the Three Kings. 
6. Seville Cathedral (Seville, Spain)
Holding the title of the largest Gothic cathedral ever built, this immense structure was constructed on the site of a former mosque. It features spectacular Islamic architectural traces (such as the Giralda bell tower) and is the final resting place of Christopher Columbus. 
7. Florence Cathedral / Duomo di Santa Maria del Fiore (Florence, Italy)
Easily recognizable by its striking pink, white, and green marble exterior, this cathedral is most famous for Filippo Brunelleschi's massive masonry dome. It remains an enduring symbol of the Italian Renaissance. 
How Many Have you Visited? For Me, Only One- The St Peter's Basilica in Rome.
Meanwhile, Do you know the are four Spanish-colonial era churches designated as a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 1993.
 They feature a distinct architectural style that blends European Baroque design with Chinese and Philippine craftsmanship, specifically engineered to withstand earthquakes. 
These four National Cultural Treasures span across the archipelago:

  • San Agustin Church (Manila)
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     Located inside the historic walled city of Intramuros. Completed in 1607, it is the oldest stone church in the country and is known for its spectacular trompe-l'œil ceiling paintings.
  • Paoay Church (Ilocos Norte): Officially the Church of San Agustin, it is instantly recognizable by its massive side and back buttresses designed to protect the structure from frequent seismic activity. 
  • Santa Maria Church (Ilocos Sur): Also known as the Church of Our Lady of the Assumption, it is uniquely perched on a hill and separated from its bell tower to act as a fortress. 
  • Miagao Church (Iloilo): The Church of Santo Tomas de Villanueva is famous for its heavily carved fortress-like facade, featuring a prominent relief of St. Christopher carrying the Christ Child amidst local flora.
Finally, Our Very Own  Boac Cathedral- Where we Celebrated our Wedding Day and 50th Wedding Anniversary 




 
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