WELCOME TO CHATEAU DU MER BEACH RESORT

If this is your first time in my site, welcome! Chateau Du Mer is a beach house and a Conference Hall. The beach house could now accommodate 10 guests, six in the main floor and four in the first floor( air conditioned room). In addition, you can now reserve your vacation dates ahead and pay the rental fees via PayPal. I hope to see you soon in Marinduque- Home of the Morions and Heart of the Philippines. The photo above was taken during our first Garden Wedding ceremony at The Chateau Du Mer Gardens. I have also posted my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes in this site. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own, but I have no intention on the infringement of your copyrights!

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Marinduque Awaits You

Friday, February 6, 2026

Why Egyptians Worshiped Cats -My Batman and Robin

From My Readings About Cats: The domestic cat is one of the most biologically perfect creatures on Earth.
THAT’S WHY THE EGYPTIANS WORSHIPED THEM!!
It might sound exaggerated, but it’s not. Science has revealed something incredible: the domestic cat is one of the most biologically perfect creatures on Earth.
Their design borders on genius. A spine so flexible it can twist 180° mid-jump. Lightning-fast neuromuscullar reflexes. Night vision six times stronger than ours. And hearing so sharp it picks up frequencies that escape most mammals. Even their heart beats with the rhythm of an elite athlete and their brain shares more similarities with ours than almost any other domestic animal.
But the cat’s perfection goes beyond biology. Its behavior blends independence, precision, and empathy. Cats know exactly when to approach, when to observe, and when to vanish. They are silent hunters, yet emotionally attuned companions, balancing instinct and intuition with almost mathematical grace.
For biologists, the cat represents the pinnacle of evolutionary balance, strength, agility, and sensitivity wrapped in one extraordinary creature.

In addition:


My Two Pet Cats-Batman and Robin- Enjoying Sunshine in their Catio(THD)

My Food For Thought for Today:

The Golden Rules of Life:


The top Five News of the Day:

  • Iran & U.S. hold indirect talks in Oman — High-stakes discussions aimed at reducing Middle East tensions are underway after recent military actions by both sides, with U.S. and Iranian representatives negotiating through intermediaries in Oman. 

  • Trump requests U.S. landmarks named after him in budget deal — President Trump reportedly has asked that Penn Station in NYC and Dulles Airport in Virginia be renamed after him as part of negotiations to advance federal funding. 

  • Major Ukraine–Russia developments amid ongoing conflict — Kyiv and Moscow completed a significant prisoner exchange during peace talks, indicating the most meaningful diplomatic progress in months in the war. 

  • Olympic drama: Lindsey Vonn to compete despite ACL injury — Skiing legend Lindsey Vonn, 41, is expected to race for Team USA at the 2026 Milano-Cortina Winter Olympics despite recently rupturing her ACL, inspiring global sports headlines. 

  • Wall Street & global markets react to tech sell-offs — Stock markets and bitcoin swung sharply today, with tech losses initially dragging markets before a partial recovery; crypto saw wild price moves as investor sentiment shifted. 


  • Thursday, February 5, 2026

    The Barong Tagalog=Filipino Identity- Filipino DNA


    In the sweltering heat of colonial Manila, under the watchful eyes of Spanish friars and officials, a simple garment became a badge of subjugation and, quietly, a banner of defiance.
    The barong tagalog, with its sheer piña and jusi fabric, was no accident of fashion. From the 16th to the 19th century, colonial decrees required Filipino men, Indios, to wear this transparent, untucked, pocketless shirt. Spanish elites dressed in thick European coats that could hide weapons or valuables. Filipinos could not. Their clothing was meant to make them visibly “harmless,” humble, and controlled.
    But history has a way of rewriting meaning.
    In 1892, José Rizal stepped into intellectual salons wearing his barong not with shame, but with pride turning a garment of submission into quiet resistance. By the 1896 Revolution, Andres Bonifacio and the Katipuneros charged into battle in barongs billowing in the wind. What was once a mark of inferiority became a declaration:
    We are men of honor. We are equal. We are free.
    After independence in 1946, the barong rose again no longer forced, but chosen. Presidents were sworn in wearing it. Grooms married in it. Diplomats carried it to global stages. From the looms of Ilocos to the fibers of Aklan, its embroidery began telling a new story, one of resilience, dignity, and identity reclaimed.
    The barong was never just clothing. It is living proof that Filipinos turned imposed shame into cultural pride and that true identity cannot be legislated away.
    A Space-Age Barong- Would I like to Get One? No...

    Meanwhile, 
    Did you know that there is no such thing as a "pure" Filipino DNA?
    Genetic studies reveal that the Philippines is home to one of the world's most ethnically diverse populations, with most individuals carrying a complex blend of Austronesian, East Asian, and Melanesian heritage.
    Extensive research, including a massive study of 115 cultural groups, shows that while the population is predominantly East/Southeast Asian (~94%), many Filipinos also carry significant traces of South Asian, Southern European, and even Native American genetic markers from centuries of global trade and migration.
    This unique "genetic crossroads" means that almost every Filipino is a product of thousands of years of mixing, reflecting a truly global heritage within a single archipelago.

    Finally, Fish Extinct for 70 Million Years

    Imagine seeing a creature thought lost to time for 70 million years swimming right before your eyes. Scientists have just captured photographs of a fish long believed extinct, a true living relic from the prehistoric oceans. This astonishing discovery challenges our assumptions about extinction and reveals how some species can survive in hidden corners of the world, untouched by human eyes for millions of years.
    This extraordinary fish belongs to a lineage that coexisted with the dinosaurs, surviving massive extinction events that wiped out countless species. Its survival highlights the resilience of life and the mysteries that still linger in remote rivers, lakes, and oceans. Paleontologists are thrilled because such discoveries allow us to study traits and behaviours that have remained virtually unchanged for tens of millions of years, offering a direct connection to Earth’s distant past.
    Finding a living fossil like this also provides crucial insight into evolution and adaptation. Scientists can compare its physiology, DNA, and behaviour with fossil relatives to understand how some species manage to endure while others vanish. These creatures remind us that life is full of surprises and that even the most ancient lineages can persist in ways we never imagined.
    Strange fact for this post this fish likely has a very slow metabolism and can survive in low-oxygen environments, traits that may have allowed it to persist for millions of years while other species perished.
    "Meet the living fossil that survived 70 million years! 🐟✨ Click to uncover the secrets of this ancient fish’s survival!

    My Photo of the Day: Batman. 1-30-26

    The Man Who Saved the World in 1962

    From My History Readings This Week 
    His name was Vasili Arkhipov. And on October 27, 1962, he made the most important decision in human history. Most people have never heard of him. He never sought fame. He lived quietly, died quietly, and for forty years, the world had no idea that a single word he spoke, "no", prevented World War III. This is the story of the day one man saved eight billion lives.

    October 1962. The Cuban Missile Crisis. 

    For thirteen days, the United States and Soviet Union stood at the brink of nuclear annihilation. Soviet Premier Nikita Khrushchev had secretly placed nuclear missiles in Cuba, ninety miles from Florida. President Kennedy ordered a naval blockade. The world held its breath.

    But while diplomats negotiated in Washington and Moscow, the real danger wasn't happening in conference rooms. It was happening in the dark, crushing depths of the Caribbean Sea, aboard a Soviet submarine called B-59. Four Soviet Foxtrot-class submarines had been sent secretly to Cuba in early October. Each carried twenty-two torpedoes. And each had one special weapon: a nuclear-tipped torpedo with the explosive power of the Hiroshima bomb.

    B-59 was commanded by Captain Valentin Savitsky. Aboard as flotilla commander and second-in-command was Vasili Arkhipov, a quiet, methodical officer who'd survived something most men don't survive.

    Sixteen months earlier, Arkhipov had been executive officer on the submarine K-19 when its nuclear reactor cooling system failed. With no way to contact Moscow, the crew faced a choice: let the reactor melt down, or jury-rig a backup cooling system while exposed to lethal radiation.

    Seven engineers and their officer volunteered. They worked in the reactor compartment knowing they were dying with every second. They saved the ship. And they died within a month from radiation poisoning. Fifteen more crew members died over the next two years. Arkhipov was exposed too. The radiation was already in his body, a slow death sentence that would take thirty-seven years to kill him.
    But in October 1962, he was alive. And he was about to save everyone else.

    On October 22, Kennedy announced the blockade. By October 25, U.S. Navy anti-submarine forces had detected all four Soviet submarines. They began hunting them relentlessly using a tactic called "hunt to exhaustion", the same method used against German U-boats in World War II. For B-59, it became hell.

    The submarine couldn't surface to charge batteries or run air conditioning. They stayed deep, hiding, suffocating. Inside the steel tube, temperatures climbed above 50 degrees Celsius-122 degrees Fahrenheit. In some compartments, it reached 60°C (140°F).

    Sailors collapsed from heatstroke. The air turned thick with carbon dioxide. Breathing became painful. Men fainted. The three diesel engines and batteries produced so much heat the submarine became an underwater oven.
    They had no contact with Moscow. Radio signals couldn't penetrate the depths they were hiding at. They didn't know what was happening above. They didn't know if war had already started.

    For days, they endured this. Exhausted. Dehydrated. Suffocating. Isolated.
    Then, on October 27, the most dangerous day of the entire Cold War,, eleven U.S. destroyers and the aircraft carrier USS Randolph found them. The Americans began dropping depth charges. Practice depth charges signaling explosives meant to force submarines to surface for identification. 

    The U.S. Navy had sent a message explaining this procedure. B-59 never received it. Inside the submarine, the explosions were deafening. The hull shook violently. Metal screamed. Men thought they were dying.

    "They exploded right next to the hull," recalled intelligence officer Vadim Orlov, who was aboard. "It felt like you were sitting on a metal barrel, which somebody is constantly blasting with a sledgehammer."

    Captain Savitsky believed war had started. They were under attack. Russia was probably being bombed. This was it. He made his decision. "We're going to blast them now!" he shouted. "We will die, but we will sink them all! We will not disgrace our Navy!"

    He ordered the nuclear torpedo armed and readied for launch. If that torpedo had been fired, it would have destroyed multiple American ships. The United States would have immediately assumed World War III had begun. Soviet cities would have been hit with nuclear weapons. American cities would have been destroyed in retaliation. Every major population center in both countries, gone. Billions dead in hours. Nuclear winter. The end of civilization.

    But Soviet protocol required three officers to authorize a nuclear launch: the captain, the political officer, and the flotilla commander. Captain Savitsky said yes. Load the torpedo. Fire. Political Officer Ivan Maslennikov said yes. We're at war. Destroy them.

    Everyone looked at the third officer. Vasili Arkhipov. The submarine was an oven. Carbon dioxide poisoning was making people delirious. They'd been hunted for days. Explosions rocked the hull. Death seemed certain. Every logical indicator said: war has started. Fire before we die. Arkhipov said no.

    "This is not war," he said calmly. "These are signals. Practice depth charges. If war had started, they would have used real weapons by now."

    Savitsky argued. Shouted. The torpedo was armed. The Americans were right above them. This was their moment. Arkhipov refused to budge. "We need to surface. We need to make contact with Moscow. We don't fire without orders."

    They argued for minutes that felt like hours. In that steel coffin, with bombs exploding overhead, with men fainting from heat, with everyone believing death was seconds away, Arkhipov held firm.

    He wasn't being brave. He wasn't grandstanding. He was being rational.
    He'd faced nuclear disaster before, on K-19. He'd watched men die from split-second panic decisions. He'd learned that in the worst moments, calm thinking saves lives.

    And he had authority. As flotilla commander, he outranked both men in the chain of command. His vote counted. Finally, Savitsky relented. B-59 began its ascent.
    They surfaced into a nightmare. Searchlights blinded them. Eleven American warships surrounded them. Helicopters buzzed overhead. USS Randolph loomed like a mountain.

    But the Americans didn't fire. They signaled: identify yourself. The Soviets flew their flag. Requested the Americans stop "provocative actions." After a tense standoff, B-59 was allowed to withdraw. They sailed back to the Soviet Union in disgrace, many Soviet leaders were furious they'd revealed their position.

    But they were alive. The Americans were alive. The world was alive. No one on the American side knew B-59 carried nuclear weapons. No one knew how close they'd come. The U.S. Navy thought they were just forcing a conventional submarine to surface.

    October 28, Kennedy and Khrushchev reached an agreement. The missiles in Cuba would be removed. The crisis ended.

    But it had nearly ended very differently. In the dark, underwater, three men almost started World War III and one man stopped them. For forty years, no one knew.
    Arkhipov continued serving in the Soviet Navy. He was promoted to rear admiral in 1975, became head of the Kirov Naval Academy, was promoted to vice admiral in 1981, and retired in the mid-1980s.

    He settled in Zheleznodorozhny, a small town outside Moscow. He lived with his wife Olga and their daughter Yelena. He never told them what he'd done. It was classified. Secret. "He would always say, 'I can't tell you now, but one day you will know,'" his grandson later recalled.

    On August 19, 1998, Vasili Arkhipov died of kidney cancer at age seventy-two. The radiation from K-19, the exposure he'd sustained saving his first submarine from meltdown had finally killed him.

    He died quietly. A few mourners attended his funeral. The world didn't notice.
    Four years later, in 2002, at a conference marking the 40th anniversary of the Cuban Missile Crisis, retired Commander Vadim Orlov revealed the truth: B-59 had carried nuclear weapons. Arkhipov had prevented their use.

    Thomas Blanton, director of the U.S. National Security Archive, said: "A guy called Vasili Arkhipov saved the world."

    Suddenly, the world understood. That quiet Soviet officer who'd died four years earlier had made the most consequential decision in human history.

    In 2017, nineteen years after his death, the Future of Life Institute presented its inaugural Future of Life Award to Arkhipov's family. The award recognizes "exceptional measures, often performed despite personal risk and without obvious reward, to safeguard the collective future of humanity." Think about what that means.

    Every person reading this exists because Vasili Arkhipov said no. Every child born since 1962. Every city that wasn't vaporized. Every book written, every song composed, every discovery made, every moment of love and laughter and human connection in the last sixty-three years.

    All of it depends on one word spoken by one man in an underwater steel tube while bombs exploded overhead and everyone around him was screaming to fire.
    One "no."

    That's the power of moral courage. That's what happens when someone refuses to follow the crowd even when the crowd is certain they're right. Arkhipov's story teaches something profound about leadership, about courage, about thinking clearly when chaos demands panic.

    He wasn't superhuman. He was scared too. He just didn't let fear override reason.
    He'd seen disaster before, on K-19, where panic could have meant meltdown, where discipline and cold calculation saved lives. He applied those lessons when it mattered most.

    In a world that often celebrates aggression as strength, Arkhipov showed that sometimes the strongest thing you can do is refuse. Say no. Hold the line. Think when everyone else has stopped thinking.

    His story matters today because we still live in a world with thousands of nuclear weapons. We still have moments when fear and misunderstanding could spiral into catastrophe. We still need people who can say "wait" when everyone else is saying "now."

    Vasili Arkhipov never wanted to be a hero. He was a submarine officer doing his job. But history gave him a choice that no one should ever have to make, and he made it correctly. He chose life over death. Reason over rage. The future over oblivion.
    He saved eight billion lives with one word. And most of us will never know his name.

    But now you do. Now you know that on October 27, 1962, in the heat and darkness of a submarine off Cuba, one man stood alone and prevented the end of the world.
    The next time someone tells you that one person can't make a difference, remember Vasili Arkhipov. Remember the man who said no when two others said yes. Remember the man who saved the world.

    Finally, here's the top Five News of the Day:
    1️⃣ U.S. & Russia Move to Extend Nuclear Arms Control After Treaty Expiration

    Leaders from the U.S. and Russia are close to agreeing to continue observing the New START nuclear arms control treaty despite its official expiration, following talks in Abu Dhabi. Final approval from the presidents is still pending. 

    2️⃣ Search Continues for Savannah Guthrie’s Missing Mother

    Search efforts for Today show host Savannah Guthrie’s 84-year-old mother, Nancy Guthrie, enter the fifth day. Family and authorities are urging the public for tips and information. 

    3️⃣ Democrats Outline 10 Demands Targeting ICE Funding Policies

    Senate Democratic leaders released a letter with 10 policy demands in an effort to reshape federal immigration enforcement and oversight of ICE. 

    4️⃣ Trump Administration Reportedly Eases Firing Rules for Senior Federal Workers

    Wall Street Journal report states the Trump administration is preparing new policies to make it easier to remove senior civil servants — a significant shift in federal personnel rules. 

    5️⃣ Major Wall Street Law Firm Chair Resigns After Epstein-Related Emails Leak

    The chairman of Paul Weiss law firm resigned after emails showing social ties to Jeffrey Epstein were released, sparking controversy and scrutiny. 


    Wednesday, February 4, 2026

    The Cultural Practice of Removing Shoes Before Entering a Home

    The Cultural Practice of Removing Shoes Before Entering a Home - Origins, Meaning, and Global Context
    In many cultures around the world today, it’s common for people to remove shoes or slippers before entering a home. While this habit may feel natural for some, its origins stretch back centuries and are rooted in cleanliness, respect, architecture, and religion. In this article, we’ll explore where the practice likely began, why it spread, and what it means in different cultural contexts.

    1. Ancient Traditions of Purity and Respect

    Long before modern houses existed, many ancient civilizations practiced removing footwear when entering sacred or inner spaces. For example, depictions from ancient Egypt show priests and royalty removing sandals before entering temple interiors, symbolizing purity and separation from the outside world. Later narratives, such as the biblical story of Moses at Mount Sinai emphasized removing sandals at divine thresholds, reinforcing the idea that sacred ground should be approached without outdoor shoes.
    2. Origins in East Asia - Especially Japan

    The most documented and historically continuous source of the modern habit of removing shoes before entering a house comes from Japan.
    In traditional Japanese culture, this custom goes back at least to the Heian period (794–1185 CE), beginning among the upper classes and eventually spreading throughout all social levels. Japanese homes have a special entrance area called a genkan, specifically designed for shoe removal before stepping into the main interior of the home.
    There were practical reasons behind this: traditional Japanese living involved sitting, eating, and sleeping on the floor, often on tatami mats which needed to be kept clean and free of outdoor dirt.
    Religious influences from Shinto and Buddhism also reinforced the idea that cleanliness and purity were spiritually significant, further embedding the practice into everyday life.
    Disclaimer: While Japan’s tradition is one of the strongest historical sources for indoor shoe removal, it is important to note that many cultures independently developed similar practices (for hygiene or spiritual reasons). There is no single original “inventor” of this custom that can be conclusively proven, rather, it emerged in multiple places for similar practical and symbolic reasons.
    3. Spread to Other Parts of Asia and the World

    Although commonly associated with Japan, shoe removal indoors is not unique to one culture:
    In Korea, shoes are often removed before entering a home, reflecting a similar emphasis on hygiene, cleanliness, and respect for the household.
    In China, the practice also occurred in historical contexts connected to etiquette and sitting on the floor.
    In Myanmar, people remove footwear before entering homes and Buddhist temples, blending hygiene with religious respect.
    In South Asia and the Middle East, removing shoes before entering homes or places of worship is common, rooted in beliefs about purity and respect.
    Outside Asia, countries like Sweden and other Scandinavian regions also practice shoe removal indoors for cleanliness and comfort.
    4. Why the Practice Endures

    Across cultures, several core reasons explain why people remove shoes before entering homes:
    Cleanliness and Hygiene - Shoes pick up soil, germs, and outdoor contaminants that would otherwise be brought directly into living spaces.
    Respect for the Home - In many traditions, entering another’s home without outdoor footwear signals respect for the space and its inhabitants.
    Architectural Design - Traditional flooring materials like tatami mats in Japan or heated floors in Korea made shoe removal necessary to protect interiors.
    Spiritual or Ritual Significance - Some belief systems view barefoot entry as a gesture of humility and purity.
    5. Conclusion

    The custom of removing shoes before entering a home is ancient and globally widespread. While Japan’s long-documented history of this practice provides a clear early example, especially tied to its tatami culture and spiritual beliefs, the idea of leaving outdoor footwear behind has developed independently in many cultures because of shared values like cleanliness, respect, and reverence. There is no single culture that can claim absolute origin, but Japan is among the earliest and most influential examples of this enduring tradition.


    Removing shoes before entering a home is a widespread cultural practice spanning Asia, the Middle East, and parts of Europe and Canada, 
    rooted in cleanliness, respect, and, in some cases, spiritual purity. Primarily, it prevents tracking outdoor contaminants like dirt, bacteria, and toxins inside. It serves as a gesture of respect for the host and, in many traditions, signifies transitioning from the chaotic outside world into a clean, peaceful, and private home. 
    Origins and Cultural Significance
    • Japan: Deeply rooted in history (Heian period) and the culture of living/sleeping on tatami mats, it reflects the Shinto and Buddhist values of purity and respect.
    • Middle East/Asia: Often tied to Islamic principles of cleanliness (especially for prayer), where homes are kept ritually pure.
    • Korea/Turkey: Similar to Japan, the practice is essential for hygiene and shows respect for the home as a private space. 
    Global Context and Regional Variations
    • Asia/Middle East: Generally mandatory; removing shoes is considered a strict, non-negotiable etiquette in countries like Japan, Korea, and Turkey.
    • Scandinavia/Canada: Practiced widely due to practicality (snow, mud, slush) to keep homes clean.
    • Europe: Varies by country. It is common in Germany, Switzerland, and Nordic countries, but less strictly enforced in parts of Western Europe, such as France.
    • United States/Australia: Largely dependent on the household's personal preference, though it is increasing in popularity for hygiene reasons. 
    Meaning and Etiquette
    • Cleanliness: Floors are seen as living spaces, not just walkways.
    • Hospitality: Hosts often provide indoor slippers (terlik in Turkey, uwa-bakiin Japan) to guests.
    • Respect: It is a sign of respect for the homeowner's effort in maintaining a clean home.
    • Signage: In some regions, shoes are placed in a designated area (the genkan in Japan) and turned to face the door for easy exit. 
    • Meanwhile, Did you know that.....
      Long before Christianity arrived, many pre-colonial Filipino groups already believed in a multi-layered afterlife.
      For the Tagalogs, there was Maca- the peaceful resting place for the good and Casanaan - the place of punishment for wrongdoers.
      In other words, the idea of Heaven and Hell already existed here… just under different names. Spain didn’t introduce the concept. It only replaced the language.
      Did you know Filipinos already had an afterlife system before colonization?
      How different do you think our beliefs would be if these weren’t erased?

      🇵🇭Lastly, Cinematography History Made
      Autumn Durald Arkapaw officially made history after being nominated for an Academy Award for Best Cinematography-becoming the first woman of Filipino descent to receive a nomination in this prestigious category.
      She earned the nomination for her striking visual work on the film Sinners, a project widely praised for its bold visual language, emotional depth, and technical precision.

      Why this nomination matters
      1. Breaking barriers in a male-dominated field. 

      Cinematography has historically been one of the most male-dominated crafts in Hollywood. Arkapaw’s nomination represents a major step forward not just for women, but for women of color, particularly Filipina creatives working behind the camera.
      2. Filipino representation on Hollywood’s biggest stage

      While Filipinos have long been underrepresented in top technical categories at the Oscars, this nomination places Filipino excellence squarely in one of the Academy’s most respected artistic honors.
      3. Recognition of a powerful visual voice

      In Sinners, Arkapaw is credited with:
      • Using expressive lighting to heighten emotional tension
      • Employing dynamic camera movement to reflect character psychology
      • Creating a visual tone that critics described as immersive, unsettling, and deeply human
      4.
      🎞️
      About Autumn Durald Arkapaw
      • Filipino-American cinematographer based in the U.S.
      • Known for her ability to blend intimate storytelling with bold visual experimentation
      • Has worked across independent films, studio features, and high-profile collaborations
      • Widely respected for mentoring and advocating for women and underrepresented creatives in film
      5. 🏆 A milestone moment
      Her nomination places her alongside the world’s top cinematographers at the Academy Awards, marking a watershed moment for:
      • Women in film
      • Asian and Filipino representation
      • The next generation of Filipina creatives dreaming beyond traditional limits
      📽️ From the camera lens to Oscar history—Autumn Durald Arkapaw didn’t just shoot a film, she changed the frame.
      My Photo of the Day: My Dinner Tonight:Feb 4, 2026
      Sweet Potato and Chili Beans Casserole with Shrimps and on the Side, Fried Pompano ( from Martha R) with mixed beans and rice and leak potato soup.
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