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Tuesday, October 27, 2026
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From Summa Cum Laude to Penn: A Proud Lolo’s Reflection on the Next Generation
From Summa Cum Laude to Penn: A Proud Lolo’s Reflection on the Next Generation
There are moments in a grandparent’s life when words like proud do not seem quite enough.
This is one of those moments for me. My granddaughter, Carenna Katague-Thompson, graduated this past May from The George Washington UniversitySumma Cum Laude. She earned her Bachelor of Science from the Elliott School of International Affairs, with a double major in Geography and a minor in Geographic Information Systems (GIS).
As her Lolo, I could not be more proud of what she has accomplished.
But what makes this moment even more special is that Carenna is not stopping here.
This week, she is beginning her Master's degree at the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia.
Watching a grandchild move from one important chapter of her education into another gives me an opportunity to reflect on what education has meant in my own life.
Education Has Always Been Important to Me
I grew up in a small town in Iloilo, Philippines, at a time when opportunities were very different from what young people have today.
My own educational journey eventually took me from the Philippines to the United States, where I earned my Ph.D. in Pharmaceutical Chemistry from the University of Illinois Medical Center in Chicago.
Education opened doors for me that I could hardly have imagined when I was growing up in Barotac Viejo.
It gave me the opportunity to become a scientist, a teacher, a researcher, and eventually an FDA review chemist and team leader.
Looking back, I have always believed that one of the greatest gifts we can give our children and grandchildren is not money or material possessions, but the encouragement to learn and the opportunity to pursue an education.
Carenna's Achievement Makes Me Proud
When I look at Carenna's accomplishments, I see more than impressive academic credentials.
Graduating Summa Cum Laude tells me something about her discipline, perseverance, and commitment to excellence.
A double major in Geography and a minor in Geographic Information Systems also tell me that she has chosen fields that can help her understand our increasingly interconnected world.
Geography today is much more than studying maps. Combined with GIS, it can help us understand population movement, cities, the environment, resources, international development, and many of the complex challenges facing societies around the world.
And now she is taking another important step by beginning her graduate studies at the University of Pennsylvania.
As I think about her journey, I find myself asking the same question I have asked throughout my own life:
Where will education take her next? I don't know the answer. I hope she gets a job near me after her Master's Degree.
And perhaps that is one of the most exciting things about being young.
From One Generation to Another
One of the beautiful things about being a grandfather is watching the next generation go places that you never had the opportunity to go.
I came to America in 1960 as a young Filipino immigrant.
Today, one of my grandchildren is beginning graduate studies at one of America's great universities.
That thought does not make me feel old. Instead, it makes me feel grateful.
Our lives are connected across generations. The sacrifices and opportunities of one generation become the foundation upon which the next generation builds.
My parents gave me the foundation to pursue education.
My wife Macrine and I tried to do the same for our children.
And now it is wonderful to watch our children and grandchildren build their own futures.
What I Hope for Carenna
As Carenna begins this new chapter at Penn, I hope she remembers that education is not simply about earning degrees.
A degree is important, but what we do with our knowledge is even more important.
I hope she remains curious. I hope she continues to ask questions.
I hope she uses her education not only to advance her own career but also to make a difference in the lives of others.
And most of all, I hope she enjoys the journey and be happy.
Life has taught me that success is not always measured by titles, degrees, salaries, or accomplishments.
Sometimes success is simply becoming the best person we can be and using whatever talents we have been given to help others.
A Proud Lolo
At 91, I have had the privilege of watching several generations of my family grow.
I am now a great-grandfather, or as I like to say, a Super LOLO and Apo sa Tuhod.
I have six grandchildren and two great-grandsons, and each one gives me a different reason to be thankful.
But today, this post is about Carenna. Carenna, congratulations on graduating Summa Cum Laude from George Washington University.
And congratulations on beginning your Master's journey at the University of Pennsylvania.
Your Lolo is very proud of you. You have already accomplished much, but I have a feeling that this is only the beginning.
Go to Philadelphia, learn as much as you can, meet people from different backgrounds, challenge yourself, and continue to dream.
And remember something your Lolo has learned over a lifetime:
Education may open the door, but character, perseverance, curiosity, and compassion determine where that door will lead you.
I cannot wait to see where your journey takes you.
Congratulations, Carenna. Your Lolo is cheering for you from California!
And to my readers around the world, especially my fellow seniors: perhaps one of the greatest joys of growing older is realizing that our story does not end with us.
We live on through the dreams, accomplishments, and possibilities of the generations that follow us.
Four Generations, Four Hours, and a Lifetime of Love-Part 2 of 2
Four Generations, Four Hours, and a Lifetime of Love-Part 2 of 2
The Joseph Family, Dinah and I, Rohnert Park, CA, 9-2-26
September 2 was one of the happiest days of my life this year.
Dinah and I drove for several hours to visit my great-grandson, Beau Joseph, who lives with his parents in a suburb of Portland, Oregon. The Family were vacationing in Santa Rosa. After another four hours with him and his family, I drove home tired, but deeply happy and grateful.
The long drive was worth every mile. The last time I saw Beau was in October last year, when he was barely four months old. Today, at thirteen months, he has changed so much. He has begun to crawl, and his little personality is beginning to reveal itself. He looked at me with an expression that seemed to ask:
Who is this old man looking at me with such a loving gaze?
I smiled at him and called him guapito- my little handsome boy.
For a few precious minutes, I was able to hold him in my arms. I kissed him gently on the head for a few seconds. Those moments may seem small to someone else, but to me they were enormous. They filled my heart with happiness and gratitude.
I am grateful that I am still able to make the journey. I am grateful that my arms could still hold him, even if only for a short time. I am grateful that my eyes could watch him crawl and explore, and that my heart could feel the wonder of seeing another generation of our family grow before me.
Today, I was not only visiting Beau. I was reconnecting with four generations of love.
I spent time with his mother, my granddaughter Elaine; his father, Kyle Joseph, my grandson-in-law; and my daughter Dinah, Beau’s grandmother and my oldest daughter. To see all of them together reminded me that a family is not merely a collection of individuals. It is a living story, passed from one generation to the next.
When I look at the photograph, I see more than five faces. I see the passage of time. I see the continuity of love. I see the people who came before us, even though they are no longer visible in the picture. I also see the future embodied in Beau, who is only beginning his journey in this world.
Pride in a Young FamilyI am also very proud of Elaine and Kyle.
About three months ago, they purchased a single-family home in a good neighborhood near Portland. They both have jobs, and through hard work, careful planning, and financial discipline, they were able to buy a home during the early years of their married life.
For young people today, this is not an easy achievement. In many parts of the United States, owning a home has become increasingly difficult for a young couple. The cost of housing is high, and the financial demands of beginning a family can be overwhelming.
That is why I admire what Elaine and Kyle have accomplished. Their new home represents more than bricks, walls, and a mortgage. It represents determination, responsibility, hope, and a place where Beau can grow.
I imagine him crawling across the floor, taking his first steps, learning new words, and gradually discovering the world around him. That home will hold many memories: birthdays, holidays, family dinners, laughter, disagreements, celebrations, and perhaps the sound of Beau calling for his parents.
A home becomes meaningful because of the life that takes place inside it.
The Gift of Being PresentWe went to a Children Play Ground Nearby after Lunch to Enjoy the Sun and More Visit Time
As we grow older, we learn that happiness does not always arrive in grand or dramatic ways. Sometimes it comes quietly, in the form of a child resting in our arms. Sometimes it appears in a kiss on a small head, a curious look, or a few hours spent with people we love.
Today reminded me that presence is one of the greatest gifts we can give one another.
I could not stay for several days. I could not spend the night or watch every new milestone. I had only four hours with Beau and his family before beginning the long drive home. But those four hours were enough to fill my heart.
Time is measured by clocks, but meaningful time is measured by what remains in the heart.
The drive home left me physically tired. My body reminded me that I am no longer young. But my spirit felt renewed. I carried with me the memory of Beau’s face, his curious eyes, his developing personality, and the warmth of holding him.
I also carried gratitude for my daughter, my granddaughter, my grandson-in-law, and this beautiful child who connects us all.
A Lifetime in One Photograph
One day, Beau may look at this photograph and wonder about the old man standing beside him. Perhaps he will be told that I was his great-grandfather, that I traveled four hours to see him, and that I held him in my arms and kissed him on the head.
He may not remember this visit. He may not remember the word guapito. But I will remember it for the rest of my life.
And perhaps, many years from now, he will understand what this picture represents: four generations gathered together, briefly united by family, history, and love.
Today was only one day. It was only four hours. But sometimes four hours can contain a lifetime of love.
Personal Note: I have another great grandson, two months older than Beau. His name is Graham and the son of Dinah's son, Ian.
I have not seen him in person for a quite a while. I am hoping to see him on my 92nd Birthday this coming December 20.
Lastly, My Photo of the Day:
The jade vine, Strongylodon macrobotrys, is a leguminous vine endemic to the Philippines. Specimens were collected on Mount Makiling, Luzon, in 1841 by the United States Exploring Expedition, and Harvard botanist Asa Gray described it. Its claw-shaped turquoise flowers hang in trusses up to 3 meters long and are pollinated in the wild by a bat. On Luzon the flowers are eaten as a vegetable called tayabak.
Hara Hachi Bu: How Mindful Eating Can Combat Outsized Portions
- Embrace the 20-minute delay. It takes roughly 20 minutes for your stomach to chemically signal your brain that it is full. If you eat quickly, you will hit 100% capacity before your brain even registers that you’ve started. Slow your pace, chew thoroughly, and give your internal communication system time to catch up.
- Downsize your dinnerware. Trick your brain by using smaller plates and bowls. A portion that looks meager on a massive restaurant-sized plate looks abundant on a smaller salad plate. This satisfies your visual hunger before you even take your first bite.
- Assess your hunger mid-meal. Halfway through your food, pause for a moment. Put down your utensils, take a breath, and ask yourself where you land on a scale from 1 to 10. If you no longer feel empty but aren't quite heavy yet, you are approaching the 80% sweet spot.
- Reframe leftovers as a win. Remove the societal guilt of leaving food on your plate. Instead of viewing leftovers as a chore, see them as a gift to your future self—a free, effortless lunch for tomorrow that spared your body from unnecessary digestive stress today.
- Eliminate digital distractions. Eating while scrolling on a phone, watching television, or working at a desk blindsides your awareness. When your mind is fully occupied elsewhere, your hand will mindlessly move food to your mouth long after your body has had enough.
- Justice Department Charges James Comey Again: The U.S. Justice Department has brought a third round of criminal charges against former FBI Director James Comey, accusing him of leaking information to the media.
- Trump Administration Election & Voter Fraud Moves: President Donald Trump announced a $1 million reward for information leading to the arrest and conviction of voter fraud, while the administration is facing legal battles over efforts to block vote certification in Alaska and challenge mail-in ballots in California ahead of the midterms.
- Israel Election and Regional Tensions: Israeli voters participate in high-turnout national elections with Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu fighting for political survival following heightened military and regional developments.
- Jay-Z Super Bowl Halftime Show: Rapper Jay-Z was announced to headline the 2027 Super Bowl Halftime Show.
- Ares Capital Acquires MidCap Financial: In major financial news, Ares Capital Corporation agreed to acquire MidCap Financial Investment Corporation in a $2.6 billion cash-and-stock deal.
- Federal Judge Blocks D.C. Golf Project Trees: U.S. District Judge Ana C. Reyes issued an injunction halting further tree removal and course closures at East Potomac Park in Washington, D.C..
Monday, October 26, 2026
The Healing Power of the Sea- Lumpia Ubod
- Mineral Absorption: Seawater contains high levels of magnesium, potassium, calcium, and sodium. Magnesium is absorbed through the skin, helping relax muscles, support cellular energy, and aid nerve function.
- Skin Health: Salt water acts as a natural exfoliant, clears excess oils, and magnesium-rich seawater can help soothe skin roughness and inflammation.
- Low-Impact Movement: The buoyancy of salt water reduces stress on joints, making swimming, walking, and paddleboarding easier ways to build cardiovascular strength. Airways and Breathing: Coastal air carries fine mineral particles and sea mist that can help keep upper airways moist. Breaking waves release negative ions that promote relaxation and clear breathing.
- Stress Reduction: Simply sitting or swimming by the sea lowers cortisol levels, slows the heart rate, and shifts the nervous system out of "fight-or-flight" mode.
- "Soft Fascination": The rhythmic sound of waves and expansive ocean horizons allow the brain to rest from mental fatigue, a concept explored in coastal wellness and National Geographic research.
- Mood Enhancement: Time spent near blue spaces helps trigger positive brain waves and reduces symptoms of anxiety and depression.
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