WELCOME TO CHATEAU DU MER BEACH RESORT

If this is your first time in my site, welcome! Chateau Du Mer is a beach house and a Conference Hall. The beach house could now accommodate 10 guests, six in the main floor and four in the first floor( air conditioned room). In addition, you can now reserve your vacation dates ahead and pay the rental fees via PayPal. I hope to see you soon in Marinduque- Home of the Morions and Heart of the Philippines. The photo above was taken during our first Garden Wedding ceremony at The Chateau Du Mer Gardens. I have also posted my favorite Filipino and American dishes and recipes in this site. Some of the photos and videos on this site, I do not own, but I have no intention on the infringement of your copyrights!

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands

Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands
View of Marinduque Mainland from Tres Reyes Islands-Click on photo to link to Marinduque Awaits You

Saturday, February 28, 2026

Frame Decorating -Another Enjoyable THD Activity

Today at 2 PM, our temporary but loyal activity Guru, Karen hosted another activity that I have not done before. I was surprised. I enjoyed it so much I was able to do two frames in less than one hour. Karen was assisted by Jan Muto who was in-charged with the glue gun. The above is one of my creation with an old water color AI copy from an original photo of myself and Macrine (RIP) taken in 1982.    Below are some of the photos I took during the frame decor activity today.








Jan Muto with her Glue Gun. Thank you, Jan for your Assistance at this Activity


Meanwhile, I learned today, I am related to Tingting Cojuangco per Gene.com



Tingting Cojuangco (b. 1944) is a prominent figure in Philippine society, known for her contributions to education, politics, and cultural preservation. Born into the influential Cojuangco family, she was well-positioned to make significant impacts in various fields. Tingting pursued higher education, earning degrees in history and anthropology, which laid the foundation for her future endeavors. In the 1980s, she became the governor of Tarlac, where she focused on improving local governance and infrastructure. Her tenure was marked by efforts to enhance educational opportunities and promote cultural heritage, reflecting her academic background. Tingting also played a role in national politics, serving as an advisor to President Gloria Macapagal Arroyo, where she influenced policy on education and cultural affairs. Throughout her career, Tingting Cojuangco has been a staunch advocate for the preservation of Filipino culture and history, contributing to various cultural and educational initiatives. Her work has left a lasting impact on the cultural landscape of the Philippines. For Details visit her Wikipedia Page:

 https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tingting_Cojuangco

TingTing is one of the less notable members of the Cojuanco Clan from Tarlac.   The Cojuangco family is a prominent, wealthy Filipino clan of Chinese descent (originating from Fujian) with deep roots in politics, agriculture, and business, particularly sugar (Hacienda Luisita) and banking
. Key branches include the Aquino-linked clan (producers of Presidents Cory Aquino and Noynoy Aquino) and the business-focused clan led by Eduardo "Danding" Cojuangco Jr..
Key Aspects of the Cojuangco Family:
  • Origins and Wealth: The family stems from Co Yuan Hwan (baptized as Martin Cojuangco) who arrived in the Philippines in the 1840s. They built their initial fortune in rice trading and money lending in Tarlac, later expanding into banking and agricultural landholdings like the 6,000-hectare Hacienda Luisita.
  • Political Influence: The family has held numerous local and national positions.
    • Corazon "Cory" Cojuangco-Aquino: 11th President of the Philippines (1986–1992).
    • Benigno "Noynoy" Cojuangco-Aquino III: 15th President of the Philippines (2010–2016).
    • José "Peping" Cojuangco Jr.: Former Congressman and influential political figure.
  • Business Empire:
    • Eduardo "Danding" Cojuangco Jr.: Former Chairman and CEO of San Miguel Corporation, one of the largest food and beverage corporations in Southeast Asia. He was a key crony of Ferdinand Marcos and a member of the "Rolex 12".
    • Antonio "Tony Boy" O. Cojuangco Jr.: Former Chairman and President of PLDT.
  • Controversies: The family has faced significant controversy regarding their landholdings, specifically the Hacienda Luisita, and the "coco levy" funds managed by Danding Cojuangco during the Marcos era.
Other Notable Members:
  • Mikee Cojuangco-Jaworski: Equestrienne, actress, and International Olympic Committee (IOC) member.
  • Gilbert Cojuangco Teodoro: Lawyer and politician.
  • Charlie Cojuangco: Politician (deceased).
  • Cojuangco - Wikipedia
    The Cojuangco clan is among the most powerful and influential families in the Philippines, exercising economic control over severa...
    Wikipedia
  • Danding Cojuangco - Wikipedia
    Eduardo "Danding" Murphy Cojuangco Jr. (June 10, 1935 – June 16, 2020) was a Filipino businessman and politician. He was the chair...
    Wikipedia
  • The Story Behind The Aquino and Cojuangco Clans - Tatler Asia
    Apr 1, 2020 — The Cojuangcos trace their roots to a Chinese immigrant father Co Yuan Hwan and his son José Cojuangco I from Xiamen who settled i...
    Tatler Asia
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Lastly, here  are the 11 things from an article about signs of you being raised right.

Signs of Good Upbringing
  • Not Surrounding Yourself with Toxic People: You can spot energy-drainers and politely show them the exit when necessary, prioritizing your mental health.
  • Not Bending Over Backwards to Please Everyone: You're not afraid to say "no" and prioritize your own needs, having learned that trying to win everyone's approval is exhausting and ineffective.
  • Not Letting Fear Keep You Stuck: You've learned to move forward despite fear, thanks to encouragement from your parents to take risks and learn from failures.
  • Not Ignoring What Makes You Feel Alive: You prioritize your passions and make time for activities that bring you joy, thanks to supportive parents who encouraged your curiosity.
  • Not Saying Yes to Everything: You've mastered the art of knowing when to commit and when to take a step back, protecting your time without guilt.
  • Not Being Your Own Harshest Critic: You practice self-kindness, speaking to yourself with compassion and recognizing that setbacks are a normal part of life.
  • Not Holding onto Grudges: You prioritize forgiveness and letting go, recognizing that holding grudges weighs you down and hurts your emotional well-being.
  • Not Ignoring Your Mental Health: You prioritize your mental well-being, taking breaks and seeking help when needed, thanks to a supportive upbringing.
  • Not Apologizing for Existing: You're confident in your worth and don't apologize for taking up space, asking for help, or setting boundaries.
  • Not Being the Person Who's Always Late: You respect others' time and show up when you say you will, demonstrating thoughtfulness and dependability.
  • Not Constantly Comparing Yourself to Others: You've learned to focus on your own journey, recognizing that comparisons are unhelpful and that success is defined on your own terms ¹.

Home Isn't just a Place- It's a Feeling

Chateau Du Mer Main House and Gardens-Our Second Home in the Philippines

Just recently, I posted in my blogs an article titled Home is not a Place, But in the Heart. 

https://chateaudumer.blogspot.com/2025/02/home-is-not-place-but-in-heart_17.html

I received numerous positive comments in that article, so that when I read the following paragraph from Lazy Traveler Blog this morning, I decided to repost it for your reading pleasure.

Here's the paragraph from the Lazy Traveler blog.

" Where flowers line the path, and the sunrise whispers: "You're home." 🌸💛 The golden morning light gently kisses the rooftops, casting a soft glow on the quiet street. A light breeze carries the sweet scent of blooming flowers, filling the air with warmth and comfort. Birds welcome the day with their cheerful songs, their melodies blending with the distant laughter of neighbors starting their morning routines. The world feels unhurried here, as if time itself respects the peace of the countryside. The cool pavement, still damp with dew, reflects the promise of a fresh start. Every corner of this place holds a familiar charm, a quiet embrace that makes you feel safe. In this morning light, home isn’t just a place - it’s a feeling. "🌿🏡

This was my primary residence here in the US from 2002 to 2023
The backyard and front yard of Primary Home before my move to THD in Fair Oaks, Ca 
This house was sold and my
downsizing move to THD was a resounding success, although a little bit painful at the beginning.  However, currently I am very Happy with my living situation here at THD.  

I am super grateful for the opportunity, of enjoying the Amenities offered by this active Senior Living Community (THD) here in Walnut Creek. THD has been awarded Best of Senior Living three years in a row by APlaceforMom.com

Meanwhile, Did you Know That,,,,

During the Spanish era, Filipino textiles were so exquisite that European elites prized them like gold! Piña cloth, woven from pineapple fibers, was worn by royalty and even made its way into the wardrobes of Spanish aristocrats.

Some fabrics were so fine they were compared to European lace. Yet, this rich textile heritage is often forgotten in history books.

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