The Seven Most Common Sexual Fantasies:

This posting is inspired from the draft of my unfinished novel, The Intellectual Migrants. In the draft of my unfinished novel, I had plans of incorporating short stories and episodes based on the seven common fantasies listed below. I was hoping that inclusion in my novel, of sexual fantasies, My novel will have wide readership etc.... But currently, I have no plans of completing my novel, even if I have the knowledge and availability of AI technology.  

The Seven Most Common Sexual Fantasies: A Peek into Our Private Desires

Sexual fantasies are an essential part of human imagination. They allow us to explore, create, and understand our desires in a safe, mental space. While everyone has unique fantasies, psychologists and sex researchers have found that certain themes recur across genders and ages. Here are seven of the most common sexual fantasies, each accompanied by a short illustrative story.

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1. Domination and Submission (Power Play)

Fantasy: One partner takes full control, while the other surrenders willingly.

Short Story: Samantha had always been the boss at work, but with Marcus, things shifted. One evening, she let go of control, allowing him to guide every move, every whisper. Bound gently and blindfolded, she discovered how freeing surrender could be when trust led the way.

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2. Group Sex (Threesomes or More)

Fantasy: Being the center of desire in a multi-partner experience.

Short Story: Eli and Nora had been together for five years. For their anniversary, they finally explored the idea they’d giggled about for years—a night with their friend Jordan. Nervous but excited, the evening unfolded with laughter, care, and connection, leaving their bond stronger than ever.

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3. Public or Risky Sex

Fantasy: Making love in a place where being caught is a real possibility.

Short Story: Under the stars at the edge of a secluded park, Michael and Claire couldn't resist the pull of spontaneity. A soft breeze, distant sounds, and the thrill of possibly being seen made everything feel more alive. It was the most electric night of their lives.

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4. Romantic or Passionate Sex

Fantasy: Deep connection, eye contact, slow and sensual love.

Short Story: After years of marriage, Lucille and Hector planned a weekend away. In the candle-lit room overlooking the ocean, they made love slowly, rediscovering the rhythm of each other. No rush, just closeness—a reminder that passion doesn't fade, it evolves.

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5. Same-Sex Fantasies

Fantasy: Exploring attraction toward the same gender, even for typically heterosexual individuals.

Short Story: At a wine tasting, Anne met Lila, a vibrant artist. What began as conversation turned into lingering glances. That night, Anne dreamed of their lips meeting—soft, curious, and tender. It didn’t change her identity, but it opened her world to new layers of attraction.

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6. Being Objectified or Worshipped

Fantasy: Being seen as irresistibly desirable, wanted, and admired.

Short Story: Derek always played it modest, but when his partner Maya surprised him with an evening of adoration—massages, whispered praises, soft kisses all over—he melted. For once, he was the prize, and it unlocked a confidence he never knew he had.

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7. Taboo or Forbidden Scenarios

Fantasy: Role-playing in forbidden or socially inappropriate roles (e.g., boss/employee, teacher/student).

Short Story: During a weekend getaway, Lisa and Tom decided to play a game. She was the uptight professor; he, the cheeky student late for his appointment. The game was silly at first—but soon, their laughter gave way to intensity, as the power dynamics blurred and pleasure took over.

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Final Thoughts

Fantasies are natural, personal, and diverse. They can be playful or profound, private or shared. What matters most is understanding them without judgment and communicating them with trust. After all, our imaginations are one of the richest parts of our intimate lives.

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